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 5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her, with none of this "confessing" nonsense

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EddyHyip
post Jun 26 2010, 10:27 PM

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QUOTE(thesixfaces @ Jun 12 2010, 04:26 PM)
I've done all the 5 steps, and after 1 month, me and this girl made a lot of progress.

In one month, we sent 1000+ sms to each other.
She tells me a lot of her secrets, and asks for my advice if she has a problem, and I do the same to her.

She laughs at all of my jokes, even if they're not funny.
We've gone out a couple of times with friends , but I haven't asked her out on a date before.

We have a lot in common, same birthday, like the same things, etc.
But, I don't think she's into me. People say we look good together.

Her friends say that around me, she's extremely shy. She likes to smile a lot when she looks at me, i dunno why.

For some reason, I think she likes me, but she doesn't want to go any further. We have a lot of fun together, but I think she doesn't want to show that she likes me.

Help!! Should I go further or just remain friends?
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well.. sometimes it's hard to read the girl's mind.. probably u might wanna test the water 1st. Guess till now both of u went out with a group of friends... try finding a suitable time, u know, both of u only.. walk her back home.... then slowly ask her out for dinner, or movie... u will learn a lot from there without saying a word..
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post Jun 27 2010, 12:28 AM

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QUOTE(EddyHyip @ Jun 26 2010, 10:27 PM)
well.. sometimes it's hard to read the girl's mind.. probably u might wanna test the water 1st. Guess till now both of u went out with a group of friends... try finding a suitable time, u know, both of u only.. walk her back home.... then slowly ask her out for dinner, or movie... u will learn a lot from there without saying a word..
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I think I know who are you... lol! brows.gif

Girl want guys to listen... Not talk...
thesixfaces
post Jun 27 2010, 09:08 AM

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thanks

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alfredfx
post Jun 27 2010, 08:48 PM

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how to make sure u wont be classified as "friend" instead of "BF material"

and what are the signs that you are already been classified as "friend"

or

how to make you become a "BF material"
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QUOTE(alfredfx @ Jun 27 2010, 09:48 PM)
how to make sure u wont be classified as "friend" instead of "BF material"

and what are the signs that you are already been classified as "friend"

or

how to make you become a "BF material"
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Girls always have the sense of feel, which themselves may not fully understand also. Girls is always hard to understand, when they said don't have feel, probably mean you have zero chance or very slim chances to be bf. So all about try & error of your luck to meet the right girls.
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post Jun 27 2010, 09:12 PM

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try and error .. no scientific approach ? lol

i asked a colic whether she has bf and she kept quiet and said that is her answer. and she doesnt want the others in office to talk about it...

so she got bf nto
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post Jun 27 2010, 11:21 PM

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QUOTE(alfredfx @ Jun 27 2010, 10:12 PM)
try and error .. no scientific approach ? lol

i asked a colic whether she has bf and she kept quiet and  said that is her answer. and she doesnt want the others in office to talk about it...

so she got bf nto
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Highly probably your colleague had a hard time in the relationship which she dun wanna tell other. So rather keep it silent. But the rest you need to figure out.

Actually you can know the guy/girl whether have bf/gf by asking how he/she pass the weekend & what he/she do during the leisure time.
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post Jun 27 2010, 11:37 PM

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she never tell also hahaha
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QUOTE(jacktai @ Jun 27 2010, 09:06 PM)
Girls always have the sense of feel, which themselves may not fully understand also. Girls is always hard to understand, when they said don't have feel, probably mean you have zero chance or very slim chances to be bf. So all about try & error of your luck to meet the right girls.
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many boys fail because they think they can make the girl they like, like them.

they do not realize they must find the girls who like them, cause it is impossible to make a girl to like them, especially if she does not like them to begin with.

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Jinx-Z
post Aug 2 2010, 03:31 PM

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if wan to tackle a gal, start by getting fren with her fren first...keke
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post Aug 3 2010, 05:01 AM

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its an excellent post bro...
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post Aug 3 2010, 05:15 AM

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make a shrine in your house with a lots of the girls Pics and 50 candles surrounding the pictures.
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post Aug 3 2010, 04:09 PM

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shit... I wish I've read this 3 months ago
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post Aug 3 2010, 06:24 PM

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Quoted for the truth.

QUOTE(DenKhoo @ Jun 22 2010, 02:05 PM)
In girl's heart has got 2 zones:
1. boyfriend material
2. Friend

I don't know what you have done or what you have NOT done, she may have already classified you as friend.
Those 5 steps are just general guidelines.

Once a guy is classified as friend by a girl, it's almost impossible to turn into boyfriend zone.
I have several very close female friends who behave just like what she does to you.

I may be wrong about that.
You've got to take some actions to make her feel something between you is changing on a weekly basis, if not daily.
If drag too long and things remain the same, then very likely you will fall into the friend's zone.
It may be painful to get the cruel truth from her later, but it's worth it because you don't waste two persons' time.

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Not impossible, but it's way too difficult to change "ladder"/zone. Read up ladder theory, there's other post about this..

QUOTE(killdavid @ Jun 25 2010, 02:44 PM)
This is just a thought .... maybe you have done step 1-5 .....but at one point in time you still have to profess your feeling for her, to SEAL THE DEAL. Maybe you waited to long and when that feeling simmers to long, you get stuck in the BFF zone.
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+1. Declaring is strictly no-fly-zone. The best yet is you can make her declare 1st! But, this post step 1-5 is general guideline. To new guys: mastery, urm, like u can do this step 1-5 naturally, then your chances are far greater than those who don't know how to get girl.

You can ask her : Come be my girl - I know you like me and don't deny it - It's pretty obvious as the blind also knows.. (This 1 is risky, but it doesn't give away power to her. At most is she say you are crazy and keeps playing hard with you.. And you need to learn on towards mastery thumbup.gif )

Deimos Tel`Arin: But you can start with anyone, you can make all on two legs with heels as practice targets. The most is she gives you a disgusted look and go keep on practicing with others.

This post has been edited by SwooshY: Aug 3 2010, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(BoA_92 @ Aug 3 2010, 04:09 PM)
shit... I wish I've read this 3 months ago
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aWww..what had happened??? rejected by her??? blink.gif
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well said. THUMBS UP ! biggrin.gif
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what if i already let the girl know but she said she dunno when im serious or joking
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post Aug 10 2010, 02:07 PM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ Jun 25 2010, 02:44 PM)
This is just a thought .... maybe you have done step 1-5 .....but at one point in time you still have to profess your feeling for her, to SEAL THE DEAL. Maybe you waited to long and when that feeling simmers to long, you get stuck in the BFF zone.
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It totally depends. The only thing that will make most guys fall into the BFF zone is that the level of attraction is not / no longer there. Food for thought.
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post Sep 5 2010, 12:59 PM

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Imma just bump this thread now. tongue.gif

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 5 2010, 12:59 PM)
Imma just bump this thread now.  tongue.gif
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