Aug 3 2010, 06:24 PM
QUOTE(DenKhoo @ Jun 22 2010, 02:05 PM)
In girl's heart has got 2 zones:
1. boyfriend material
2. Friend
I don't know what you have done or what you have NOT done, she may have already classified you as friend.
Those 5 steps are just general guidelines.
Once a guy is classified as friend by a girl, it's almost impossible to turn into boyfriend zone.
I have several very close female friends who behave just like what she does to you.
I may be wrong about that.
You've got to take some actions to make her feel something between you is changing on a weekly basis, if not daily.
If drag too long and things remain the same, then very likely you will fall into the friend's zone.
It may be painful to get the cruel truth from her later, but it's worth it because you don't waste two persons' time.
Not impossible, but it's way too difficult to change "ladder"/zone. Read up ladder theory, there's other post about this..1. boyfriend material
2. Friend
I don't know what you have done or what you have NOT done, she may have already classified you as friend.
Those 5 steps are just general guidelines.
Once a guy is classified as friend by a girl, it's almost impossible to turn into boyfriend zone.
I have several very close female friends who behave just like what she does to you.
I may be wrong about that.
You've got to take some actions to make her feel something between you is changing on a weekly basis, if not daily.
If drag too long and things remain the same, then very likely you will fall into the friend's zone.
It may be painful to get the cruel truth from her later, but it's worth it because you don't waste two persons' time.
QUOTE(killdavid @ Jun 25 2010, 02:44 PM)
This is just a thought .... maybe you have done step 1-5 .....but at one point in time you still have to profess your feeling for her, to SEAL THE DEAL. Maybe you waited to long and when that feeling simmers to long, you get stuck in the BFF zone.
+1. Declaring is strictly no-fly-zone. The best yet is you can make her declare 1st! But, this post step 1-5 is general guideline. To new guys: mastery, urm, like u can do this step 1-5 naturally, then your chances are far greater than those who don't know how to get girl.You can ask her : Come be my girl - I know you like me and don't deny it - It's pretty obvious as the blind also knows.. (This 1 is risky, but it doesn't give away power to her. At most is she say you are crazy and keeps playing hard with you.. And you need to learn on towards mastery
)Deimos Tel`Arin: But you can start with anyone, you can make all on two legs with heels as practice targets. The most is she gives you a disgusted look and go keep on practicing with others.
This post has been edited by SwooshY: Aug 3 2010, 06:27 PM
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