a good thread indeed! really useful for a dateless person like me...

I have skipped no.4 and went on straight to no.5.... i think.... <.<

I met her the first time in a clubbing event, later a few days talked to her quite for sometime and we enjoyed a lot becuz we got so much to share about, and then i met her again on a 2nd clubbing event.... yes, i have tried a little of no.4 but i was having too much fun in the club to pay attention to such details

I asked her out a few days later, but i didnt specify it was a date la... though it was just the two of us having dinner and that burnt my wallet, but it was all worth it....

And the feeling is good and it still is when i come to think of it.

i think ts forgot to mention, it gets easier after u do it few times. This technique listening to her, remembering what she has to say know what she likes and dont and knowing when to shut the f*** up and smile without arguing back , when to advice her and how to advice her , all will need try and error.


U cant just get it the 5 right straight away, u need to be able to execute 5 correctly. The talking part, and holding hands part it should be done correctly cos any slight mistake u do - u might going to give the impression that u the toucher*


i give u an example, A guy can hold/ put his arms around a girl and she dont mind at all but c guy just go a little bit close to the same girl get warning to stay away.


The difference is not the girl but the approach made by c are wrong. Make sure u give the impression that holding girls hand is normal for u. ( test run with ur mom and sisters )

those who not familiar touching girls, whenever u r walking with a girl regardless she is ugly fat try holding them. TEst wit the ugly ones.


master the touching and no dinner required - skip straight to hugging and tongue fencing.

YEAH TRULY EXCELLENT... GOD OF LOVE IN THIS FORUM..HAHAX..
LEARN A BIT FROM U EDI... LOLX

Haha.. Let me share with you some stories.

me and my buddy met a bunch of adorably stupid guys in a club..

These guys saw us, bought us drinks sent by waiter.. The waiter pointed to us which table when we asked, and we had a little eye contact with these boys.

Next, my friend took out sticker pad, and we wrote "Thanks but no thanks".. paste them on the glass/ drinks.

They got rejected by us..

Eye contacts was good but too bad we dont like the idea of buying drinks.. lol

I sense tarik harga... lol... just kidding

Wrong answer. "Never accept guy's offer esp drinks while you are in a club".
Don't you think so?

Why wouldn't you, if it doesn't have any sleeping pills dissolved inside, it's free anyway.

how confident you are that the drinks didnt contain those chemical thingy..??

Anyway, a very very wise decision by rejecting drinks

No matter how many times I read this post I tell myself oh my god why did I never followed these steps but I need a bit more elaboration T.T

done all the step n became more like bff rather than bf..

Thats due to your own belief regarding your potential with the girl. Wanting something yet not believing that u can get it is the main cause of dissapointments.

hehe...i'm also not sure la bro...belief is another story..if she doesn't have heart for me that what else can i do??

if u belief she doesnt have heart for you, its still your belief. If u belief she doesnt have heart for you and you belief there is no way to make her feel otherwise, its still your belief.

I would like to elaborate more....but that would be derailing from topic.

Ask something pertaining to topic and see if we can have a discussion.

maybe coz you didnt show your feelings the right way~like you just cincai ask her out must be like...more romantic kind la

wow..will try soon...scared get chain reactions only..><

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Added on April 3, 2010, 12:48 amlol...lucky u...in club better dun simply accpt drinks fr strangers..

This post has been edited by zstan: Apr 3 2010, 12:48 AM

hhmmm noobie no active liao?

Most of my close friend (girls). I already did No.1 to No.5. I would say, very useful trick.

Come to think about it, the only girls that I skip those steps are my Wife.

he grew up.

i know the first step, it works:)