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This post has been edited by ezralimm: Aug 4 2009, 04:52 PM

i think you left out something ...

Wow another one of these threads?

I admire your persistence but being overly persistence can be annoying

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This post has been edited by ^Hobbes^: Jul 25 2009, 09:50 AM

Awww.. thank you thank you


I am trying to make the thread more politically correct. This time i used as few negatives as possible. I've integrated some suggestions. and I also tried to make it more succinct and to the point. I dont think i can simplify it any further.

Congratulations.

An awsome award from Hobbes.

There's no theory in love, alright?

Both can ignite the spark or break up for any reasons.

Unrealistic and incomplete. Some of us here really clueless about what a girl look for, how can we rely on our deluded perception to wether or not we'll actually get a date. For example Bernard will always think he fails unless he wears clothes make out of real gold.

And yet there are those who think they know what girls want...look in the mirror...see everything as awesome...yet fail miserably because what he thinks only applies to his own misconception of what a girl would really think.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jul 25 2009, 10:31 AM

Read carefully: Nobody is giving a "theory" for love.

The thread is really about how to approach women.

Love blossoms when it blossoms. This thread is not about that.



I gotta admit, this thread isnt for everyone... But for a majority of people, just looking at candid videos of themselves is uncomfortable. You get to see yourself compared to other people.


Even if you dont know what girls want... you should know what you want.
and I am not just talking about physical characteristics here.
The whole "look at yourself in the mirror" was kinda rhetorical in a way.


Eg:

If the guy staring back at you in the mirror is an effeminate/feminine shy scrawny frail emo b1tch....

If the guy staring back at you in the mirror is an obese, disproportionate, lazy, smelly excuse for a human being...

If the guy you see in candid facebook videos cant even project his voice properly...slouches with no confidence and talks like a loser...




^realizing stuff like the above is the real motivator for change.


Some people really ARE deluded... but most arent. And upon looking at themselves from a third person's view, will recognize their weaknesses.


I am far from perfect. But not too long ago I was very far from perfect ... seriously. The catalyst for change exists in self awareness.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Jul 25 2009, 10:50 AM

You should put a disclaimer saying this thread is not for everyone. A fat obese guy may be happy and manage to attract lots of girls with his happy aura alone....followed your advice...look in the mirror and start to feel like a loser..gets depressed...hates himself...lose his happy aura...lost all girls...and die lonely. You want to be responsible for that?

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Jul 25 2009, 10:56 AM

Your recent David de Angelo inspiration, ezra?

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Jul 25 2009, 12:07 PM

Nice motive, but I have serious doubts over it working. A lot of the people who come in here posting new threads asking for help are so delusional that you just want to take your keyboard and whack them extremely hard on the face, so they probably won't even get past #1.

It's not unrealistic. It's not deluded perception or whatsoever for most of the stuff about our personality. It's more to common sense. Through life we have learned it through our various experiences.

If a guy looks into the mirror and think that he's freaking awesome from the bottom of his heart. I highly doubt he'll be unable to get a girl. This do not apply to those people who think they're awesome but do not trust that they're awesome in their heart. If the person believes truthfully that he/she's being awesome, they automatically have the confidence to approach a relationship, regardless of what their weakness are.

That being said, it's obviously unrealistic that the love will surely be returned even if you're confident and being awesome alone. But, at least it's the starting point. Relationships are based on various things and it's cannot be conducted experimentally and there's no R&D on this field. This is what makes relationship exciting.

hmmmm.....maybe i'll pin one thread that links to good threads. maybe. but then i'll have a problem of consistently updating threads and figuring which is a "good" thread.

nah, I bet he doesn't even know who's David de Angelo and the book he wrote.
actually the book double your date by de angelo is a good read for all of you. we all appreciate what TS and others have suggested. Just that David is a pro and he actually knows his stuffs well.

Again, to say that ugly person, fat person, poor person can't get a girl that he likes, i think that's quite untrue. Haven't you all see the picture of a taiwanese fat boy kissing a cute girl? I meant to say other than having confidence, i think skills is more important which has not been pointed out by TS.

everything begins with a choice, if u have guts and courage, then just go for it.

At least you r a warrior.

Just not this thread.Please.

not this kind of thread again...

Okay, okay, stop teasing us already.
Show us some of the girls you've approached.

Can't I just stage a "hero saves a damsel in distress" moment with my friends?

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Jul 25 2009, 06:36 PM