intro apa?

haha sorry super blur .....

Well, girls definitely wanted to be with someone who can support them financially besides other things like spiritually and moral. But the thing is, If the girl knows how to think, she wouldn't go for another guy who is much richer when she got one. This shows how immature the girl is in the way she think, being tempted to richer guys.

I'm not sure what kind of environment of your social cycle is, but I'm assuming that if within your social cycle, the girls that you meet are mostly rich, then chances are, they will not be able to get out of their comfort zone to live a rather more mediocre life (but some do), i.e. only shop for branded stuffs, high monthly expenses.

Human beings are greedy. They will never had enough, and it just gets more and more. That's the reality of life, unfortunately.

My advice, try to meet more and more girls in your life if you can, from different areas of the society and you will soon realize that things aren't what you're seeing now.

Think about it.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 20 2009, 06:46 AM

1.2k a month... and still working as part time photographer...
sounds big "LAWL" to me.

Where's mah muney

1) money/power/social_dominance = security .... TRUE.
2) security is only one of the things girls look for.
3) you cannot say you provide "security" while leeching of daddy's money.

Dude, seriously, I dont think security is an issue for you. But face it, you have likely been pampered all your life to a point where you did not develop skills necessary to survive on your own. Really think you can provide security? Then run away from home and set up YOUR OWN LIFE. Earn your own money. Get your own place. Live your life. be in control.

Just because you have money does not mean you are in control of your life.

Money does not buy character/charisma/charm/attitude.

Consider this:
Bob Doe is a 30 year old man from a humble background. He left home at 18 and struggled to make it in a motor workshop. He was dedicated to his job and over time built up alot of experience. Eventually he sets up his own workshop. Now he earns RM20k per month as the owner of a medium sized workshop.

John Cupid is a 30 year old man who inherited his father's estate when he was 18. He gets almost six figures a month just from his father's investments. He never had to work for anything. He went to the best schools and universities but was nothing more than an average student. Eventually he decides to take over the management of one of his dad's companies...He doesnt have a choice, there arent any other suitable jobs that are available for a person with his qualifications and income.

Both men above will have had very different experiences...that will influence their personalities.

Money EARNED through the rough road to success is different from daddy's money.
The rough road to success builds life skills, personality, charisma and tact.

Daddy's money promotes complacency and the general lack of life skills.

At the end of the day, while money is important to women, the men who have "SUCCESS" written all over their faces are the most attractive of all. From a darwinian perspective - good genes that will bear successful children.

Just because you have money does not mean that you are successful.


Just because you can afford to treat women to Tony Roma and Starbucks and drive em around town does not mean that you are successful. I agree, some girls really are gold diggers, but many women will see through that quite quickly...especially the really attractive ones who have plenty of choices.

Here's a tip: Yeah, there are SUCCESSFUL guys out there who took the rough road to success and built an awesome personality on top of a stable, secure income/career. Women love the smell of success. It strikes them in places where money alone cant reach.

It is entirely possible that you lost the girl to another guy who is more SUCCESSFUL than you... the money is really irrelevant and coincidental. Dont give yourself that excuse to feel better.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Jun 20 2009, 11:59 AM

well~hang out wit richer guy (not bf) is owaz a better choice for gals~
no doubt...

clubbing=foc
shopping=MAYBE/SOMETIMES free?
Meal/drinks=sure free
Transport=always provided

besides, gals judge a guy from their wears n outlooks?
branded stuff sumtimes showed the taste of da guy,
they r jz impressed with their wearing or make up taste,
doesnt mean gals greedy for their money o watever
rmb gals owaz likes pretty n beautiful stuff

normally richer guys tend to be more gentleman than not so rich guys
and gals usually prefer to be a gentleman's fren~ =)

Don't really agree on this. Any basis to support your statement?

not apply to all girls pls......

i think what he meant is when a poorer guy does not know how is it like to be a gentlemen
ie : basis like eating in a high class restaurant, one does not know know the rule "ladies first" if they havent been to it

nope. now im disagreeing too.

WTF allowance one month 1K above for me no school no allowance, go to school only got RM5 so count weekdays go to school only got RM100 per month not even 10% of your allowance

Just a note, taking Daddy's money/ career to the next level is successful too, Look at Lim Kok Thai.

Hello !!!!!!!

Form 5 and 1.2k/month. Guys wear gucci/prada/etc clothes? I only hear girl bring gucci/prada/etc handbag.
The girl you know is cheap.
And you yes you are money minded then the girl

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Added on June 21, 2009, 6:27 pmI think poorer have better manner.

Richer being serves tooo much

This post has been edited by tyj82: Jun 21 2009, 06:27 PM

nvm.. when u reach university level, ask for 3k. u will get girlfriend there.

is this the 1st day you come to Earth?

oh nuo..i get rm120/week for my uni life(weekend back to home),4 week oni 480..not even 1200...walau 480 for me is kinda luxurious edi,can eat wat i like in uni edi...i shud say kids nowadaes

Nowadays there's a thing in this world called YouTube and VideoJug

This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 22 2009, 08:34 PM

maybe cos they are more educated?

it all depends on the girl's mentality..

I don't like Eureka or El Dorado girls

how can u say all the girls so greedy nowadays?
at least i m not tht one