Jun 21 2009, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(ezralimm @ Jun 20 2009, 11:48 AM)
1) money/power/social_dominance = security .... TRUE.
2) security is only one of the things girls look for.
3) you cannot say you provide "security" while leeching of daddy's money.
Dude, seriously, I dont think security is an issue for you. But face it, you have likely been pampered all your life to a point where you did not develop skills necessary to survive on your own. Really think you can provide security? Then run away from home and set up YOUR OWN LIFE. Earn your own money. Get your own place. Live your life. be in control.
Just because you have money does not mean you are in control of your life.
Money does not buy character/charisma/charm/attitude.
Consider this:
Bob Doe is a 30 year old man from a humble background. He left home at 18 and struggled to make it in a motor workshop. He was dedicated to his job and over time built up alot of experience. Eventually he sets up his own workshop. Now he earns RM20k per month as the owner of a medium sized workshop.
John Cupid is a 30 year old man who inherited his father's estate when he was 18. He gets almost six figures a month just from his father's investments. He never had to work for anything. He went to the best schools and universities but was nothing more than an average student. Eventually he decides to take over the management of one of his dad's companies...He doesnt have a choice, there arent any other suitable jobs that are available for a person with his qualifications and income.
Both men above will have had very different experiences...that will influence their personalities.
Money EARNED through the rough road to success is different from daddy's money.
The rough road to success builds life skills, personality, charisma and tact.
Daddy's money promotes complacency and the general lack of life skills.
At the end of the day, while money is important to women, the men who have "SUCCESS" written all over their faces are the most attractive of all. From a darwinian perspective - good genes that will bear successful children.
Just because you have money does not mean that you are successful.
Just because you can afford to treat women to Tony Roma and Starbucks and drive em around town does not mean that you are successful. I agree, some girls really are gold diggers, but many women will see through that quite quickly...especially the really attractive ones who have plenty of choices.
Here's a tip: Yeah, there are SUCCESSFUL guys out there who took the rough road to success and built an awesome personality on top of a stable, secure income/career. Women love the smell of success. It strikes them in places where money alone cant reach.
It is entirely possible that you lost the girl to another guy who is more SUCCESSFUL than you... the money is really irrelevant and coincidental. Dont give yourself that excuse to feel better.
2) security is only one of the things girls look for.
3) you cannot say you provide "security" while leeching of daddy's money.
Dude, seriously, I dont think security is an issue for you. But face it, you have likely been pampered all your life to a point where you did not develop skills necessary to survive on your own. Really think you can provide security? Then run away from home and set up YOUR OWN LIFE. Earn your own money. Get your own place. Live your life. be in control.
Just because you have money does not mean you are in control of your life.
Money does not buy character/charisma/charm/attitude.
Consider this:
Bob Doe is a 30 year old man from a humble background. He left home at 18 and struggled to make it in a motor workshop. He was dedicated to his job and over time built up alot of experience. Eventually he sets up his own workshop. Now he earns RM20k per month as the owner of a medium sized workshop.
John Cupid is a 30 year old man who inherited his father's estate when he was 18. He gets almost six figures a month just from his father's investments. He never had to work for anything. He went to the best schools and universities but was nothing more than an average student. Eventually he decides to take over the management of one of his dad's companies...He doesnt have a choice, there arent any other suitable jobs that are available for a person with his qualifications and income.
Both men above will have had very different experiences...that will influence their personalities.
Money EARNED through the rough road to success is different from daddy's money.
The rough road to success builds life skills, personality, charisma and tact.
Daddy's money promotes complacency and the general lack of life skills.
At the end of the day, while money is important to women, the men who have "SUCCESS" written all over their faces are the most attractive of all. From a darwinian perspective - good genes that will bear successful children.
Just because you have money does not mean that you are successful.
Just because you can afford to treat women to Tony Roma and Starbucks and drive em around town does not mean that you are successful. I agree, some girls really are gold diggers, but many women will see through that quite quickly...especially the really attractive ones who have plenty of choices.
Here's a tip: Yeah, there are SUCCESSFUL guys out there who took the rough road to success and built an awesome personality on top of a stable, secure income/career. Women love the smell of success. It strikes them in places where money alone cant reach.
It is entirely possible that you lost the girl to another guy who is more SUCCESSFUL than you... the money is really irrelevant and coincidental. Dont give yourself that excuse to feel better.
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