If both working will increase the household income. And then they can build the family a better life because of the increase income and of course the child can have brighter future.

Well I don't mind sharing this actually. What me and my gf are trying to achieve is that to be financially independent whereby at one point, she can retire and be fulltime mother.

But from what I see, that she can be reluctant to sacrifice her career even after married or after having baby. It is entirely her choice, but since both of us are still young and energetic we want to work towards improving our life-style, and won't settle down for a below average life-style.

Moorish is having a sole provider husband that allows her to be a housewife.
He is looking for a wife who earns her own money in order to become a housewife.

I admitted that I am money minded.
I said both men and women are money minded.

At least both of us are doing something rather than some people who just marry rich and being lazy leeching money from husband.

I disagree with moorish because she want money, but she admitted that she don't earn much money, and not career minded. She left the responsibility of earning money entirely to her husband, since day one she got married.

You cannot differentiate? How old are you bro? Work already?

You still didn't get the points.

The difference is moorish is fortunate.
blitzboy's wife is less fortunate 

Blitzboy is already mention the points, so no need for me to add more points.

I salute to all the money minded girls out there, please do better to make all the weak sissy lame Malaysian average guys feel insecure and /wrist.

Sorry but you're included.

The differences is that moorish is the conventional type of woman. The characteristics are as follows.

1. Marry to the rich man in order be fulltime wife, no need to work. Thus she has managed to bypass the working hardship.
2. Have baby and be full time mother, no need to work, but fulfilled biological responsibility of giving birth and raising a child.
3. Since husband is the sole provider, normally being a women don't have much to say or rights in the family but obey and respects husband decision in most cases. The respect level is often biased towards the man of being dorminant.
4. Spend husband money, and spend time gossiping with other similar fulltime housewifes and mothers.
Career minded woman characteristics.

1. Marries a man who is equally or more competent than her in terms of career and income.
2. Don't necessarily spend husband's money, but expect love and attention similar to a conventional woman, but she draws the line between work and personal matters very clearly.
3. Husband is only the major provider of food and shelter, she too contribute in making things better.
4. Equal and mutual respect between husband and wife, and have very close discussion on finance, expenses, and ideas of improving the family.
5. The woman won't simply give up the career to be fulltime mother or housewife even after having baby. Unless she wanted to, or both husband and wife agrees that the income level makes is possible.
6. Also spend time gossiping like conventional women but does it in office, and also talks business.

Just ignore him 

Of course the goal is same. But the way to reach the goal is different.
Example:

There are many ways to become rich. You can choose to work hard or you can choose the bad way such as rob the bank. Both also share the same goal. Isn’t it?

It isn't, because we are constantly want to improve ourselves, and won't settle for less.

Case 1
An average man who drives a kancil or wira, has a housewife with 3 kids. Lives in a low cost flat. Poor but at least both ends are met.

Case 2
A corporate executive, who drives a known brand Japanese car who has a wife how is equally competent working, drives an imported car, with 2 kids living in a terrace house or maybe a bungalow. Above average life-style, both ends are met with some extra, for the uncertainties.

Case 3
A VIP, possibly a businessman who drives a latest model of BMW or Mercedes, has a wife who also drives similar cars with 3 kids living in a bungalow or mansion. Very rich, until the pit of cash is almost bottomless.
Me and my gf are trying to achieve case 2 and slightly in between case 2 and case 3.

This thread is going to closed soon. Few posts to go.

If I’m not mistaken, the max post is 2500.

I have to agree that the goal is the same.

Even though the goal is the same but result is different. But one have to admit that THE ONE WHO WORKS MORE, WILL GET MORE !!!

No pain, no gain.