Yes, good one!

Only those incapable man will need and ask wives and gf to work.
A man if he is a real man with self-motivated attitude, will try his best to settle his financial capability, ALWAYS, despite of how hard it is!

My father even goes to work when he is sick, he brought his medicine along to work. He even works during public holidays.

I could hardly see any of the youngsters or those who claim they are average man have this kind of attitude. Basically, it's just wasting of time to talk to those who are not married and haven't set up a family yet.

i'll take up that bet and double it.

and since you're throwing scenarios, lemme throw one back at u. how come poor people are getting married?

u're like saying "look, this pen is blue. and so is that pen. and that pen. so i draw a conclusion that ALL the pens in this world are blue"

cmon, even a primary school kid can detect such a fallacy

I am financially capable thank you but you're not answering the question. Is it ok for guys to dump/divorce the girl if they're no longer youthful and young?

Please read my previous post. It's all about expectations and standards. I'm saying if a girl can have that kind of expectations and standards so a guy can also have  expectations and standards on the girl right?

Shallow ...haha, the pot calling the kettle black.

Yes yes I'm very shallow, I go only for rich wives and guys who go for poor wives are stupid and immature.  And to those guys who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the father instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

Yes I'm so shallow. God help me. LOL.

For your kind perusal:

How do you define "money-minded"?

There are mainly 2:
Those who go for materialistic enjoyment
Those who aim financial security for uncertainties in the future

All posts extended to me with vulgar words and insulting words and unfavourable terms and with no facts will be facepalmed.

what's facepalmed? show me?

i don't know this online jargon.

your pathetic word can only be matched by your pathetic attitude. 

huh. Thread is becoming a personal attacks with insults to one's belief.

I'm amazed how this never ending debate can continue in CC.

Maybe moved it to RWI where proper discussion can be maintained.

Darn such a heated debate and I missed most of it.

Forget about what's right and wrong for awhile. We all have different agendas in life and different levels of ambition. Some want money and thus do sales. Some would rather climb the corporate ladder to gain recognition. Some want to work to earn their own money while others don't mind waiting around for money to fall into their laps. Right? Wrong? Who is to judge?

In the end, I ask myself how I want to be remembered by my family, friends and acquaintances when I'm gone. Was I caring? Was I hard working? Was I honest? Was I responsible? How do I want to be remembered? I have answered these questions and I live my life in a manner which will allow me to be remembered the way I want to be.

If someone doesn't mind being remembered as a bum who leeched off his parents his whole life for example, who are we to judge? We decide if we want to respect the said person or not, then we move on. We don't tell them that they should be better for it's for them to decide. I personally have little respect for people who advocate "money" instead of "success". What is the difference? The former is purely material. The latter while also material, also comprises of intangible items like attitude, character, etc.

duke to me it's not her choice that bothers me, it's just her character of relying on others instead or herself, what do you think ?

you're not even duke

cause i'm hot

Looks like u r the one tat don't understand.
Its her own choice if she wants to think like that, what i want to point out is the "mindset" flaw not only to her but also to OTHER GIRLS
that have the same thinking influenced/blurred by $$$$$ in making important decision.

Understd? 

funny how you say that seeing that he trolls most of the time.