these are just bad woman, they're also poor wife that are bad, love gambling blah blah....they're just bad people which exist in all level of society.

you should say beautiful girl that doesnt care being poor are rare and obviously over look by rich guys

supply and demand, beautiful girls that doesnt mind being poor are rare, this is because the demand is high and everybody want them, thats why they can command better/rich husband. where else the average ones are more abundant. Sorry to put it in such a harsh way, coz you seem to misunderstand why some girls can tarik harga and some tried their best but phail

actually only the poor ones complaint...the rich ones hope they're materialistic to make life easier for them

as mention la, girls are money minded, your bf take you out for dinner first time and if he insist AA, what is your impression on him?

Pls go back and read if you do not understand, you cant debate, you're pissed, you're worried, so you got emotional.

Immature? Generally in the whole world why do you think when a girl chooses a poor man as bf the problem starts with the parents? so you saying the parents knows less than the kid? who is more immature?

I did not ask all the girl to choose a rich husband, becoz not everyone is qualified. But for those who qualify you're special, you've a chance.

The topic is "girls are money minded" so it is pointing to general population, as mention many times and unfortunate you did not read and re-debate the same thing. You could've quoted Mother Teresa, whom are a saint, but living out of this world.

When a guy takes a girl out for the first date, to impress her, you pay for the dinner. Now why do you do such a thing? You know buying her dinner is your first move to show that you are able to take care of her. Security in the modern world is MONEY. (In the stone age you would probably kill a rabbit and barbeque for her but that was time money had yet to exist.) This is the first move involving money.

To chase a girl, you need to impress her, the reason to impress her is to again show your capability that you're able to take care of her.

Now, after you got her as your gf, pass all the lovey dovey, its time to move on to next phase, Marriage. The girl will re-evaluate if you're the right one to marry, pak toh and marriage is 2 different thing with girls, we're unlike man's thinking.

When we evaluate marriage (mature girls) we think about your capability to bring up kids and this cost money, so financial capability is important. Typical scenario, both working earning a normal wage of lets say 4k join income and very loving. Parents start pressuring, CNY comes and relative start questioning, her frens just got married to a doctor at Saujana and all this while the boy kept quiet coz he isnt prepared to commit because he knows he cant give a big wedding, he cant afford a house yet, he is still saving for that Soundstream amplifier he was aiming.

The girl behind the boy will start discussing about marriage life with her married colleague, her aunty and frens, she began to feel she is being short change. She began to see him as incapable as a provider. Then quarrel began, as everytime she talks about marriage the boy gives excuse we're not ready and this and that. Then she will start panic.

Wedding is a big thing for a girl, spending 20K - 50K is consider worthwhile but for the guy this is just crazy.

Everything involve money, and if you're unfortunate, a young doctor starts chasing your girl, and this is the cross road of her life.

Of coz this is just the typical scenario

This post has been edited by moorish: Apr 3 2009, 12:27 PM

If you think magic trick and a beach wedding is ok then by all means go for it, I never say you wont get a wife, I'm only passing this message to those girls who have the chance

Never in my entire life I believe money is everything,
I'm only terrified with no money.

If only pak toh yes fully agree...but if you're with 2 kids then I think no more true, got money no love your kid got food and you can find happiness elsewhere.

chinese saying, with love you only need water to fill your stomach.

I'm not torn, I know exactly what I wan.

Because girl always think of security, its in their blood. They think of their childrens well being, coz if they unfortunate get a bum hubby who might run away and they're stuck with the kids.

you're just a irresponsible guy, hoping to get it the easy way, probably some sweet talking and magic trick, you hope to get a wife and later only headache how to raise your kid.

sorry, I'm already married, but how sure are you you're richer than my hubby?

well wait till you grow up, start having a gf and you'll understand more about life.

ok this is not a show off thread and I dun believe in that also... if you insist you're richer then congratulation to you, but as I've mention 10000 times, everyone has their standard, some girls prefers millionaires, as for me security means earning above 10k is good enuf, I'm contended .

no problem...discusin only

where were you all this while

because you phail to read the thread carefully, the first post till now never mention about millionaire

read the thread

just live with it, you dun think so is only your opinion but the fact remain that they're plenty more guys who are willing

I think about body shape 99% guys do not refer to possibility of conceiving babies but more on making babies

Guys do not like fat girls
And girls do not like fat guys

Everyone has their personal choices but then you've to open another thread to discuss about this issue.

correction:

Girls are attracted to confident and ambitious guy, but when comes to marrying them is different case all together, still security comes first

Its in our gene to hope for that so call mr perfect, less than 0.000001% girls manage to find him, so the rest of us will just have to make do, and security seem to be the number 1 deciding factor.

This post has been edited by moorish: Apr 25 2009, 04:07 PM