hey morrish your the one that are immature ;D learn more and stop wasting your time here posting such stupid thread which makes me laugh real hard at you.

Only stupid girls would go for a rich man . Money is nothing compared to love .. and whoever begs to differ needs to go GET A LIFE . Immature girls .

Here, people go round and round, you can try to justify your conscience being money minded is ethical, as if smoking is ok and those who don’t are suckers and that is how it sounds like.

I am sure you don’t meant to be mean but it hurts the man who makes fair income, the title is agitating no matter how you try to rationalize it as security issue, stepping on each other’s tail, no, that is just ego and foolish pride.

So, for the guys out there, money mined girls are the devil you love for sex who are pretty and sexy, you can have them in your dream but cannot afford them in reality, find the heart that deserves your love.

I don’t condemn the sweet pretty girls who are materialistic, on the contrary, rich guy is often a playboy because they can afford the materialistic girl, so we are even. Our social ideology segregates us by wealth and state of mind, we came without them and will go the same, and life is just an emotional journey.

See what you make me do, preach you to the wall. By the way, how do I fair huh?

Girls who believe that money and "security", prestige are the most important things are the best to play around with.

That's because there are a lot of them, and very few guys like US who have the money and the power.

WE are the scarce, unique item, and their ***** is just a commodity, free to be used and then chucked.

The best thing is that when you're at the top you discover how much good looking ***** there is out there absolutely willing to whore themselves out just to move up the social ladder!!!

Then they will try to sink their claws into you by using "love" and other pair bonding techniques. x_x

Don't be fooled, guys.

Just play

I agree and I divorced her knowing that I cannot afford the above after 4 years of marriage, I like to know how much income is consider being able to provide and what profession can make that kind of money? But I am too old to look for another job since every employment adopt a turnover cycle to reset salary and that these jobs are meant for youngsters, I make RM3000 today and according to jobstreet's salary report, I am over paid, others make less than RM2500.

5 years since my divorce and I am still feeling incompetent, I never consider paid sex because money is hard to come by and to suppress my sexual urge, I don't buy porn VCD. Instead I bought original software and spent all my time on it.

I respect the woman for what they are that a man will never know, if I cannot afford them, I will not marry again but I can still love them and this condition is common in the west where couple live together without a marriage or have multiple sex partners. What cause this kind of pattern is the selfish employers who never allow their employees to grow with the company suppressing improvement to prolong their business based on opportunities unwilling to give ways and this group is between 50-60.

Aren't we supposed to seek solution than releasing steam? Debating in such a manner won't benefit anyone except heighten the forum traffic unless that is the motive.

Woman who dun mind feeding the husband? Wow..

I ain't gonna go work, come back, cook dinner, go to the bed and spread my legs, get pregnant, give birth, raise a child for a couch potato who did nothing but flipping the tv channel at home.

Is that love?

If that is, wow.. I better convert to a muslim and marry 5 wives. They can go to work and give all their salary to me while I sit at home and watch my investment grow.

well of course if the gal is the bred winner than the guy have to be the house maker... both have to contribute to the family of course

the thing is how many guys could suck up their pride and do that?

what if the boy is the house maker, clean, mop, dust, laundry, buy food, prepare food, etc.

and he is making money? making enough money to pay the bills for food, water, electricity, house, car loan.

he does not go out to work, not running a shop front business either.
but he has his own method of making money. not illegal. not selling butt hole. not selling joystick.

what kind of boy would he be then?

i would. pride is a useless commodity.

He would be a perfect man if I could lay an egg and pass it to him to take care

Imagine giving birth thru the penis now that's something I would salute.

Gender equality already here, there are woman who work and house-husbands.

Let me put it this way... a woman spending on me by no means threatens my manhood in any way. 
She put forth the idea that money, and money alone (by omission of other traits and the denigration of "love" as immature) equates to security and thus reliability for a long term partner.

I've heard this from gold-diggers big and small (and smart and dumb) before.
It's irrelevant if you miss the point, which I think, you did, on purpose. 
Or maybe when girls decide to have babies they need to GROW UP into women, and stop being fearful and whiny about everything about themselves.

I swear, women today are nowhere near as competent as women in our grandmother's times. Back then if they had an education they would become successful businesswomen.

Today they will watch Oprah until they are fat and spend their money on ice cream or useless LV bags.

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Added on April 28, 2009, 2:53 pm

Actually, you don't need to give her that much money or gifts as BMW. Only a rich moron would do that.

Most likely only one tenth of that amount would be spent, and one tenth of that amount paid would be used on the woman's own expense to abort the child which resulted from the sperm injected into her.

You must understand the psychology of rich men and the poor women who chase after them.

It's obvious that a lot of people in this thread do not know what they're talking about. They just want to legitimize their own peculiar world views and personal attitudes. LOL!!!

Oh but I am generous to the worthy.

in anycase, my opinion is simply this. the man MUST provide for the family and when i say family, it means wife and children and even his in laws. NO EXCEPTIONS. as a matter of fact, i feel that ppl should not even get married unless they already have enough money to pay for everything at least for 10 years into their marriage. and this should fall squarely on the man's shoulder. what the wife earns is the wifes!!! a man should have no right to her earnings unless its an absolute requirement as in an emergency and even then i would think he is useless. and btw, women are not sex machines. they are not there to spread their legs when the husband needs sex nor are they maids to clean up and do household chores. at the same time, husbands are not cash machines either!!!

Since you can choose who is worthy enough to be your mate, the same applies to the other gender.
He has respect and honour for the woman plus responsibility. You have none.

i imagined you would say something along that line. its much easier to run and hide behind rhetorics to making a stand and stating your view for all to see and judge. come now, surely this could be as simple as you revealing here your reasoning right? or are you going to say now that you dont want to hijack someone else's thread and therefore ask me to start a pointless thread of why you think i am a confused person?

lets get back to the point of discussion and please this time try to speak your mind on why you might think my statement is misguided as your logic obviously implies.

Dickson, frankly speaking, its not that I dont trust you but its simply the fact that I dont see the reason why you cannot speak your mind here.

in anycase, i would like also if possible that TS who started the topic and all the other women who are like minded to state their opinion in this, because sincerely the postulation that money will guarantee your happiness is not something that i agree.

moorish, isnt that a rather pessimistic approach to life? for all of mankind, love has been the eternal flame that has burned the brightest. it has propelled man to do the impossible at times and money has only tempted him to do the worse.

just as an example, do you not think that the simplistic view that a rich husband when he has a fling outside marriage can be easily discarded with the comforting thought that you have the money at least? do you think that all the money in the world can heal your pain and anguish in that moment of despair?

in this case obviously you need to make the right decision by again striking a balance between your heart and your mind. if indeed the poor guy loves the girl so much and she too feels that it is he who is the right one, do you think it would be impossible that he can improve his financial status? naturally, if she were to feel at the same time that he regardless of how much he loves her cannot do so, and that financial securiy is important for her, she must choose the rich guy.

That's why I've married the rich guy and have affair with the poor guy.

Normally rich guys are bald and fat I want leng chai to sextify me and they are normally poor and loyal.

Has the word commitment lost all meaning to you people *sigh*