your ability in comprehension always amazed me lulz

it's not about your choice that you had made, it's about reason for choosing the choice

why you choose a chinese over other races ? there must be a reason

why you choose a rich man over other ? there must be a reason

and we are debating that reason, jeez

my reason is that you're so insecure yourself about money, you are worried all the time about money issues and your inability to solve it by yourself, so your only option in your life is choose to married a rich man

end

you're such a turn off and lousy debater

when she is proud of it while condemning guys that can't earn much lol, i called that hypocrite
forget about it then..... i lose interest

then so be it, at least she choose me whether i'm rich or not

i didn't think otherwise untill you mention, she's a girl and it's okay for them to rely on guys money to solve their problem

seriously a girl you love ask you this question

I wanna be a fulltime mother to our children, and your answer is?

forget it.... you're leecher?

Is that too much to ask?

yes it's too much when you demand it
problem is when you stop giving or inable to do so, the traditional ends ? lol

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Added on October 11, 2009, 10:45 pm

i dind't demand that but if they are willing to do so, why not ?

i've a feeling moorish is close to checkmate nickthemost liau. See how she play this last few moves only.

im not practising that. its fact. really.

the argument you guys like to come up with is...if she's after a rich husband, she will automatically part them if they go bankcrupt. This is false.

And you fail to see it. Its been brought up many times already.

wait, what's wrong in parting their hushband when they go brankrupt ? if they aren't able to provide it's better to leave them and find a capable one

wait, i got question are you a materialistic person ?

aiya go ahead and answer him. We're all materialistic. its just a matter of degree.

wait, what's wrong in parting their hushband when they go brankrupt ? if they aren't able to provide it's better to leave them and find a capable one
wait, i got question are you a materialistic person ?

oh enlighten why you think i dont know

that's common sense rite "Doing 'A' doesnt mean the ending will definietly be 'A'" ?

what are the variables in between ?
erm what's your question again ? a simple one else i don't understand

i'm begining to be like debbie now lulz

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Added on October 11, 2009, 11:19 pm

well your husband does said you're not as materialistic compared to other chinese, well good for you

i think nickthemost needs backup. his inability to comprehend simple things is making tonight's game a bit lopsided.

if i back him up i scared u girls bohsong

lol i already said i lost interest in debating d, whatever you choose to be it then, i understand but it's just conflicting opinion

who wants to have hard feeling with newfags, the are just "new" lolz

I googled the definition so I wouldn't tell you the wrong thing. I don't like giving my own definition when it could be partially wrong.

ANYWAY, we all know you settled for less, so you are cynical of the rest who actually have dreams that reach the skies and you don't believe that anybody who dreams like that is mature. You believe you are the only mature person in this thread, and that's why you're coming under fire. You don't have to be a spiritual person to believe in soulmates, you just have to be someone who believes that true love and soulmates are one and the same.


You are so entrenched in what you have now that is working for you, that you believe all else is immature and misguided. Is it really any wonder that there are people out there happier than you are because they believe in more than just what you settled for?

lol you're one to talk. I know a little bit about you, and how you use your emotions to argue/debate/whatever you want to call it. You like to make yourself sound right, even when you're wrong, by redefining words or changing what you said before. I don't think you're that much older than I am either, but I know people who are a lot more mature than you are younger than even myself.

Funny thing is you always say people are wrong yet you cannot prove it, you say you're right but you also cannot prove it?

How is it possible for you to not know very much yet know that you know more than I do? Are you secretly blonde? You can let your emotions carry you away in this discussion, like you seem to like to do, I'll just sit back and watch. Your telling of your story about your previous "trauma" with an ex boyfriend is supposed to make us feel pity for you? Or at least make ME feel pity for you? I know a little bit about that too. Everybody go "KESSIIANNNN!!!"


huh? is this how you took it? you think anybody here is wanting sympathy?

life of a lazy fulltime housewife before be mother and after be mother, no need work but asking money from husband.

Here is what happen.

Before be mother

As Husband for pocket money which she use for her shopping, grocery and household necessities and maybe some appliances. the extra money spend on beauty and cosmetics, pay utility bills ,and some for savings.  The rest of the day or the time in between is spent at home do some housework or gossiping with some other lazy ladies husbands about other people. Sex, romance and other people marital problems or family problems is often them hot topic, which turns out nothing useful after every chit-chat session and can spoil one's mind after listening all the negative stuffs. Sometimes play mahjong. This will go on and on everyday, with a little change of mode of entertainment like movies, karaoke, travel, of sometimes paying visits to friends or family.


After Being Mother.

Ask husband give more pocket money because must take care baby. Again the money shopping, baby products ,grocery and household necessities and maybe some appliances, pay bills. Not much extra money spend on beauty and cosmetics because more time is spent on taking care of the baby. The rest of the day or the time in between is spent at home do some housework or gossiping with some other aunties husbands about other people. This time added one more topic for gossiping about babies and who's child can perform better in school. This is showing-off session about their kids everytime they meet up in the market. Some bargaining and haggling at the market with the vegetable grocer is a common sight among these fulltime housewifes.  This will go on and on everyday, with a little change of mode of entertainment like movies, karaoke, travel, of sometimes paying visits to friends or family.
So what is there to be PROUD OF???!!!!

never once did I say I was right.

lol half the time I just read you saying/asking if people look down on full time mothers. Why? Ego boost when they say no they don't? A lot of people do NOT look down on full-time mothers .... it's just full-time mothers like you who bum off their husbands and think that they're entitled to it that irks all of us.