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Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 01:32 PM Return to original view \| Post #21
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Hiya.. why u cant provide a direct answer..still wanna pusing pusing? Very hard to answer meh? The way u answers, disappointed me,, Let my repeat again... I'm not asking the majority ppl. You also don't need to become a man to answer YES or NO rite? Same goes if i ask this question. A girl who knows hes bf alwys have affair outside but still stay with him for years because the BF rich have $$$$/ strong family financial backup. Hoping her bf will be touched and chg with her sincerity n loves. Later married ady still not chg .. divorce chances high ma... Whether the girl should leave the BF long time ago. or cont the relationship with tat guy n later get married? If i answer YES - leave tat guy, tat doesn't mean i'm a girl ma.. Simple direct answer like YES or NO can ady. I just want to know wats ur answer only. If u want to give some supporting explaination also ok for ur YES/NO answer. Based on ur pusing-pusing reply.. My assumption ur answer is Q1 - NO. A shouldn't dump B coz loves her very much eventho A knows B only start to loves A after A can give more security ($$$$) Q2 - NO. Market or majority girls are wrong. Most of the girls (market/majority) should not satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy. They should only marry to guys with more security $$$ than a normal hardworking guy. Now we can see clearly your TRUE COLOURS...... Correct me if my assumption of ur answer is wrong.. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 7 2009, 11:03 AM) I ask 2 simple questions, you deliberately side-step and din answer properly. 1st questions. Whether A should have dumb B long time ago? A - normal hardworking guy earning good average pay B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency. I duno, I'm not a man and I'm not him, quite obviously he love the girl right? thats why after all this years he chase her like mad. I tot I did answer you, but you didnt get the point. Earlier posting, u said market alwys rite ma.. 2nd questions. Those girls tat prefer guys with more $$$ than a normal working guy.. most of the time they will get alot critics from others. like those young girls (not u) marry Datuk.. etcs.. why only a few girls like tat but most of the girls (market/majority) still can satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy. So is market/majority ppl alwys rite? Don't go beat around the bushes..market alwsy right, one mans meat is another mans poison? I'm not asking the majority or other ppl. I just want to know wats ur answer only. Simple direct answer like YES or NO can ady. If u want to give some supporting explaination also ok. They're girls who likes datuk They're girls who likes rich man They;re girls who likes hansom man They;re girls who like chintongfa The market is always right and that is why all level of people gets married. You say so little of the girls marry datuk and most settle for common ppl, you are suggesting datuk cannot get wife coz most girls will shun off datuks? from what I see normally datuk get more than 1 wife, if you understand the market corectly do we have more datuks than common ppl? big flaw in your arguement. The reason less girl marry datuk to common ppl is because not plenty available to everyone. This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 01:44 PM
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 02:13 PM Return to original view \| Post #22
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Ya.. my respect to them oso. QUOTE(Looi @ Oct 7 2009, 02:08 PM) I have to really to silver, dickson and noob13 for their patience to quote/debate on every single sentence. I already beh tahan and straight off attacking them. You have my respect guys.
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 03:10 PM Return to original view \| Post #23
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Lol.. ya.. last time she call me 21 yrs old guy not yet self dependant/cant support family n d cant provide my view.. Now u call her kidi.. Yeah, moorish.. why so quiet?. No reply for my early post? Tat means my assumption on ur answer is correct. QUOTE(dancingwind @ Oct 7 2009, 01:54 PM) OH. Come On. Kiddi. How dare you challenge me or Dreamer101?! Is this the Funniest home video!? Why dont you read HIS POSTS all over and ur silly question will be answered. He has not replied to u bcos he is too busy making good use of his time instead of helping you with your primary school calculations!!? Gosh. Whats wrong with our Asian girls!?
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 03:28 PM Return to original view \| Post #24
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Yeah.. some guy also don't mind becomes a "houseman" full time... Meaning, take care of the children, do house chores, go market etcs.. They also want to marry rich girl with good security ($$$$) and those average hardworking girl can be normal friends only. They feel proud when they can get marry with rich girl. So can we say we are proud of them also? QUOTE(caesar18 @ Oct 7 2009, 03:04 PM) Now a days Men have choices like woman as well beside work for money, they can marry a rich GAL.. "Little White Face"
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 05:12 PM Return to original view \| Post #25
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Lol.. this show how shallow mind u have there. Sarcastic n childish words? U cant even differentiate to who my word/sentences aiming to. A scenario example not necessary must be the same person tat have experienced it, any1 can give their view or opinion if they are given a certain scenario question.. this simple common sense also u phailed to understand or see clearly. I really dun know how to knock some senses into ur head...... Any1 here can help educate this kiddi? QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 7 2009, 04:25 PM) I will continue to call you 21 years old kid. I don't mind to call you 5 years old kid. If you are mature enough, there should be more issues and statements with meanings and not plain sacarstic and childish words. You are yet to make this assumption and dream to become a "houseman" full time until you manage to have monthly period, pregnant and deliver baby. There's nothing to be proud of if you are a full time houseman yet no qualification to get pregnant and taste the pain of deliver a baby. Oh yes, it is. Who says it isn't? This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 05:45 PM
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 06:50 PM Return to original view \| Post #26
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	The way u answers disappointed me also.. Simple YES or No also cant answer properly.. I don't put any gender bias on the questions, coz its target is to see what type of "animal" character u r and what is your stand on ur topic - Girls are money minded, and proud of it. "animal" - coz wild and hard to know wats their reaction.. sometimes can do weird thing to get attention. Just like asking a small girl... her elder bro like to pee in his pant alwys. Is it good or not good? She will said not good la.. shame shame ma... Even small girl also can give a logic good answer. She wont said, i'm not elder bro, i dunno. ma.. Get it? U know wat is relavant question or not relavant question?. Asking guy whisper or tampon is better? this is plain stupid question .. I didn't ask abt ur personal life relationship with ur hubby.. don't bother to know oso.. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 7 2009, 04:50 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « I've already answer to my best I can, I duno what answer yu're expecting. Let my repeat again... I'm not asking the majority ppl. You also don't need to become a man to answer YES or NO rite? How can I answer a male question? its something like I ask you if whisper is better or tampon, you can only answer this if you;re a female, otherwise your answer is irrelevant you keep asking me about that guy, how I know how guys choose or what he want in his life? Same goes if i ask this question. A girl who knows hes bf alwys have affair outside but still stay with him for years because the BF rich have $$$$/ strong family financial backup. Hoping her bf will be touched and chg with her sincerity n loves. Later married ady still not chg .. divorce chances high ma... Whether the girl should leave the BF long time ago. or cont the relationship with tat guy n later get married? If i answer YES - leave tat guy, tat doesn't mean i'm a girl ma.. because you;re simply answering, then answer my tampon question Simple direct answer like YES or NO can ady. I just want to know wats ur answer only. If u want to give some supporting explaination also ok for ur YES/NO answer. Based on ur pusing-pusing reply.. My assumption ur answer is Q1 - NO. A shouldn't dump B coz loves her very much eventho A knows B only start to loves A after A can give more security ($$$$) Q2 - NO. Market or majority girls are wrong. Most of the girls (market/majority) should not satisfied n settle down with a normal working guy. They should only marry to guys with more security $$$ than a normal hardworking guy. Now we can see clearly your TRUE COLOURS...... Correct me if my assumption of ur answer is wrong.. you keep ignoring what I said...for the last time I'm telling you The guy fit to be my husband needs to be rich, PLUS GOOD HUSBAND MATERIAL, meaning, I fall in love with him, he swept my feet, romantic, caring, loyal, sensitive to my needs, responsible etc And what are you trying to prove by kept coming up with question? do you think life is so simple like, how you try to put? This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 06:53 PM
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 09:56 PM Return to original view \| Post #27
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Aik.. why u reply den? My post earlier was for MOORISH not for U. Pls read properly o. My criticism is purely for those girls tat money minded.. looking for security ($$$$) rich guy n proud when marry them.. lol. Marry a good normal hardworking guy earning decent is a big NO, they will regret later ma... If u feel u r in tat category than too bad la.. If not den shooh.. go play elsewhere. QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 7 2009, 09:11 PM) Sorry viper88, I really find no points from your posts. I prefer to spend time to discuss and debate with 7chai and the rest of them. Perhaps you may continue to respond to my posts but I will only reply when I find your post has at least a point to discuss or debate about. Of course, thanks for your criticisms to me.
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viper88	Oct 7 2009, 10:45 PM Return to original view \| Post #28
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Lol.. seems like u still dun understd.. I didn't ask about marriage issue, or the girl is super gorgeous in eyes A, should have doubt on the girl or not etc... crap thingy... read my questions..dun pusing-pusing n play inside bushes la. 1st questions. Whether A should have dump B long time ago? A - normal hardworking guy earning good average pay B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency. Since u said u not guy duno how to answer, ask guy whisper or tampon nice? now give another excuse go ask ur husband tat question lar... like playin inside bushes.. den fine. i reverse the questions with diff scenario earlier also.... =========================== Same goes if i ask this question. A girl who knows her bf alwys have affair outside but still stay with him for years because the BF rich have $$$$/ strong family financial backup. Hoping her bf will be touched and chg with her sincerity n loves. Later married ady still not chg .. divorce chances Whether tat girl should have dump rich bf long time ago? Yes- the girl should have dump B long time ago? No- Tat girl should cont the relationship hoping rich bf will chg for good. ============================ The main point for my 1st question is if u know the one u loves, don't loves u at the beginning but loves u later when u have more money, will u dump your loves one earlier or cont drag till get married lo knowing ur loves one loves ur money and den willing to loves u n marry u. Simple nia.. YES or NO. 2nd question no need answer liao.. too complex for u. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 7 2009, 09:52 PM) Added on October 7, 2009, 9:56 pm peeing is about the spur of a moment, you dun have to be a boy or girl to know the answer, about marriage is a serious issue, you need to be critical, and hence I've said many many so many times, the guy seem very happy so he must be happy and you should congratulate him, but instead you had doubt about her. and then you ask me to be him and in his shoes, if I would ditched her??? maybe she is super gorgeous in his eyes, how do I know such thing? so how can I answer your question, I'm not a guy, this question you should post to my husband! Added on October 7, 2009, 10:49 pmDuno la.. some ppl maybe. U din photo chop the baby pic still okla... I feel both oso cute in their own ways. Actually i prefer cute baby, so i vote baby more cute. QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 7 2009, 10:35 PM) Can really be mistaken for making fun of her baby meh? This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 7 2009, 10:53 PM
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 10:55 AM Return to original view \| Post #29
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Yup, there are cases of those so called "Rich man" wives used their hubby money for spree shopping, mahjong or go up Uncle Lim place for gambling. When they cant get enuf money from the hubby to support their lust for more money... these ppl start to sell body or take loan from ah long..some might even have affair with another richer man just to get extra money. If they cant get the more $$$$$$, they will become despo and start wreaking havoc with their hubby.. Once become crazy for money,,,,unsatisable hunger for moor... kicks in... So, girls pls dun be money minded and proud of it ok. QUOTE(frankycm @ Oct 8 2009, 01:12 AM) Siverhawk, I have even seen wives ditched their husband and children when times are bad. What have you gotto say ? Isn't not this bad enough ? and I bet you many fall to Ah-Long's victim is relevant to these demanding wives. WTF !!!
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 11:56 AM Return to original view \| Post #30
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 08:33 AM) Lol.. seems like u still dun understd.. I didn't ask about marriage issue, or the girl is super gorgeous in eyes A, should have doubt on the girl or not etc... crap thingy... read my questions..dun pusing-pusing n play inside bushes la. 1st questions. Whether A should have dump B long time ago? A - normal hardworking guy earning good average pay B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency. Since u said u not guy duno how to answer, ask guy whisper or tampon nice? now give another excuse go ask ur husband tat question lar... like playin inside bushes.. den fine. i reverse the questions with diff scenario earlier also.... if you insist an answer no matter how unrealistic it can be, then YES, Guy should keep girl. If I were a boy, I would pamper her, I would understand how she feel about security, I must first look at myself and see if I'm even qualify to marry her, do I have the capability to start a family. If she accept me then I'm proud of myself and know I'm there, I'm successful. Happy? No matter how unrealistic it can be? This is real thing happen in BGR nowdays, you as a mother and when ur son grow up later, hope u will adv ur son like wat u wrote above ok? Don't say i dunno, not realistic, ask hubby adv ur son. Knowing the girl is money minded, and also have other guy friends, treat ur son as normal friend /special spare tayar for few years eventho ur son have confessed to her many times. Don't know whether she also like to play inside the bushes with other guys. Theres high possibility the girl will stray away n go fly kite with other richer man when she found 1. When that time happen, hope no1 end up haf 2 see doctor for counselling. =========================== Same goes if i ask this question. A girl who knows her bf alwys have affair outside but still stay with him for years because the BF rich have $$$$/ strong family financial backup. Hoping her bf will be touched and chg with her sincerity n loves. Later married ady still not chg .. divorce chances Whether tat girl should have dump rich bf long time ago? Yes- the girl should have dump B long time ago? No- Tat girl should cont the relationship hoping rich bf will chg for good. they're many more things involve, and things like this happen everyday, you must make clear in the first place if the girl really love that guy. Do u read the word i highlighted above in red ? You know I've this happening to my frens the husband is not even rich, earning about 5k, she caught him hvg a girl and when they quarrel he even beat her. I told her to dump him, but she just couldnt, infact she tried to revive the marriage by opening a biz for him loan from the parents I know the family very well, the parents are not rich either they refinance the house. I really wanted to tell her parents not to loan, but my other gf told me better dun get mixed up. so i just stood aside and watch her destroy her life, at first she did bought sometime, he left the girl and my fren was so happy, later, again she caught him with another girl, after that he left her for that girl. my fren cut her wrist, send to hospital, parents have to make false report caused by falling and smashing the sliding door. so you see when you see such a case dun take life so simple...girl wants money, you think people no feeling one meh? ============================ So here, u will adv to dump tat guy (not even rich, 5K) , if that guy earn 10K how ?... maybe theres some chance tat guy will be touched by ur frens sincerity n loves and chg for good? Why don't u adv if ur fren really loves him, its okla give him chance and hope he will chg? Like ur adv earlier for the guy to continue chase the B girl by improving himself financially. Kinda opposite view from ur 1st reply...irony. Have u heard the saying "A Leopard Can't Change His Spots" ? The main point for my 1st question is if u know the one u loves, don't loves u at the beginning but loves u later when u have more money, will u dump your loves one earlier or cont drag till get married lo knowing ur loves one loves ur money and den willing to loves u n marry u. Simple nia.. YES or NO. again this happen everyday. want to hear stories? No thxs. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Added on October 7, 2009, 10:49 pmDuno la.. some ppl maybe. U din photo chop the baby pic still okla... I feel both oso cute in their own ways. Actually i prefer cute baby, so i vote baby more cute.
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 01:55 PM Return to original view \| Post #31
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 01:07 PM) A spontaneous respond would be same like what you say it is, bcoz you want to protect the son, and being unreasonable and accuse the girl will run away when son is poor. Notice unreasonable is being use? because you dun think properly. But can we judge a person because we assume what a person will do in future? Is it even right to do that? unless the girl had a track record for being unfaithful then yes we can use that but that also we need to see if the person truly changed. so I think you;re being unreasonable as mention maybe she set a standard? Unreasonable? Do u read properly wat i wrote? B - Girl tat only accept guys tat can provide more security (XXXXXX), no money can only be friend with A to buy some time 1st... use A as spare tayar in case got emergency. What does this mean? Accusing? Think properly la.. as mention again, a spontaneous respond is clouded with emotion, because we're angry, someone we care are the victim. Here we;re debating if what I'm saying is true, what I'm doing will bring happiness, because you guys phailed to understand when I add rich to husband, I did not remove the usual husband quality, its just that he is rich. Are you telling me rich guys are not honest? not loyal? no love? dead cell? I did't say rich guy not honest/not loyal/no love. I gave u a clear scenario and expect u can answer smartly but u get disillusioned with ur so called rich man with good quality.. A girl who knows her bf alwys have affairoutside but still stay with him for years because the BF rich have $$$$/ strong family financial backup. Hoping her bf will be touched and chg with her sincerity n loves. Later married ady still not chg .. I wanted to know whether u will adv the girl leave the guy coz of his bad habits or stick with him coz of the $$$$$.. Same goes for the earlier, the guy should leave the girl coz she is money minded, can only be friend so she can have more other guy friends to get $$$ around and used him as spare tyre. Whether true loves really comes later , no 1 knows. U know wat is "Prevention is better than cure". As simple as that. Seems that u phailed to understand both situation.. good luck in educating ur children and other girls here.
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 03:44 PM Return to original view \| Post #32
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Ya.. she likes to spin around to cover her obviously earlier mistake... or else she wont edited her front page post. I ask her direct simple questions also she cant give a proper answer. After kena shoot den diam diam ady.. QUOTE(silverhawk @ Oct 8 2009, 03:18 PM) I ask you a direct question, and you answer the opposite of what I ask? You're incredibly selfish, arrogant, and narcissistic to think that your husband's life is just entirely filled with you, as though as a person he has no other purpose or function. What the heck is he to you? A tool to fulfil your needs? Is that all you see him as? Is it so hard for you to just list a few things that defines him for who he is? Perhaps like how he's such a selfless person? or perhaps his confidence and how he carries himself? treats his parents/relatives? or how he is driven and motivated? his unique style of thinking? etc. etc. etc. After dating a person for so long, being married and having his child. Simple stuff like that doesn't even cross your mind when you think about him? How incredibly self centred you are moorish.
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 03:54 PM Return to original view \| Post #33
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	So u admit ur earlier posting is VERY misleading and might caused BAD influence to GIRLS if they understd wrongly. Next time think properly first before take action and its outcome consequences. Yeah.. PROUD OF IT. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 03:25 PM) I only add in words, below my original post because many phail to understand, I did not delete anything on the original post This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 8 2009, 03:55 PM
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 04:44 PM Return to original view \| Post #34
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Why u want to make it simpler for ppl to understd if there are so many ppl here are against u? They also have poor judgement? How many ppl here beside debbieyss and few puny tat hlp cover ur back ? Tot u said market alwys rite? If the msg u want to pass ard is wrong, pls brave enuf and admit la.... dun spin around and give lame excuses. You are the one that have poor comprehension on my questions and give poor answers coz u are so far out from the actual situation FACT given. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 04:14 PM) you phailed to understand and yet wanna complaint??? Just shows how poor you comprehend things, I edit it to make it simpler for you to understand...and yes thats an insult. Added on October 8, 2009, 4:17 pm I did answer you right? unless again you didnt understand. infact I think I answer you 3 times you shouldnt ask complicated question if you;'ve poor comprehension, btw this is not court right? yes or no? if you want yes or no answer, ask simple question like are you a girl? This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 8 2009, 04:54 PM
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 05:53 PM Return to original view \| Post #35
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	I never say such thing.. dun accuse la. money minded - gold digger. Nop.. i din say this at all.. refuse to accept society fact? Wat fact? Rich guy ada amoi, amoi go for rich guy should be proud like u? Girl go for average hard working guy - immature, will regret of their choice years later ? are you even living in the city? i'm living in a cave but have wifi signal to reply u. Use blain pls.. ya.. its a insult. I repeat again with some highlight in red. "Read the 1st few pages she wrote, i already know its not right... bad influence for other girls. C text in red.. tat is ur own view, not necessary society fact or other girls should follow ur view. QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM) "security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi. So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security! To girls, money is a great temptation. I love A, but he is so short and skinny and always get sick cannot hunt for food and B is tall and strong and will be able to hunt and protect me and the children. 2009: I love A but he is poor, but B is rich and can provide security (money) What I'm saying is modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature: You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases. A - he earn money from the parent and his rich cause his parent is rich... B - he earn Rm 4k a month a civil engineering salary grows as he gets older, maybe the earning can be RM 12k a month depends on business. so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money? Moorish answer. If marriage I would pick A If pak toh I would choose B. Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 04:53 PM) What I'm saying is wrong? you refuse to accept society fact? are you even living in the city? Do you think most girls would marry a bum? who cant provide? your ego as got over you, you can stand aside and let ppl who are better at debate to do the job, but dun create fantasy in your mind and think this is real and shaft it down on ppl. A lot of ppl against me because I hurt their ego just like you, if I'm so wrong this thread wouldnt have gone 90 pages right? it would've been shot down on page one. Infact I'm sure you;ve heard from frens or heard stories like wife or gf leave them because they cant provide, hence girls are money minded, but like debbie says money minded doesnt necessary means gold digger.
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viper88	Oct 8 2009, 11:38 PM Return to original view \| Post #36
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Wow.. if girls willing to follow her adv.... hope u all will find true happiness n love with ur future hubby. Gud luck. From: http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 QUOTE (junkie_1224 @ Mar 17 2009, 04:22 AM) Hi, i am having dilemma this few months. I have two guys to choose to be my future husband :- (a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc.. But he is not high educated, smoker, bad attitude, bad family background. He love me but I dont have d feeling. (b) He is just an employee with age of 30. Graduated from Inti College in Civil Engineering. Salary per mth only less than rm4k. But good n polite family background, good attitude, socially smoker,treat me good. Even if no $$, also will buy gifts to make u happy. Planning to do business when have $$. He love me and i love him too. For u guys opinion, whom should i choose? Actually i have chosen, but i just want to hear u guys opinion. Thanks all Moorish reply.. Choose A Do you never hear the classic tale?, when young time both can drink water and pretend its diner, struggle for him, help him out in the rent and so on, when he made it big in his 30s he will have a PRC woman as a kept. If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time When talking about marriage you choose the secure one, are you even a woman? This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 8 2009, 11:44 PM
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viper88	Oct 9 2009, 11:08 AM Return to original view \| Post #37
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	If u emphasize more abt "mother", mother - a woman near saint level, mothers love and so on, a woman care for the family and children, attentive and so on Wah.. suddenly loves becomes more important ady r? No more emphasize on security ($$$$) rich guy more important than loves for those normal hardworking guy? Irony... why u wrote: "to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security! modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature: You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases. so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money? Moorish answer. If marriage I would pick A If pak toh I would choose B. Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal. I have two guys to choose to be my future husband :- (a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc.. But he is not high educated, smoker, bad attitude, bad family background. He love me but I dont have d feeling. (b) He is just an employee with age of 30. Graduated from Inti College in Civil Engineering. Salary per mth only less than rm4k. But good n polite family background, good attitude, socially smoker,treat me good. Even if no $$, also will buy gifts to make u happy. Planning to do business when have $$. He love me and i love him too. For u guys opinion, whom should i choose? Actually i have chosen, but i just want to hear u guys opinion. Thanks all Moorish reply.. Choose A Do you never hear the classic tale?, when young time both can drink water and pretend its diner, struggle for him, help him out in the rent and so on, when he made it big in his 30s he will have a PRC woman as a kept. If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time When talking about marriage you choose the secure one, are you even a woman? A normal good hardworking guy also deserve fair chance of love from girls and also they can get married. Girls shouldn't just marry a guy with more $$$$ only since $$$$ is more important for u. Tats very immature thinking... shame shame. QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 10:42 AM) most kampung I come from mothers do not work and are fulltime...wonder how they feed the children triple for you same dose for you...here you go" So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. I've emphasize about mother...not BMW, diamonds, LVs and so on...its all about babies, family, home sweet home. people associate mother with a woman near saint level, mothers love and so on, a woman care for the family and children, attentive and so on people dont associate mothers with prostitute, leecher and so on. This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 9 2009, 11:09 AM
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viper88	Oct 9 2009, 11:28 AM Return to original view \| Post #38
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	Dun play inside bushes again la.. so called "mother". I'm not confusing others. That is wat u wrote earlier on ur views. There are so many ppl here find ur point of view already obsolete. Highlighted to u, but u are still in denial state..... shame shame X2. Again, can u tell us wat u wrote earlier? Lap sap? U wrote. so which will you choose, a man who take money from the parent, or a man that works hard for the money? Moorish answer. If marriage I would pick A If pak toh I would choose B. Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal. I have two guys to choose to be my future husband :- (a) He is financially secure with 5 figure income every month with own business with age of 25. Treat me well and I can spend luxuriously . Not much worried financially. He can provide everythings such as house, car, petrol, foods, shopping, holiday, entertainment etc.. But he is not high educated, smoker, bad attitude, bad family background. He love me but I dont have d feeling. (b) He is just an employee with age of 30. Graduated from Inti College in Civil Engineering. Salary per mth only less than rm4k. But good n polite family background, good attitude, socially smoker,treat me good. Even if no $$, also will buy gifts to make u happy. Planning to do business when have $$. He love me and i love him too. For u guys opinion, whom should i choose? Actually i have chosen, but i just want to hear u guys opinion. Thanks all Moorish reply.. Choose A Do you never hear the classic tale?, when young time both can drink water and pretend its diner, struggle for him, help him out in the rent and so on, when he made it big in his 30s he will have a PRC woman as a kept. If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time When talking about marriage you choose the secure one, are you even a woman? QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 11:12 AM) A normal good hardworking guy also deserve fair chance of love from girls and also they can get married. Girls shouldn't just marry a guy with more $$$$ only since $$$$ is more important for u. Tats very immature thinking... shame shame. This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 9 2009, 11:29 AM
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viper88	Oct 9 2009, 11:55 AM Return to original view \| Post #39
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	I didn say anything abt myself here to deserve chance .. Dont get the wrong pic. Read the posting properly. Its HER OWN point of view. She feel its the right thing to do and encourage other girls to do the same. No need to tell her she is wrong? Its fine if u dont want to do so. If u are not so sure she is wrong. Den how sure are u, i and the others are barking the wrong tree. ? QUOTE(Duke Red @ Oct 9 2009, 11:37 AM) Think you're barking up the wrong tree mate. You cannot say you deserve a chance. If someone feels you do, they'll give it to you but you can't shove it down someone's face. She doesn't speak on behalf of the entire female population fortunately. If she wants to marry a guy because he's rich, then that's her perogative. There is no need to tell her she is wrong, because I'm not so sure she is. It's just a choice she's made. I'd approach it from another angle.
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viper88	Oct 9 2009, 12:08 PM Return to original view \| Post #40
Look at all my stars!! Senior Member 2,359 posts Joined: Apr 2006	If girls have this mature mindset like spunkberry, my respect for them. U have my respect too spunkberry QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 9 2009, 11:45 AM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Yes, and women like you don't do shit to change the way this happens. It is a fact that this happens because women think they are entitled to what men earn ... and then complain about equal rights and all that jargon. So you want to be able to bum off men and have equal rights? You can't have both, woman, pick one or the other. Yeah ... so you're basically saying that a financially capable man is at least 20 years older than I am. So I should go for such men in order to guarantee my future? Hell no, I don't need a man to have a future! Changing your name to his doesn't give you entitlement to everything he owns. It just means that you are part of his family now. It's women like you that make men do prenups. Real life example of when you can regret your current mindset? What nonsense are you talking about? It doesn't sound like you regret your mindset at all, let alone hope that you will regret it someday. (this whole regret thing doesn't make sense but I guess I'll use it so you'll know what I'm talking about). Yeah, so why can't you contribute to household expenses? Why must everything be on the man's shoulders? And then when he fails, you call him incompetent. What about you? All you would be doing is nagging him and not doing shit to contribute and you want to tell me about living expenses and financially capable men? [ Yeah, and all that money that my parents spend on me is food alone. Again I reiterate: where is YOUR contribution to the family? Are you telling me that you are perfectly happy merely being the vessel from which children are sprung from? Sounds like it is because you keep talking about feeding your kids blah blah blah. Surely you're not SO concerned about your children when looking for a financially capable man? And that brings me to my mentioning your shopping sprees ... You said it yourself that you are high maintenance and therefore need a financially capable man because of your preference for branded goods and expensive makeup brushes due to their quality blah blah blah ... and then you turn around and talk about looking for a financially capable man to feed your children. You're so all over the place is it really any wonder why I don't know what your stance is anymore? So with that being said, you agree that when men betray and cheat on you, THEN you can bum off them All men in agreement say AYE! It was justified. Breastfeeding. And you're a mother? Wow.
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