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 Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.

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viper88
post Oct 9 2009, 12:20 PM

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Looks like u r the one tat don't understand.
Its her own choice if she wants to think like that, what i want to point out is the "mindset" flaw not only to her but also to OTHER GIRLS
that have the same thinking influenced/blurred by $$$$$ in making important decision.

Understd? hmm.gif

QUOTE(Duke Red @ Oct 9 2009, 12:07 PM)
Agreed but it's a personal choice. If she can live with the fact that no one respects her for the way she thinks, then it's her perogative.
LOL! now now kids.
When I say you are "barking up the wrong tree", I'm indicating that you are using the wrong approach to tell her she is wrong i.e. by trying to convince her that guys who aren't rich deserves a chance. It's like hitting a wall over and over again. She doesn't think they do so why go there?
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post Oct 9 2009, 12:29 PM

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Dunno how 2 reply liao den say lo.. laugh.gif

QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 12:23 PM)
no more debating with you until you understand simple comprehension. doh.gif
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post Oct 9 2009, 01:24 PM

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Different ppl have different priorities in doing selection, its their own choice.

the least u can do is to NOT kill other ppl's dream?

How about the normal hardworking guy want to marry their love ones also?
Ask them to play backside with other guy? tongue.gif
Since the girl dump them coz found another more security $$$$ guy?

She cant simply kill their dream also by encourage other girls - thinking only more $$$$ guy are capable to provide more security and loves.
Those girls going for average hardworking guy are immature n will regret.



QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 12:30 PM)
Its not really a flaw. You just cant accept differences in priorities inherent in different individuals.

There is a difference between a girl who blindly go for $$ and a girl who choose to segregate her choice of marriage based on the prospective husband's wealth. One will never be pleased as she will always aim higher and higher, the other will be contend when her demands are met (ie security). And since moorish has finally settled down and happy with her choice, I would say she falls into the latter category.

Its like how some ppl choose their relationships based on the prospects height, weight, mindset...so too do some ppl based their importance on financial capability. And she will choose her potential mates from within this pool of ppl that matches her minimum criteria. And if you dont fall within this pool, the least u can do is to NOT kill other ppl's dream.
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post Oct 9 2009, 03:18 PM

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Since when i said all girls prioritise money? In ur dream?
Some girls are matured, hard working and willing to work hard helping their love ones in any possible ways.
They dont place $$$ as their main criteria in finding husband coz they know its a mutual responsibility.

I do understd the diff between ur a) and b) clearly, i have no issue with it and dont have any high expectation for them to chg lower their requirement also.
Its their own decision ma.

The only thing u dont understd here is why some1 here trying to encourage other girls to chg their minimum std requirement to higher std?
If not, she will say those girls are immature n will regret in life in future.

U get the drift onot? Dont simply bang here n there la.. rclxub.gif

QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 01:29 PM)
Find someone with different aspirations in life. Not all girls prioritise money. Whats your problem? Feeling inadequate? Fear being left out? Dont fret. You can always try to spanar spunkberry.

Anyway, you still dont get it. Already said so many times. There is a difference between

a)girls who want more money(no limit)
b)girls who want enough money (the minimum standard is different among individuals ofcourse).

PS: you cant expect a girl to lower her minimum requirement to fit your dreams can you? show some class.
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post Oct 9 2009, 04:36 PM

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Read properly la..

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Different ppl have different priorities in doing selection, its their own choice.

the least u can do is to NOT kill other ppl's dream?

How about the normal hardworking guy want to marry their love ones also?
Ask them to play backside with other guy?
Since the girl dump them coz found another more security $$$$ guy?

(girls tat get influenced by TS)

She cant simply kill their dream also by encourage other girls - thinking only more $$$$ guy are capable to provide more security and loves.
Those girls going for average hardworking guy are immature n will regret.
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Did i mentioned all girls? doh.gif I'm saying only those girls tat get influence by wat TS.
Don't simply assume if u r not sure wat i'm saying.
Who is not paying attention now? Imply wat again? all girls prioritise $$$$$? ya rite.


QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 03:29 PM)
You did imply that when u asked whats going to happen to all those poor blokes who fail to meet TS's standards. And my reply was awefully simple, look for the ones who dont prioritise money. I'm amazed by ppl who cant keep a focused perspective during a discussion.  doh.gif Pay attention please.


But u clearly wanted them to jatuh their standard to make the 'lower level' fellas happy, otherwise you claim she is wrong. now u say its her right to not jatuh her standard. Are you changing sides now? welcome aboard...here have a Moorish tshirt.

I only pointed out TS mindset is not right saying other girls are immature or will regret in life if they choose a normal average hardworking guy as hubby.
and i feel its a bad to influence for other girls to choose husband priority based on $$$.
I'm not forcing her to chg her std also coz "Leapord wont chg its spot" ma.



I doubt she is trying to convert anyone. She's just defending herself from the attacks she undeservedly receive thru her choice of husband. And she's saying its ok to make the choice she did, coz she is happy now. What she is saying to the other girls is not to get discouraged by ppl who tell them otherwise.

Doubt she try to convert?

What she wrote here is for others to read and at the same time she call other girls immature and will regret if didn't follow her footstep to set a higher std..

Do u read wat she wrote?

"to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.

So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security!

modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature:

You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases.

Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal.

If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time
When talking about marriage you choose the secure one."


Its the dream. She's made hers a reality. What about you?


I have my own life goals, some i've already achieved it and continuously working to achieve higher and better goals in my life.
I don't have to depend on other people $$$$ to feel more secure in my life to achieve my dream.

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post Oct 9 2009, 08:10 PM

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Tat is ur own intepretation - i belief no girls out there can accpt non-rich guy?

Use common sense pls, did i say all girls out there? ...
Its u that think i mean all girls out there only feel secure if marry guy with more $$$$. So guys have to play backside wih other guys..

wow.. how smart. tongue.gif

I already said many times some girls are matured and can hlp their husband in financial. They don't emphasis guy with more money only suitable to become their husband.

All this while i've been highlighting only those girls who have the same mindset or those tat might get influence by wat TS wrote only.
Still phailed to understd? shakehead.gif

The guy play backside with other guy - is just a joke.
If u are really tat dumb to follow.... den its your own choice. laugh.gif

QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 04:44 PM)
This passage my friend. This passage implies that u believe there are no girls out there that can accept a non-rich guys. So i'm telling no, my friend, that is not the case. Different girls have different priorities setting different standards.

You seem to be taking what moorish said and imply that she meant is for all girls out there. She's not. She's just saying that its ok to choose a husband the way she did.

Those girls who put more importance in other areas need not apply. Guys like you can go for these girls. you dont have to play backside with other guy wan, understand?

Repeating the same thing is getting boring.
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post Oct 9 2009, 09:59 PM

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They are beyond help ady doh.gif ... keep pusing and give excuses.

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 9 2009, 09:12 PM)
that's bullshit. first you say that there are levels of high maintenance, now you want to redefine the meaning of "rich". wtf.
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post Oct 9 2009, 10:54 PM

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How u know i'm toking cok ? U know wat is cok onot?
U cock sure or dun haf cok? Better chk ur cok 1st den dun talk cok here.

Why must i summarize to u? u can read urself r boy? laugh.gif


QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 10:03 PM)
viper88 dont talking the c0king please...post #2117 has a request for you.
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:38 AM

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No relevant point worth debating?

Asking u questions from different angle/scenario to see what is your point of view related to ur topic stand also cant?
By answering clearly will shows others what u actually mean and set as example for others to follow.
You didn't, instead you try to add in different/additional factors of ur own view to my questions trying to cover urself . shakehead.gif

You also simply edit ur front page and delete off big chunk of your own words...
and now trying to act as u are "clean" not so corrupted with $$$ or didn't gave any wrong impression/influence for others.

Smart.... like i've said early.
A leopard will not change its spots.

No matter how hard u try to reply, chg or edit topic post ... most of ppl who follow this thread know wat is your earlier MAIN intention was. brows.gif

QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 09:01 AM)
Dickson was proven a phailed debater like viper88, they just attack with no relevent point worth debating...you've just quote this...he question if I was a female..
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post Oct 10 2009, 10:47 PM

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No wonder la.. ur past experience makes u think with more security $$$$ guy/husband, things will be much better.
You don't have do those hassle things u dun like/ mafan stuff by urself and leave it for others to kau time using $$$$.

Have u heard the saying "Sorry, no cure".? No matter how hard u say sorry, the damage is done and the crack will alwys be in ur heart.
Sometimes, its the person attitude that put love aside and give lotsa excuses when bad things happen.

Like my friend, she's also a full time mother, Hubby earns 15K.
She alwys complain her baby hard to take care n alwys kacau her when she o9 in her room.
Recently she put her baby play alone outside her room, but the baby alwy try go into her room. She close the door try to block her baby go into her room but din
notice her baby finger is at the side of the door hinge den kiap the baby finger till kemek... lotsa blood and whole finger turn black.. baby cry non-stop. cry.gif
Sent to specialist for treatment chk finger bone break ady...
dunno next time still can write properly onot...

Maybe wat i wrote above way out topic ady.. its just my adv for full time mother dun take things for granted even u have rich hubby, u need to take care ur children or love ones well.

Good luck.

QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 10 2009, 07:55 PM)
Life was hard for the remaining 1 and a half years I think, dad was tied to the bed, his skin would be very flaky, i would take leave until nearly kena fire, and at night I really really party getting high not only in alcohol. Many times mom would call me to come back early cos dad made a mess and I would just delay and sometimes ignore her, I was really tired of all these, I was passed the stage where I feel ashame of myself, I just couldnt take the burden.

Many times I would pray to God to take my dad away, I would say it is for his own good but I think I do it because I cant take the burden anymore. one fine morning having breakfast with my mom, she ask me to check on dad as he was coughing, she told me to take him to see doc few days ago but I just dili dali, so I got up and went to dads room and I saw he was yellow, I went near him and feel his hands, it was really could, tears gather at my eyes I gave a last kiss on his forehead, my lips was like kissing on a cold tile.

I've phail, but I gave excuse to myself I'm only human, I can only take burden to only a certain load, I feel guilty and sorry, it has been many years since dad passed away I've never fail to go pray and put orkids to his grave every month, orkid was his fav flower. This is to remind myself, the failure I once was for I couldnt keep a simple promise to look after father.

Actually I duno if its good that I share such personal matter here, but guess nobody knows who I am they wont know who my dad was. And hopefully my experience will bring light to others here, because I know one day it would be my moms turn and this time I think I;m better prepared. And hopefully you guys be prepared to.
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post Oct 11 2009, 12:02 AM

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Impression to kao leng lui, or leng lui wants to kao RICH man den its important la.. laugh.gif

Here is just a normal forum site. I dun bother much abt "Impression".
Whether they want to take it seriously or not, its up to them.

I don't expect much from her oso since so many ppl already replied here.

QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 10 2009, 11:26 PM)
erm viper, to your understanding, impression itself is important in expressing one views to others

they way you used "No wonder la" and other broken english seems to be one of the reason people don't take you seriously in expressing your thought, it somehow show unnecessary emotion by being judgemental over a person, hence people will more likely try to ignore it
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post Oct 11 2009, 10:33 AM

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Stated few time already, in my previous replies.. not only for her but other girls tat have the same mindset or might get influence.
Go n read.

QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 11 2009, 12:23 AM)
then your comeback replies to her is because +_+ ?

else i do know what it is
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post Oct 11 2009, 11:08 AM

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She have a different mindset... too narrow minded ady. She don't want to look at different angle like wat sum of us here do.
After all the traumas she had gone thru, she feel its the best for her and others.

Other people views which diff from her, whether her self conscious tell maybe wrong but its too hard for her to accpt it,.
She even think those who look for true loves are like taking life as one of the version of fairytales.

QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 11 2009, 10:47 AM)
debbie doesn't know half of what she wants. I wouldn't take her opinion seriously if I were you.

Yeah I know the world's watching ... and I know the world's gonna laugh at what you just said about studying soulmates therefore you know all about them. That has GOT to be the funniest shit I've ever heard!
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B +ve. icon_rolleyes.gif


QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 11 2009, 11:10 AM)
if I took my traumas to heart that seriously, I wouldn't love again. How about that?
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