You're the man! +10000

ask noob13 or dickson poon.

Oh yes, this is the ideal man.....which may not exist in the world....

Teongpeng, can you simplify your statements?

Yes, noted what you're trying to say.
Another other comments other than "Right"?

No harm to know more opinions from a man's point of view.

Ok.

Got what you mean.

I would like to know as much opinions as possible.

that's why I work very hard to earn myself and my family members a better living.
I just need a financially and mentality mature man to love me, if he can't make it, that's it. I want him to be financial capable 'cos I hope he could support his own living expenses before taking care of me, his family and my family.

aiyo...her answer is very obvious what.... stil want her to answer meh?

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 5 2009, 01:27 AM

spamming in pointless comments isn't convincing at all.

Will tell you when you have spelled my name correctly

not-so-rich guys will also cari makan, this is true.

but since both poor and rich guys also cari makan, why not choose a rich and self-agressive guy?

You can comment my statement and my personality in any way you like, I will not take what you've said.

How to determine if a poor guy's personality is lazy or self-agressive? By the income he earned. Simple. Self-agressive guy will be awarded by a stable and good salary job.

How to determine if a poor guy will not flirt and betray the marriage when he gets rich? Sorry. There's no way out for this. Woman has to take risk and take bet.

Choose a poor guy with good attitude/ambitious? Can. Any one can guarantee he won't betray the marriage? Can you?

Therefore, if you did read through my posts, I did mention that I will earn my own living expenses. I want love from a man, provided he can support his own living expenses and his family/parents. I hope his financial ability is to the extend where if any accident eg. parent falls sick, he doesn't have to care about the medical fees but to find a good doctor for the best medical option. I will not be his burden, neither does he.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 5 2009, 01:50 PM

When I was a little kid, I was very conservative and narrow-minded. At that moment, I used to have this perceptions which:

Gals who like clubbing, shopping branded clothes and girl accessories, eating at restaurant not food court, prefer imported cars = bad gals/irresponsible gals/rude gals

If you were born in year 1988, you are 21 this year. You should go out and work for few years, try to earn yourself and your parents money for daily expenses until you can feed your parents without them working any longer, until you are able to bare the expenses to feed every mouth of your family.

At this moment, I have nothing to discuss with you.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 5 2009, 03:09 PM

Hawky, your auntie is rich enough that she has the option to go for simple needs.

Those who are financial incapable has no other options except to keep on going for more and more simple needs.

Hawky, my expenses are low, too but I will not cease to aim for higher and higher income... yeah!

Yes, I agree to make our own money instead of clinging on bf/husband. That's why we have to work hard and smart and puruse our own career.

But make sure the husband that you choose is capable enough to support his own living and will not lure your money and beg you to support this and that, worse, to support his portions of liabilities. Make sure he will not plain lazy to work and puruse his career and is able to support the medical fees, education, insurance, bills etc.

Degrading my views or not is ok. I don't care to get any one of forumers here to agree with me.

You don't have to show me your bank account statement.
Me and you have no relations at all.
Unless you want, but I don't think you will take time to know such a "materialistic" person by appearing like me, do you?

Go and study, young boy.

It's nice to start a flame war with the children.

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Added on October 5, 2009, 10:56 pmI want to work and I have to work to earn money for my parents.
You thought earning money is easy?

My statement was to agree with yours.
You noob.


This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 5 2009, 11:07 PM

i'm not interested in partnership, not interested in MLM, not interested in insurance. And I don't want to get conned.

Actually, guys attracted to hot sexy pretty gals; gals attracted to handsome smart rich guys, is very NATURAL.

Why no one dare to admit?

Marry a pretty gal means he is shallow? How you know he is not attracted to her personality also?

Marry a handsome smart rich guy is prostitude? How you know that she is selling her body? How you know that she and him do not love each other?

First come first served.

I will definitely not to be like this.
LOL

If you don't think I'm a materialistic gal, why would you imply something and ask me to find a rich husband so that I don't have to work hard? You are plainly taking those words to hurt someone, instead of really go into a debate.

The more you reply to my posts, the more you are telling me that you don't know how to reply a person's post well, by reading every words she wrote and understand what she means before putting scarcastic comments. Since you are those streetguys who just know how to quote people's words out of context, I don't see any purpose to continue this debate with you.

Part of the reasons why a gal go for monetary security is because of guys with bad attitude like you, do not show respect and do not understand each other feeling. Ok then, how worth you are: an Average with average pay guy with BAD ATTITUDE like you, for a gal to marry as a husband? I'm pity of a boy like you (since you were born in year 1988, 21 years old kid), but you don't even have the gentleness and self-motiavted a man should behave, and shooting other "materialistic" gals who are ambitious to work hard and earn money.

Wait until one day you can afford to feed your parents and they don't have to work any longer, then only come back and shoot me.

You turned me off. Badly. I have nothing to talk to you. That's it.

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Added on October 6, 2009, 11:31 amNick, everyone will change.
You can't guarantee you won't change one day. You can't tell if the way you value things will change 2 years later, 5 years or even 10 years later.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 6 2009, 11:42 AM

I tell you what: man always stands the privilidge to take care and bare the living expenses of a family, ALL on his own. Be it in olden days or modern days, this is the natural, originial and initial living culture.

However, due to the current economics status, a man who has average pay can no longer be the only person to support the whole family, in order to give their family a moderate educations, medicals, daily, monthly or annual bills or installments. And that's why women nowadays coming out and start working for another pack of monthly income. Sad to say, this issue has been manipulated by many men out there (mainly those who are not self-motiaveted and incapable men who likes to stay in comfort zone), that women working in corporate world is a common issue and who do not, are plain lazy or selfish women, that sucks their husbands' money and properties.

If you have time, read some economics reference books, I believe this would help you understand more about the economics status that the whole world is facing.

Last but not least, it's not for a man to ask his wife or gf to build up her own financial ability; It's for a gal that willing to share the burden with her man and therefore do not mind to leave her comfort zone and start going back to her working life.

p.s: above highlighted portions are the edited done for your kind perusal. You may need to brush up your English, too.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Oct 6 2009, 12:26 PM