eiks! i face this situation before ma..
my so-call-super-best-god-sister..
the disagreement started when we stay under the same roof..
long long story to tell
now we are not contact each other oredi.
when she come to visit my mum during CNY, she look likes dun wan bother me oso.
no point for me to keep this frenship(the feeling is even worst then the broke up couple u know!!) since i oso feel like dun wan to see her face.l

Guess I m not that brave as U.
Envy U cz U did.

Dood. Sure fooled me. I had you for negro.

"Hell yeah! Ha! That's how we all talk? We all talk like dis, "suh"? Yes suh, ha! Yeah mmm-hmm get some crawfish, and some ribs, ha! Ye-aah. You're Australian! Be Australian!" -- Alpa Chino

This post has been edited by huattk: Mar 6 2009, 11:12 AM

haha!!really funny.makes me laugh the way u talk.
happy go lucky.

friend comes in many shape, size, character etc.
friends also comes and go.
so dont get too stress up cause of one ji mui

people change
especial those who are inferior
even couples
its all bout understanding
take and give

if she cont, just move on as well,
either she will get back or will drif apart.

ive seen 25yrs of ji mui separate cz of money,.
so its no big issues,
there are many people out there
there is unlimited supply of friends

more important, dont stress ur self for all the unnecessary things
all the best

Your english is as good as no one could hardly understand it.
Thank you

if she's acting like such a twat, just let her go.

If you've already really tried talking to her already (by that I mean if you try to bring this matter up to her, and she says 'let's not talk about it' you pressure her a little into actually talking it out and not just say 'ok let's leave it at that') and she's still like that.. really, just let her go.

Openly ask her what is the problem, why is she acting this way towards you..
if there's no solution or she doesnt want to forgive and forget..
i guess its time to say good bye to her...

I used to have this good fren.. same class and always together when we r in secondary school... since F2 thru F5
I've always been a good fren.. consulting her when she needed help or advice.. most of the time is guy problem.. even try to cover her ass when she did something wrong..
when there's prob btw she n her bf.. even the bf would call me up to complain bout her.. and i've always be the middle person to help them...

then.. after SPM.. i'm seeing a guy from school....
i have lots of good guy fren.. and this guy feel insecure bout it...
so the guy asked my so called 'best fren" bout it..
and my fren told the guy I'm having a relationship with another guy..
WTF! so this guy ended the relationship and eventually told me it's "her" who told him...
so i was like.. why did she do that to me? then i found out that she have feelings towards this guy and sabotage us..

i did ask her did she say that? and she said yes..cuz she thinks that there's something going on with me and another guy..
so i was like.. forget it.. move on.. still be friends with her..
will still call her up for girl talk n stuff.. but she never calls me...
eventually i realise this... and feel that all this while i was the one who is giving and she's not really a good fren.. kinda selfish...

so i stop calling.. we went to the same college but ended up in diff class cuz the choice of subject is diff... bump into each other sometimes.. do chat a bit.. but we are not good frens anymore..

moral of the story:
If you best fren doesnt value ur friendship and did something that hurts you.. i guess u can kick her out from ur best fren's list..
move on...

This post has been edited by slsl: Apr 18 2009, 05:40 PM

i have this weird aura...girls tat get too close wit me..will start to develop fobia toward me..xD..so..i have less so call G-F

hahaha. same here too!