Openly ask her what is the problem, why is she acting this way towards you..
if there's no solution or she doesnt want to forgive and forget..
i guess its time to say good bye to her...

I used to have this good fren.. same class and always together when we r in secondary school... since F2 thru F5
I've always been a good fren.. consulting her when she needed help or advice.. most of the time is guy problem.. even try to cover her ass when she did something wrong..
when there's prob btw she n her bf.. even the bf would call me up to complain bout her.. and i've always be the middle person to help them...

then.. after SPM.. i'm seeing a guy from school....
i have lots of good guy fren.. and this guy feel insecure bout it...
so the guy asked my so called 'best fren" bout it..
and my fren told the guy I'm having a relationship with another guy..
WTF! so this guy ended the relationship and eventually told me it's "her" who told him...
so i was like.. why did she do that to me? then i found out that she have feelings towards this guy and sabotage us..

i did ask her did she say that? and she said yes..cuz she thinks that there's something going on with me and another guy..
so i was like.. forget it.. move on.. still be friends with her..
will still call her up for girl talk n stuff.. but she never calls me...
eventually i realise this... and feel that all this while i was the one who is giving and she's not really a good fren.. kinda selfish...

so i stop calling.. we went to the same college but ended up in diff class cuz the choice of subject is diff... bump into each other sometimes.. do chat a bit.. but we are not good frens anymore..

moral of the story:
If you best fren doesnt value ur friendship and did something that hurts you.. i guess u can kick her out from ur best fren's list..
move on...

This post has been edited by slsl: Apr 18 2009, 05:40 PM