QUOTE(alexision @ Feb 21 2009, 01:25 AM)
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I'm in dilemma, I have a girl friend (not sure on girlfriend or just female friend) whom claimed that we both can be sisters and she really mean it.
So I've share all my things with her, gladly (<---?!??) Things changed when I've heard that she told a friend saying that I look down on her, which I did not. How can she say that. One of her claims is that I'm looking down on her because she doesnt have a source of income (no job?) All these was told to me by a friend. But I forgive her because she said sorry... but does she know what those words meant? (no sure those words as in false claims or the 'sorry' word)
So now I choose to mind my own business, I wont ask, talk or wanting to know more anymore. Until now it is still the same, but recently on the day we went for dinner. She sat next to me, everything was chill and cool. but as time passed, her same old attitude comes back, turning her whole back onto me (as in not facing him/her, angry?) Is this a sign or am I just paranoid?
Help x3 I don't know what do it, what does "chee mui" means? (I think its like sisters) Should I ask her if I've done anything wrong? This friendship is important to me (uhh... then why u choose to ask,talk,know less than before?)
WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO ABOUT THIS?

(in brackets is my opinion or thinkings)

soli me 1st time facing such problem n posted it online.Rusty.TQVM
Added on February 27, 2009, 2:01 pmQUOTE(9048 @ Feb 22 2009, 08:16 PM)
hm, maybe she talks bad about you is to test you. Boycotting you because you did not say 'i love you'.
she is only my so called god-sis.not that kind of fren.My writting mistake.
Added on February 27, 2009, 2:06 pmQUOTE(asa @ Feb 22 2009, 12:49 AM)
lol, chee mui = best fren as sister
the 1st point,
i dun think she treat u as a best fren, cos she said bad thing behind u ..
the 2nd point,
maybe she might be too self centralized
maybe u has said something didnt carry any specific meaning but she mean it in a negetive way(eg;u said u wan to buy car..it hurt her that she unable to buy a car )
unless u find out what is d problem and wat is the 'look down case' she refered, otherwise nothing else u can do. she will juz continue to act cold to you.
U can really read her mind.Know the cause alrdy n ask me to forgive her.I did.
Just can't figure out why is she still treating me the same way.
TQ so much.
This post has been edited by raven6009: Feb 27 2009, 02:06 PM