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 Single's Club V151, let's welcome our GHEY STAR! peinxxxx XD

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KVReninem
post Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:51 AM)
I seen one such girl....

It was too mind boggling, you spend thousands of bucks for education, now she wasted it by becoming a full housewife....it is simply a waste of her potential...
I am encouraging her to work instead of slacking at home after she got the degree...

Afterall, i don't want to see my wife to be detached from real world and protected inside cocoon (HOME)
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nod.gif we dont want a unproductive counterparts.



QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:54 AM)
The benefit outweights the risk...

I still think it is fair for her to work, if she has the degree, i just pity a girl who don't work even though she puts her effort in studying...

Think of it, inflation pumps family cost...

If she don't work, HAHAHAHA
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ya; one breed winner is harder than 2 bread winner.

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 11:54 AM)
hi KV... what's with that red emoticon... ><'''
did you see my another reply there?
the one i quoted pein's reply..
yea, you don't want her to waste her degree~ just a PIECE of PAPER~
if you love her of who she is, you probably wouldn't really care whether she works or not~
perhaps you haven't met such girl yet~ wink.gif
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wub.gif cos i like tongue.gif

look anyone can hav degree in anything this day; but of one got degree with no exprience-its like a toilet paper IMHO.

talking about love; if you love someone for who she is; you also should encourage her to do something for herself then sitting down doing nothing n get fat right dear?

work can work' small stuff like work part time; do some the stuff she capable of.. well run small business with frens etc..there is many things to do then sitting at home be on lyn or sitting on sofa tune to lcd/ plasma n be fat n complain like the american. icon_rolleyes.gif

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Feb 20 2009, 10:59 AM)
If my wife is working, i might deal with more stresses cos i know there will be guys noticing my wife's cute bum which i probably going to hate. But if she works at home, they provided me a motivation to make more money and bring more food in the fridge and table. But on the bad side, if i ever hire a gardener, i will get insecure laugh.gif
Update:

US not good. Euro good. Aussie dropping 50 points plus now. Asia moderate.

laugh.gif
It's sad. But you know, its her decision. Im not the type of person who likes to take away a woman's free will.
Ok ok. SC2 top priority.

Haiz i also wish my sig is big too yo~ sad.gif
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standardised sig FTL.

anyway this is my new fav site

http://www.fmylife.com/
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QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 10:54 AM)
hi KV... what's with that red emoticon... ><'''
did you see my another reply there?
the one i quoted pein's reply..
yea, you don't want her to waste her degree~ just a PIECE of PAPER~
if you love her of who she is, you probably wouldn't really care whether she works or not~
perhaps you haven't met such girl yet~ wink.gif
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Wait for 2012, i will answer that biggrin.gif


QUOTE(RubyF @ Feb 20 2009, 10:55 AM)
horrr morning ppl biggrin.gif
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Morning, tomato

QUOTE(peinsama @ Feb 20 2009, 10:59 AM)
If my wife is working, i might deal with more stresses cos i know there will be guys noticing my wife's cute bum which i probably going to hate. But if she works at home, they provided me a motivation to make more money and bring more food in the fridge and table. But on the bad side, if i ever hire a gardener, i will get insecure laugh.gif
Update:

US not good. Euro good. Aussie dropping 50 points plus now. Asia moderate.

laugh.gif
It's sad. But you know, its her decision. Im not the type of person who likes to take away a woman's free will.
Ok ok. SC2 top priority.

Haiz i also wish my sig is big too yo~ sad.gif
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Let's wait and see, i hope my wife can work by that time....

The acceptable income for a household for me, is about RM 6000 to RM 7000 a month
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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Feb 20 2009, 10:53 AM)
i got show ah
got ppl see me before wud
Pharmaecutical sales macam gold mine laugh.gif
We sell traditional herbs
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wow...gold mine? Then lets gather many herbs!

Ok ok just like ancient times. All those tai fu rich rich belaka!


QUOTE(RubyF @ Feb 20 2009, 10:55 AM)
horrr morning ppl biggrin.gif
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Morning Miss ruby~

How may i assist you today ma'am?
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
I wouldn't say so, being a housewife isn't easy, and having a mother to take care of the children full time is a good thing. I know people want gender equality nowadays, but that doesn't mean both parents have to work. I like the idea of having a wife at home to take care of the kids.
We had a similar childhood! ohmy.gif
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u know
usually mean with inflated ego thinks that doing house chore = lame
little did they know that house chore is akin to a manager managing a business
and has to be profitable 100% without fail

sadly most of our msian men have this inflated ego

QUOTE(RubyF @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
eek why bite me
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cuz i lub to eat tomato can?
acceptable?


QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
i'm glad that you are who you are now, but the thing is~

not all the kids are like you ... some of them just think it differently...

for example

in a bad circumstance, we get to learn and overcome with it, the lucky one will become the stronger one, the unlucky one might be led to the wrong path~ you see the point?
you mean hawky and pein? two guys?~ XD
sometimes, work is not everything for girls~

sometimes, a family is what they really want...

it really depends on how she thinks+ how she's grown~

you think of money, and her effort in studying,.. which is MORE important than what she really wants, then too bad that you fail to understand...

but to claim that~ not ALL the female are like that~ wink.gif slowly find your superwomen and good luck~
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yesh i sound like ghey?
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM)
Wait for 2012, i will answer that  biggrin.gif
Morning, tomato
Let's wait and see, i hope my wife can work by that time....

The acceptable income for a household for me, is about RM 6000 to RM 7000 a month
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morning kampong!

QUOTE(peinsama @ Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM)
wow...gold mine? Then lets gather many herbs!

Ok ok just like ancient times. All those tai fu rich rich belaka!
Morning Miss ruby~

How may i assist you today ma'am?
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morning pein

wash toilet the with hobbes? biggrin.gif tongue.gif
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM)
Wait for 2012, i will answer that  biggrin.gif
Morning, tomato
Let's wait and see, i hope my wife can work by that time....

The acceptable income for a household for me, is about RM 6000 to RM 7000 a month
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hahaha XD let's see then~ wink.gif

QUOTE(KVReninem @ Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM)
nod.gif  we dont want a unproductive counterparts.
ya; one breed winner is harder than 2 bread winner.
wub.gif cos i like tongue.gif

look anyone can hav degree in anything this day; but of one got degree with no exprience-its like a toilet paper IMHO.

talking about love; if you love someone for who she is; you also should encourage her to do something for herself then sitting down doing nothing n get fat right dear?

work can work' small stuff like work part time; do some the stuff she capable of.. well run small business with frens etc..there is many things to do then sitting at home be on lyn or sitting on sofa tune to lcd/ plasma n be fat n complain like the american. icon_rolleyes.gif
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encourage her to do something that she wants, not forcing her to DO something~

okie for example, i like to stay at home and read books, do sewing job, drawing and piano playing during holiday~ so how? you think that i've doing things and get fat? XD


Added on February 20, 2009, 11:07 am
QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Feb 20 2009, 11:06 AM)
u know
usually mean with inflated ego thinks that doing house chore = lame
little did they know that house chore is akin to a manager managing a business
and has to be profitable 100% without fail

sadly most of our msian men have this inflated ego
cuz i lub to eat tomato can?
acceptable?
yesh i sound like ghey?
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nod* @_@

i should change the poll... XD

This post has been edited by PIOPIO: Feb 20 2009, 11:07 AM
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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Feb 20 2009, 11:06 AM)
u know
usually mean with inflated ego thinks that doing house chore = lame
little did they know that house chore is akin to a manager managing a business
and has to be profitable 100% without fail

sadly most of our msian men have this inflated ego
cuz i lub to eat tomato can?
acceptable?
yesh i sound like ghey?
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housewives are underpaid

go bite sumwhere else shocking.gif
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QUOTE(Kenvess @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
hello
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hello~




hi to RUBY~
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
I wouldn't say so, being a housewife isn't easy, and having a mother to take care of the children full time is a good thing. I know people want gender equality nowadays, but that doesn't mean both parents have to work. I like the idea of having a wife at home to take care of the kids.
We had a similar childhood! ohmy.gif
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KAMPUNG go and work as daycare~ and you will understand how tough a housewife could be...


take care of baby and have to feed the baby when he/she cries during midnight~ what do you think?



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QUOTE(peinsama @ Feb 20 2009, 10:45 AM)
It is unexpected and unthinkable....but it does happen in the society especially when conservative culture is still playing a role. Sometimes, people just want to get a degree just because its a DEGREE. A piece of paper to signify your status. I've seen such women especially the one that married a good husband. But at least, it does encourages women to participate in the workforce after graduating which i think we're moving one step closer gender equality in the career field. It's their choice anyway.

But if you would ask my opinion, i don't mind whether my wife is working or not. Its her decision. All i want her to know, is that i love her as always, regardless but hopefully she don't be too lovey dovey to me while im making calls to my clients or boss laugh.gif
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Same,it's her decision.If she thinks that she wants to take care of the children,i dont mind.

Just that i need to work harder.Must be a Charted engineer.

QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Feb 20 2009, 10:47 AM)
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Awww,dont cry.

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 10:50 AM)
this one i've to agree with pain~

kampung, lets say...
your wife~ could be someone quite thinkable BEFORE marriage~

but after decades, there are a lot of unexpected things happen~ so SHE could be unthinkable too~

vise versa~
you see the point? people DO change~


Added on February 20, 2009, 10:51 am
robot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  laugh.gif
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Pew Pew. tongue.gif

What you mean by thinkable?

QUOTE(Fatimus @ Feb 20 2009, 10:52 AM)
SC2 top priority first, they go all slowpoke on D3.

Anyway yay new sig, I wish I can make bigger if the forum allowed
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Haha yeah.Cant wait for SC2.

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 10:54 AM)
hi KV... what's with that red emoticon... ><'''
did you see my another reply there?
the one i quoted pein's reply..
yea, you don't want her to waste her degree~ just a PIECE of PAPER~
if you love her of who she is, you probably wouldn't really care whether she works or not~
perhaps you haven't met such girl yet~ wink.gif
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Not even Jam for him. unsure.gif

QUOTE(dazzywazzy @ Feb 20 2009, 10:55 AM)
cheese
oi fati.. wat the heck is that on ur sig
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Bullfrog.
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QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 12:06 PM)
hahaha XD let's see then~ wink.gif
encourage her to do something that she wants, not forcing her to DO something~

okie for example, i like to stay at home and read books, do sewing job, drawing and piano playing during holiday~ so how? you think that i've doing things and get fat? XD


Added on February 20, 2009, 11:07 am
nod* @_@

i should change the poll... XD
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ya..encourage icon_rolleyes.gif i did send right msg right? tongue.gif i didnt say Force! sweat.gif

piano wub.gif wub.gif atleast did something; maybe can get xiao mei mei or didi n teach them brows.gif
sewing..my little cussie need someone to sew her cloths..can u? wub.gif
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QUOTE(RubyF @ Feb 20 2009, 11:07 AM)
housewives are underpaid

go bite sumwhere else shocking.gif
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underpaid, overworked, unappreciated and oftenly looked down by men with inflated egos
and alot of ppl esp msian men are denying women the credit they suppose to have
the age old saying
mother knows best wink.gif

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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Feb 20 2009, 11:06 AM)
u know
usually mean with inflated ego thinks that doing house chore = lame
little did they know that house chore is akin to a manager managing a business
and has to be profitable 100% without fail

sadly most of our msian men have this inflated ego

yealor, they should try taking care of the house with a kid for a while and see how difficult it can be laugh.gif

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 11:06 AM)
okie for example, i like to stay at home and read books, do sewing job, drawing and piano playing during holiday~
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wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
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post Feb 20 2009, 11:12 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
We had a similar childhood! ohmy.gif
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I knew it! You are the one that stole my green ranger in the nursery!

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 11:01 AM)
i'm glad that you are who you are now, but the thing is~

not all the kids are like you ... some of them just think it differently...

for example

in a bad circumstance, we get to learn and overcome with it, the lucky one will become the stronger one, the unlucky one might be led to the wrong path~ you see the point?
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Im glad for who i am but the thing is, you cannot widen your thoughts by asking yourself how many children would feel about it or how many are the lucky ones and unlucky ones because you wouldn't get a definite or certain answer to your question. Its not easy. Might as well, hear some testimonials from children like us and listen to us without being judgmental. To the unlucky ones, well too bad because they miss their chances to exploit opportunities to turn into a better person. It might be harsh to some people when i said such thing like that, but you gotta look at the bright side, everybody is living their life at their very best. How best is it, only the person knows. Its not easy to care for too many kids, my friend.

QUOTE(Fatimus @ Feb 20 2009, 11:02 AM)
standardised sig FTL.

anyway this is my new fav site

http://www.fmylife.com/
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I lol at that side last night. It's so funny!!!

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QUOTE(RubyF @ Feb 20 2009, 11:06 AM)
morning kampong!
morning pein

wash toilet the with hobbes? biggrin.gif tongue.gif
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Morning, had breakfast?

QUOTE(PIOPIO @ Feb 20 2009, 11:09 AM)
hello~

hi to RUBY~
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KAMPUNG go and work as daycare~ and you will understand how tough a housewife could be...
take care of baby and have to feed the baby when he/she cries during midnight~ what do you think?
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Erm, i will wait and see, another option is to get GF and marry much later....
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Feb 20 2009, 11:10 AM)
Same,it's her decision.If she thinks that she wants to take care of the children,i dont mind.

Just that i need to work harder.Must be a Charted engineer.
Awww,dont cry.
Pew Pew. tongue.gif

What you mean by thinkable?
Haha yeah.Cant wait for SC2.
Not even Jam for him. unsure.gif
Bullfrog.
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robot~~~~~~~~~~~~~ laugh.gif

like... thinkable like... err~ how to explain a~ ? XD

okie, think a lot? XD

QUOTE(KVReninem @ Feb 20 2009, 11:10 AM)
ya..encourage icon_rolleyes.gif  i did send right msg right? tongue.gif i didnt say Force! sweat.gif

piano wub.gif  wub.gif atleast did something; maybe can get xiao mei mei or didi n teach them  brows.gif
sewing..my little cussie need someone to sew her cloths..can u? wub.gif
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ya~ you didn't say force~ but just wanna know about whether if you really wish that she works?


=_=
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 20 2009, 11:11 AM)
yealor, they should try taking care of the house with a kid for a while and see how difficult it can be laugh.gif
wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
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If got money, should try to "outsource"
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u all today no need work/study ah?

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