well I don't expect him to pay when I go shopping because its my stuff.

But if we go to dinner and all that I do expect him to pay.Because then it's weird that I pay unless I know he's in a rough time. It's just certain things that I've expected from my bf.

On a rough time, we do things that no or little money consume. I think I am being considerate enough.

Sometimes, we takes turn on splurging. If he paid for dinner, then I treat him the next time.Like a free Starbucks or something like that

That's fair right ?