1k? I would say, yes, even more, there r guys who r able 2 offer more out there, even a platinum card for their gfs. But there goes da saying, there is no free lunch in da world. If he is paying for 1k everytime he goes out with u, wat is he expecting in return? Just love or a hug or a goodbye kiss? Hell yea, I would say he expects much more like sex or more. At dat point, in my opinion, he is treating u like a high class hooker or worse.

I once had a gal, yea, she was nice n all, but whenever we go out, she neva pays for anything practically, be it when i was pocketfull or not. Sometimes I told her dat on dat day, I didn't have much cash, all she said was oh, we go have something cheaper instead of ds expensive ones la. Neva once dat she pays for our expenses. I dun expect everytime dat she pays, but at least when times r bad for me ( Yea, I was still a Uni student back den), at least help out a bit, gal. In da end, it neva worked out n so? Yea, she is a nice gal, but still, shes gotta go. = )

We boys actually dun mind paying for da usual expenses but sometimes once in a while, help out when we r tight or so? I'm sure by doing dat once in a while impresses guys alot especially when its an unexpected move.

HEY it happened to ME what the heck LOL.. dun blame the girls la, i have guys friends who tink its the RIGHT thing for guys to pay... swt...

me n my gf take turns
maybe we both old enough to think being 2gether wasnt 1 man show but takes two to clap a hand

yes my gf too sometimes she will spent me but i pai seh lor cause need her spend me. but she so cute she only spend me below rm50.00. haha.

spend little if u r on tight budget...and spend wisely...
better still half half la...
since u and him also need to pay, so both of u oso wont simply buy things and spending $

lol...cannot blame the girl or the guy...must blame the tv...and the world...lol

for the guys i dun believe in spending so much on the girl or anyone else...bcos wen u spend that much on normal occasions...what would she expect on special occasions den...

what kinda quarrel?
he pays 3 times liao, then you pay once.
or he pays for movies, then you pay for popcorn

but calculative guys are jerks

both take turn la...
but dont be calculative and say things like the dinner i bought you was rm50 and now you only buy me rm25 dinner...
but some guys expect girls to pay...hard to find true gentlemen these days

For me, if you expect the guy to pay for everything because it's a guy's responsibility or the gentleman excuse, then a guy CAN also expect you to be a gentlewoman; must be gentle, not shout, speak politely, do the housework laundry etc, not complain and submissive. If you expect people to do something , they also can expect you to do the same as well.

This post has been edited by Drian: Dec 16 2008, 03:29 PM

that is MCP not normal expectation
both guy and girl gotta be fair and sincere
dont take advantage of either party

Well, sometime i pay sometime my bf pay. So is fair for both of us

I dun mind spending on him and so did he, hehe. Give & Take ~

u r so understanding ur bf must love you heaps

so .. during the period where u pay everytime u goes out, does she pays u back at night or not ?
if didnt tapau, u rugi lah

Of course tapau her nicely la, eat n drink till so song huh, like everythings free like dat.
But later on also feel bad la, treat her like hooker like dat, nt good lo. After all i still got some parts dat lover her 1 ma.
Dats y i advise gals dun take things for granted dat it is a must for guys 2 spend every penny on u. U neva noe wat they want in return.
Yes, there r some which wants love in return, but there are also which wants something else.

babytensai, i feel you.

In the equality that most feminist spoke, but when it comes to money the equation is simply what yours is mine, and what mine is still mine.

Funny eh. But some girls are like that. Enjoy the ride while you can la, what else one can do. Literally!

Yea, izzit a norm for guys 2 spend on gals anyway???
I dun think so man. We dun print money u noe, how hard for us 2 earn dat lump sum i am sure most of da gals understand dat. Seriously if now i get a gf who needs me 2 ditch out every penny i've got, i would just say, go n fly kite k, irregardless how perfec she is.
With da thinking dat guys should spend on guys, sometimes its hard 2 blame guys who have da thinking dat, since i've spend so much on u, now its time 2 return da favour at nite. when dat happens, instead of being a gf, u r being hooker.
Agree ???

i think tat if the guy still dun have economic ability(eg:student), then girl should pay for some times~Coz this world is fair and dint say who owe who~So should not let our bf pay every expenses~But if the guy have economic ability,then most of the time can let guy pay but i feel not all the time lak~~Coz money is not easy to earn~~Some more love is a 2 ways interaction and not 1 person giving out only~

share share pay lo.. sometimes i pay sometimes my bf pay.. give and takes.. yaya.. should be..

even go travel, i also share share pay.. hehe kinda poor if he pay all..

for me, i spend for everything.
if no money better dun have a relationship.
concentrade on study or work 1st.
.... just my opinion.

for gal, sometime need contribute some also...
if not some guy will think you are selfish.

but not everytime, coz he will used to it and thought you are responsible for entertainment expenses as well.

then next time everything also need AA liao...

hm...
i think spend for my girl is being nice to her la..
i dun really mind too...
thts y i always pokai when tackling girl...
pity..

but it's kinda sweet if a girl knows that we dun print money and actually helps out sometimes...