guy need what ??
-fap
-sex

TS,

He doesn't care about you..
better move on..

He forget call u, u mar also forget to call him lo... sooner or later if he realise then things should get better i suppose. if not then change bf lor...

she proly did, her last reply was about 3 weeks ago......

According to best seller Man are from mars, Women are from venus

Man need to pull away to love more, when a woman questions and punish him due to this habit, man react to it defensively and hurt their partner even more. Men like a rubber band, when it stretch to its limit, than he will be back with a strong love and caring. But if a woman disturbs this process, a stretching process could snapped and won't come back at all.

So better leave him alone for a while. When he start to talk to you then react calmly and loving. Do not question his habit before or it could end as a fight. When he lot more loving then it is right time to talk about this. But sure don't make him feel blamed.

The break should not be long enough for a woman to feel his fading out from her life. It's not too long or too short. If too long then he could has someone else. Be careful.

If woman except this kind of pattern, then a man will become far more loving and caring, and pulling away period will be reduced from time to time. The key is just be an understanding partner. But don't suppress yourself in relationship.

Go find the book, it may make you understand a women and man behavior and key to successful relationship .

This post has been edited by Getz: Oct 29 2008, 04:56 PM

better find out what exactly is happening before breaking up. who knows he has his reasons for not calling. talk to him.

Guys thinking very straight forward only and have only 1 aim that is to mate/sex. Not as complicated as girl's thinking. Cutting off all the long winded part, still same sex first and regret later. If dio lottery then marry lor.

I feel like ur talking about me
My gf always ask me to text miscal call back but i normally(almost always 80%) will forget...
Just about an hour ago at 10pm today she ask me to text her when i got back cause i look like blur blur sotong, reach home straight online go lowyatt.com check some stuff. Saw ur thread remindedme to text her bak.

than again I have been with my gf for 6 years.

She broke up with me 5 times, I broke up with her abt 3 times but in the end still together.
I realize that i dissapoint her alot, made he cry, make blank promises, make her worry especially no callin bak, and most of the time deep in thinkin, also donno thik what. if u see me like blur blur sotong.

We can go a week w/o callin each other or months without seein each other.

Argument between us is very rare, the most recent one was me tellin her not to be so picky with her job got abit heated... than we hugged laughed and i said up to her.

My guess is ur relationship is still very young, u may have insecurities, emotionally and there is a need for attention at times. This will all pass when u get to know each other better and ur r/ship matures.

Its not space that the men wants i guess, its that he feels that its not necessary as "he always thinks" that u will "Know" that his safe and u love him like crazy. i.e. Understoodla no need call text here call and text text text etc... I am safe, and thinks that it is less important to text or call the gf back.

So there u have it whats goin on in a guys ahead.

yup.............
i got talk to him abt this problem...........
but he jz say bz, tired n forget.............
actually appear new problem.........

I dun knw how to say...........
if he can meet a better gal..........
i will let him go.............
coz if his heart not at my sides..........
no use u keep the person............
if me meet a better bf..........
i oso will go............

In this world sacrified is nothing.........
Love will change to relationship.........
Relationship change to need..........
Need change to used to it.........
End up is nothing.........

All i want is a dip in a warm apple pie.

Sometimes my mom ask me to buy a bread I also forgot... but doesn't mean I don't care.. simply because I'm absent minded.

tis same thing happen on me oso...
n finally after few weeks, i ask him out.
n he say wan break up...

so, u got d signs n symptoms of breakin up d.

We rather not bother the ones we care for with most of our worries because we tend to believe that we as men would be able to handle them. Sometimes we forget that no man is an island and that we do need emotional support, but it's difficult to ask for it without sounding like a *****.
So when we're seriously overwhelmed with problems, we tend to withdraw inwards rather than reach outwards like what a woman does. I guess it takes time for a girl to realize when to spot the signs that we need reaching out to before we hit the breaking point. Don't just think about yourself, your guy may be handling a severe crisis but doesn't want you to worry. How then is he supposed to shower you with love and attention if other matters are causing him duress?

maybe your bf feel tired~~need some space~
Is that his working time quite long? Sometime work is important for a guy~
maybe you can play game with him if he likes, for example:PS3..~So both of you canenjoy together~
if you are worry him,just put in your heart, afraid he will feel you want to tie him~

bingo! dont force him to tell you if he doesnt want to.. if you can sense sth wrong just be there for him and try to make his life easier for a bit. its definitely not what you would do for a gal fren but guys are just like that.. accept it.. if you are able to accomplish that, maybe someday the guy will be comfortable enough to confide in you (maybe only)

ya.. mayb he need some space...
so giv him...
but at the same time, dun giv urself too much hope.

Most guys only want 2 things:

Tits and ass.

I've been waiting hours for you..feeling all alone
I don't know what to do..I don't know what to say
I want to join the party..but I watch the others play

so baby, come and get me now..take me to your bed
fill my glass up with champagne..that goes straight to my head
light the candles, dim the lights..play music soft and low
lay you gently on your pink sheets..and touch you nice and slow
You need my fingers and my lips..upon your naked skin

can you feel me burning..as your love slips within?
so baby, come and get me..and do that thing you do
You want to hear my gentle voice..baby, I want you
unfortunately I said.. All I want is..
A dip A Warm Sweetsoaking Apple Pie

Exactly. It's nice to know someone who understands this viewpoint. I'm sure your bf is a very lucky guy. =)

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