According to best seller Man are from mars, Women are from venus

Man need to pull away to love more, when a woman questions and punish him due to this habit, man react to it defensively and hurt their partner even more. Men like a rubber band, when it stretch to its limit, than he will be back with a strong love and caring. But if a woman disturbs this process, a stretching process could snapped and won't come back at all.

So better leave him alone for a while. When he start to talk to you then react calmly and loving. Do not question his habit before or it could end as a fight. When he lot more loving then it is right time to talk about this. But sure don't make him feel blamed.

The break should not be long enough for a woman to feel his fading out from her life. It's not too long or too short. If too long then he could has someone else. Be careful.

If woman except this kind of pattern, then a man will become far more loving and caring, and pulling away period will be reduced from time to time. The key is just be an understanding partner. But don't suppress yourself in relationship.

Go find the book, it may make you understand a women and man behavior and key to successful relationship .

This post has been edited by Getz: Oct 29 2008, 04:56 PM