QUOTE(jojo~t @ Oct 8 2008, 02:00 PM)
how can regret leh..dat guy is like mm teh mm *** wor..tarik harga-ing ar..waste da girl geh ching choon ony...find a bttr 1 la..dis world not ony him arnd ma..
lmao.... spoken like a true playaGuys' thinking, wat a guy wan???????
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Oct 8 2008, 02:02 PM
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Oct 8 2008, 02:21 PM
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Oct 8 2008, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel Chersss @ Oct 7 2008, 10:52 PM) What a guy needed the most? Honestly, I think your current boyfriend need sex.Space o care? Sometimes i felt that my bf forget me easily....... everytime i ask him to call me back after finish work, sure he will forget jor and make me wait wait wait the whole nite........ even the next day he oso cant remember... Sometimes i jz wonder that its is he really care abt me? and i really dissapointed abt that! so wat should i do? and he always ask me give him a break......but i dint disturb him everyday... mayb i should......but for me when i really wan give a guy long break...... its game over..... Give him some sex, and he will remember you. Or maybe he's bored of you. |
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Oct 8 2008, 02:37 PM
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you guys... you think every guy out there wants sex sex sex all the time meh?? there are guys i know who puts in a lot of effort on their career... you wouldn't be able to understand unless you're in the same shoes. imagine, you've been in the office from morning till night, the only thing you'll want to do is have a good shower and go to bed.
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Oct 8 2008, 02:39 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel Chersss @ Oct 7 2008, 10:52 PM) What a guy needed the most? Space o care? Sometimes i felt that my bf forget me easily....... everytime i ask him to call me back after finish work, sure he will forget jor and make me wait wait wait the whole nite........ Assumption: He may be tired after work Observation: It is a trivial matter to pick up the phone and send you a message or give you a call. His refusal to do so points to the high possiblity that it is inconvenient for him to do so. Either: He does not want someone in the vicinity to know he is calling a girl. even the next day he oso cant remember... Sometimes i jz wonder that its is he really care abt me? In the general case, a girlfriend would be close to a guy's heart, and more often than not, close than family. His "forgetfulness" may really be avoidance in order not to raise questions about where he was last night, or what he was doing. and i really dissapointed abt that! so wat should i do? and he always ask me give him a break......but i dint disturb him everyday... This is an indication of a loss of interest, bordering on Annoyance. He would rather focus his efforts on strengthening his ties with the Other Party. mayb i should......but for me when i really wan give a guy long break...... its game over..... |
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Oct 8 2008, 03:02 PM
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QUOTE(rourou @ Oct 8 2008, 02:37 PM) you guys... you think every guy out there wants sex sex sex all the time meh?? there are guys i know who puts in a lot of effort on their career... you wouldn't be able to understand unless you're in the same shoes. imagine, you've been in the office from morning till night, the only thing you'll want to do is have a good shower and go to bed. I'm sure that he masterbate at night when he bath.Or else, I'll chop of my d***. And of course, his d*** as well. It's useless for him. No point keeping it. |
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Oct 8 2008, 03:39 PM
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QUOTE(rourou @ Oct 8 2008, 02:37 PM) you guys... you think every guy out there wants sex sex sex all the time meh?? there are guys i know who puts in a lot of effort on their career... you wouldn't be able to understand unless you're in the same shoes. imagine, you've been in the office from morning till night, the only thing you'll want to do is have a good shower and go to bed. Awww ... What a pity |
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Oct 8 2008, 03:55 PM
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QUOTE(rourou @ Oct 8 2008, 02:37 PM) you guys... you think every guy out there wants sex sex sex all the time meh?? there are guys i know who puts in a lot of effort on their career... you wouldn't be able to understand unless you're in the same shoes. imagine, you've been in the office from morning till night, the only thing you'll want to do is have a good shower and go to bed. yes agree. |
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Oct 8 2008, 04:04 PM
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haiz.. sometimes, is not our fault.. its the pressure from work!!
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Oct 8 2008, 04:25 PM
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Until we hear the word come out from the guy about his intentions,
You guys here speaks zero..... |
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Oct 8 2008, 04:27 PM
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Yeap, we cannot speak for another man.
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Oct 8 2008, 05:01 PM
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I wonder how happy would gals be if they had a bf that would frequently call or sms with intentions on understanding their gf and the day their gf is going through. Spend some time to chat a bit even though busy. I hope this type of guy ain't categorised as a clingy person! LOL |
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Oct 8 2008, 05:11 PM
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QUOTE(alabais @ Oct 8 2008, 05:01 PM) I wonder how happy would gals be if they had a bf that would frequently call or sms with intentions on understanding their gf and the day their gf is going through. Spend some time to chat a bit even though busy. I hope this type of guy ain't categorised as a clingy person! LOL i will definitely stay FAR FAR away from that guy...Seriously!! If he is my bf, we definitely will not for long. i need FREEDOM!! kena before liao... very scary!!!! >_< |
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Oct 8 2008, 05:18 PM
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maybe u both need to step back... give a pause and think what u both actually wants...
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Oct 8 2008, 05:46 PM
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It really depends on the characteristic of your bf. Today, times are not easy for the young working adults. Competition, high prices etc...Especially for a man who has a role as a breadwinner. If he doesnt concentrate and focus on the career, do you think the lady will still stay by his side and have kids to add to the burden? I find that men nowadays are getting practical. Work is definitely more important than the lady. No income=No love. Like the Chinese saying goes:"Love cannot survive on only water". To have a stable and comfy relationship, the man has to prioritize work in order to provide for his lady.
It's hard to tabulate the pressure he's facing in work. It's best to support him and let him focus. If u suspect that he's not interested, best way is get a date on the weekends, somewhere private and make sure he eats so he can think wisely. Do not be defensive or whiny because busy men hate whiny girls and they dont need it. Simply ask, "Do you see any future in our relationship?" perhaps he'll let u on his plans and then u'll have a clearer idea what this man wants in life. |
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Oct 8 2008, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel Chersss @ Oct 7 2008, 10:52 PM) What a guy needed the most? Different guy Different attitube Space o care? Sometimes i felt that my bf forget me easily....... everytime i ask him to call me back after finish work, sure he will forget jor and make me wait wait wait the whole nite........ even the next day he oso cant remember... Sometimes i jz wonder that its is he really care abt me? and i really dissapointed abt that! so wat should i do? and he always ask me give him a break......but i dint disturb him everyday... mayb i should......but for me when i really wan give a guy long break...... its game over..... |
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Oct 8 2008, 06:59 PM
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its not on the worst shape
try to consult ur bf every now n then to ensure everything is smooth well i wouldnt say guys doesnt want sex but by saying giving a sex will make a guy rmb u? wat kinda stupid remarks is this? |
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Oct 8 2008, 08:19 PM
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wait, it depends one ma. has he always been like this?
there can be a few reasons why he's contacting you less : a) you just started dating, and now that he's gotten you as his gf, he's gone back to his usual routine (work work) b) something big happened at work e.g. promotion/project SOS c) you did something to upset him lately ah? if beforehand he's always been caring, always contacting u on time, then only can analyze further. otherwise, if it's any of the above 3, what to do, i guess you have to be an Understanding GF. 2 things u need to do now : 1. try to reach a compromise with him. 2. no matter what the case, no hot girl should ever spend her precious time waiting for her man to call |
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Oct 8 2008, 08:28 PM
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Oct 8 2008, 08:39 PM
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Why guys so cheap 1? Call call call, waste time only.
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