Oct 10 2008, 09:26 PM
QUOTE(IqEqSeeker @ Sep 19 2008, 05:51 PM)
is okay, i understand. the guy is 30, and the girl is 20. how do you think ?
Added on September 19, 2008, 5:53 pm
i am really agree with wat you said. I am together with a guy who is 34 year-old and i'm only 20. the age-gap is similar with you, but i really love and happy to be with him even people will say there is age gap. But as long as we can communicate well, doesn't have any problem right.
should b ok kua... my friends parents gaep are 13 years if i don rmber wrong. either 13 or 11. Added on September 19, 2008, 5:53 pm
i am really agree with wat you said. I am together with a guy who is 34 year-old and i'm only 20. the age-gap is similar with you, but i really love and happy to be with him even people will say there is age gap. But as long as we can communicate well, doesn't have any problem right.
QUOTE(vnishimura @ Sep 21 2008, 06:12 PM)
Hi , I would agree with anyone who is love with someone much older.
Me myself i first started loving my husband when i was 16yrs and he was 36. We have a 20 yrs gap. And everything was beautiful. I was married to him and had 2 beautiful sons. Then after 10 years into marriage..the age really became a big problem. When i was younger everyone told me i will have a problem,. I defy everyone and went one because love was blind. Now i regretted so much because i am still so young and my husband is much older. We dont share the same interest no more and because i still look very good, i have men going after me and i feel my marriage is rocky.
those men going after u know u married ady?? so how are u and ur hubby now??Me myself i first started loving my husband when i was 16yrs and he was 36. We have a 20 yrs gap. And everything was beautiful. I was married to him and had 2 beautiful sons. Then after 10 years into marriage..the age really became a big problem. When i was younger everyone told me i will have a problem,. I defy everyone and went one because love was blind. Now i regretted so much because i am still so young and my husband is much older. We dont share the same interest no more and because i still look very good, i have men going after me and i feel my marriage is rocky.
QUOTE(IqEqSeeker @ Sep 22 2008, 04:11 PM)
hey girls...
i'm 20 year-old. My bf is now 34 year-old. We love each other, and i feel very comfort when together with him. When i was talking with other guys that are similar age with me, i find that i can't communicate with them, they are rather childish or like to show off. The feeling so annoying. When i with my bf, i feel really being protected by him. I have to be more matured than the girl same age with me but i willing to change. Because i feel its worth. Pls share with me your opinion too.
CHeerss..
guy tend to grow matured later than gurl. but it doesnt mean they wont be matured. and kinda depending on each individual. i'm 20 year-old. My bf is now 34 year-old. We love each other, and i feel very comfort when together with him. When i was talking with other guys that are similar age with me, i find that i can't communicate with them, they are rather childish or like to show off. The feeling so annoying. When i with my bf, i feel really being protected by him. I have to be more matured than the girl same age with me but i willing to change. Because i feel its worth. Pls share with me your opinion too.
CHeerss..
if u really in love with this guy. maybe u should consider discuss more with ur bf about u 2 future. when u 2 gonna marry? giv birth? u wont wanna see ur husband age 60+ still got to pok meng for ur child education payment right? kid enter college at age 18-22/24 like that. example after 2 years u 2 married. u age 22, he age 36. after 1 year giv birth and at ur kid age 18. means u are 41 and ur husband 55... 55 still got to pok meng for kid education fee. and only 1 kid u hav? oversea study? is u 2 financial stable? etc etc issue u got to consider about it. like what vnishimura said, she has a point. she experience thru it. it might be good option for u to consult her... i might be wrong for what ur current situation is as i post my opinion base on what u said. but i hope it helps u to think deeper. personally i wont say age gaep 14 years got problem or no problem. is all about how u plan for ur future. feel free ask me more if u hav any doubt.
QUOTE(aliciaw @ Oct 4 2008, 10:37 PM)
hmm.. from last time till now, i feel that i can't date younger guys.. cuz they also do tend to be childish 
.. i'm the kinda girl like to think and talk deep deep stuff so, those kinda guys are not my type.
last time, i dated this guy only 5 days younger than me.. but he's super childish.. from then on, i didnt date younger guys already.
hmm, now i actually want an older guy... i'm not even 18 yet.. but i think i dont wanna date a 20 year old or anything.. someone older? haha, like 23 or 25.
i like matured guys! his viewpoints and thinking is different compared to all the other guys i know... plus, all the married people i know say that the older the guy, the more he will sayang you! ;D
older people are also financially stable, no need to depend on their parents for allowance already. i'm also the same state - work part time so dont ask my parents for money.
i think as long as you comfortable with the age gap can ady lor.. must remember if he will mati first anot, though.. think ahead..
as for me, i will just date only older stable guys =P. or see la, if can find someone like that who's not that old =P. highly doubt so lor.
as known by all, guy tend to grow mature later than gurl. but it really depends on each individual. not all guy grow matured later than gurl. vice versa. some girl at 20+ still dam childish from what i seen. by right guy will be quite matured at around 20++. but i've seen guy at age 27 acting just like 12 years old kid. but some guy at age 15-16 their thinking can be quite matured. surprise me too. though at the moment... hmm... havnt meet any yet. LOL... i'm the kinda girl like to think and talk deep deep stuff so, those kinda guys are not my type. last time, i dated this guy only 5 days younger than me.. but he's super childish.. from then on, i didnt date younger guys already.
hmm, now i actually want an older guy... i'm not even 18 yet.. but i think i dont wanna date a 20 year old or anything.. someone older? haha, like 23 or 25.
i like matured guys! his viewpoints and thinking is different compared to all the other guys i know... plus, all the married people i know say that the older the guy, the more he will sayang you! ;D
older people are also financially stable, no need to depend on their parents for allowance already. i'm also the same state - work part time so dont ask my parents for money.
i think as long as you comfortable with the age gap can ady lor.. must remember if he will mati first anot, though.. think ahead..
as for me, i will just date only older stable guys =P. or see la, if can find someone like that who's not that old =P. highly doubt so lor.
5 days younger than u doesnt mean will be matured than u. each individual characteristic cant be judge 100% by age. u seem still pretty young. not even 18 yet. haha. im age 24.
suit u. wanna know each others? QUOTE(IqEqSeeker @ Oct 7 2008, 10:46 AM)
hi girl, will you feel sometime what you wanna do at your age, your bf will not follow and sometime not allow you to do so? example, you feel to go clubbing just like other girls do, but at ur bf age 30+, he already don't feel to get into those activity, will this case happen on you ?
my feeling is that, sometime i really hope he can go to ther place i wanna go...so on...no just follow his idea.
this is where good communication and tolerant between couples are needed.my feeling is that, sometime i really hope he can go to ther place i wanna go...so on...no just follow his idea.
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