well you can took part into some activity, maybe after you graduate from secondary school, you might know somebody from college, or your workplace.

Took part into some activity like join LYN gathering

or maybe simply go some social network website and have a look lo . . .

aleh..18 only ma..i also 18 baru get my first gf la..those ppl aobve r right. if u feel lonely..go find frens,join some clubs,feel up yr life with social activities la..if u c those couple lovely hugging each other,go back home,hug yr pillow and start to fantasize..

if u cant do all of above, just think..wats the cons of being in relationship..
u have a bf who love u,so wat? when he do sumthing behind yr back and u find out..it hurts dam much!
if he made u jealous..or unintentionally made u jealous,u're the one who's gonna hurt!
if he demand sex from u,and u gave bcoz u love him,who's gonna hurt more huh?

gals are always the side who is easier to get hurt in relationship ok! learn how to protect and prevent yourself from those dangers...

sad to hear that you have such story...but gals often dream for the "1st guy is the last guy i want", but how many guys will want like tat wo? for me...poor me rejected by so many gals before..now oledi have one very good and supportive gf..so appreciate much..hopefully thats it..dun wan tink other liao lo...

but gals..beware..you more rugi side if u din meet the proper person.

why dont you all come and console me? (instead of the 18 y/o ts.. 18!!! )

no offense..but your nickname so funny..

like a fuse kena sai...
or fuse ka na sai.. (hokkien)

Girl, you're just going through a small obstacle in life that's all. Like previous members said, pick a new activity that makes you happy and let yourself loose instead of hiding under the blankets. In no time, I'm sure you'll find the perfect guy XD.

One of my ex broke up with me after a 1 year relationship. The part that hurts the most is that we were quite lovey-dovey and then suddenly he comes telling me that all the time he though he loved me but actually he doesn't D: after 1 year =.=;; Hurts till now and it made me hate the male population for some time. Ah well, still hunting for decent men here XD;;

No offence taken.
It was intended to be a joke anyway and I guess this is a local joke.
I guess you cant really blame a guy for that for too much, both sexes also have that problem. Think of that if you are in his shoes if you got a bf and you think that you love him and he is the one for you and latter on you feel that you 2 are not compatible for each other, what will you do its not like he did not spend his effort on the relation ship or made use of you. If he did feel for you he should feel the guilt too so please do not be too harsh on him.

I hate love relation ship so much people always get hurt.     
So nice to be single.

single is nice...but isnt it selfish too?

love come in a package; you got worry; you got love, you got madness, you got hurt, you got scared; you got attention ..all it goes list on..

but at the end of the day; do you want to be alone forever? I Am Legend