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nizam276
post Aug 28 2008, 05:11 PM

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yala....one of my friend break up just after she give her virgin to a stupid guy...wahh really hate that guy coz treat my friend like that...
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post Aug 29 2008, 11:27 AM

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QUOTE(PinkyWhite @ Aug 27 2008, 03:03 PM)
u are still so young..no need to think tooo much about it..who cares if other ppl got bf already but u dont have... SO WHAT? Let it be nautral..don't have to run towards it... U can choose!

U can stay by urself! start pull urself together... Start stand on ur own feet ..don't always rely on friends or companian. I understand that u are lonely but life's like this.. get used to it..try to do other activities that is useful then u will meet more nice friends who are singles... and u got family girl!

Alone is not a bad thing. it helps u to learn and have time to think what u can do.. it will make u more mature.  But im sure u are not alone...
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:28 am
QUOTE(IcedNyior @ Aug 27 2008, 01:06 PM)
i mention a few time in other threads oredi.

Girls, you dont need a bf to feel complete. be happy with yourself, learn to love yourself first. because if you dont hv confidence in yourself, always put yourself down (kutuk urself) how can u expect someone else to love you?
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:28 am
QUOTE(map @ Aug 27 2008, 01:44 PM)
have ur girlfriends been ditching you for a long time?

if they just only got their bfs, it's understandable that their priorities are abit haywire

but if it's been many months since u last hung out, then those aren't your friends. get new ones.
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you really help me a lot..


Added on August 29, 2008, 11:29 am
QUOTE(CelciuzX @ Aug 27 2008, 02:21 PM)
Don't push your self. Let fate do it's job.

Try to find some activity to do la. . .

Online games? lol
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:29 am
QUOTE(sophisticatedren @ Aug 27 2008, 04:01 PM)
so young.. dun worry so much.,.. sometimes it might take sometime for fate to bring u ur destined one ler... just b ready for it k.. when it comes hold it tightly.. for now i think u better concentrate on ur studies first lor.. tat's ur main priority k. dun worry so much about future.. u still have a long way to go dun rush it.. all da best man
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you really help me a lot..


Added on August 29, 2008, 11:29 am
QUOTE(fashionista @ Aug 27 2008, 04:04 PM)
you are only 18..dont worry...you will find someone soon enough...when you start working you will meet even more ppl...
some of my friends are 27 and they ahev never dated...it didnt bother them
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:30 am
QUOTE(sophisticatedren @ Aug 27 2008, 04:04 PM)
about ur loneliness rite.. wat about taking up hobbies o joining some clubs o societies in ur college?? get to know more ppl and at the same time broaden ur circle of frens.. who noes lucky lucky u might find the right one for u.. *wink*
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:30 am
QUOTE(nanakopy87 @ Aug 27 2008, 05:30 PM)
y worry so much..i'm 21 n i'm single...yupp,at 1st u might find that urself is lonely,i am lonely too....but i take some classes n i dun feel lonely...in fact i can learn more things.u feel lonely coz ur mind is too free...go take some classes o join societies might help.dun worry too much.
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you really help me a lot..


Added on August 29, 2008, 11:31 am
QUOTE(BuBuCai @ Aug 27 2008, 05:39 PM)
haha TS i also same like u now......haizzz i juz break up 2 or 3 months back......but everything was fine now feel like lonely too......everytime go out jalan jalan see couple walk by feel like im useless......haizzzz...... cry.gif so wat we have to do is wait loh let faith do the job loh......
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:31 am
QUOTE(jam_lennon @ Aug 27 2008, 06:42 PM)
huh 18 only wor?
my gf 26 baru got pak toh...

dun rush urself, choose the best not the choose the only one
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you really help me a lot..


Added on August 29, 2008, 11:32 am
QUOTE(jianjie @ Aug 27 2008, 06:49 PM)
aleh..18 only ma..i also 18 baru get my first gf la..those ppl aobve r right. if u feel lonely..go find frens,join some clubs,feel up yr life with social activities la..if u c those couple lovely hugging each other,go back home,hug yr pillow and start to fantasize..

if u cant do all of above, just think..wats the cons of being in relationship..
u have a bf who love u,so wat? when he do sumthing behind yr back and u find out..it hurts dam much!
if he made u jealous..or unintentionally made u jealous,u're the one who's gonna hurt!
if he demand sex from u,and u gave bcoz u love him,who's gonna hurt more huh?

gals are always the side who is easier to get hurt in relationship ok! learn how to protect and prevent yourself from those dangers...
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thanks!!!
you really help me a lot..


Added on August 29, 2008, 11:32 am
QUOTE(JonSpark @ Aug 27 2008, 09:50 PM)
Im 18 and single. Believe it.

So what? its not the end of the day. Go mix with more people, expand your social circle. doh.gif

You dont need to get married to prove yourself worthy to society. laugh.gif
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:33 am
QUOTE(hong2401 @ Aug 27 2008, 11:28 PM)
not a problem rite?
so don worry about it..
juz let it come by itself...
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:34 am
QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Aug 28 2008, 09:32 AM)
Still young girl...
Still got plenty of time...
concentrate on studies 1st..
STUDIES always comes FIRST...
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Added on August 29, 2008, 11:34 am
QUOTE(yhtan @ Aug 28 2008, 04:24 PM)
u are still 18, not reaching 30 also
why bother about relationship? i know it will give u some sweet time, but do u know the suffer when your bf cheat against u?
don't rush, let it be
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you really help me a lot..

This post has been edited by love me or hate me: Aug 29 2008, 11:34 AM
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post Aug 29 2008, 01:52 PM

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QUOTE(love me or hate me @ Aug 26 2008, 04:55 PM)
hi,

girls..
thanks for reading this..
actually..i'm looking for someone who can solve my problem by giving their opinion..etc..
(but not setting me up on a date)..
ok...
i'm 18 years old..
and can you believe that i'm still single???
all of my friends are starting to have boyfriend but not me..
my bestfriends also lost contact with me already..
they all don't have time for me anymore...they're busying with their boy..
my besties who always there for me..are all gone..
i'm alone now...
with nobody..
i used to have boyfriend last time..(when i was 15..and it's over when i'm 16)
but not anymore..
you know...none of the guys take me seriously..
i mean my classmate(i'm a college student now) don't even show
that they have any feelings on me...
although i have a crush on one of them...
sometimes..when i watch movie..during the kiss scene..
i always wish that i was being kiss by someone who i love..
but nop..it does not happen..
i'm scared of having a boyfriend actually..i'm scared of breaking up
and hurt...
what should i do??? icon_question.gif
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what you shud you do? stop thinking relationship..simple, n focus on your studies n get to socialise more.
so wats the big fuss?

QUOTE(tomatotomatomy @ Aug 28 2008, 12:26 AM)
i'm 22 and single!  cry.gif  cry.gif
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so ? rolleyes.gif no big deal. there is ppl who is 40 still single. n ? wat do you want to say?
i enjoy being single; smth wrong? dun like might just get lost lor.there is so much things to do in this world than bs about not having bf.
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post Aug 29 2008, 02:08 PM

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don't worry...you're only 18. Its not end of the world yet. Its very normal for your girlfriends to focus on their boyfriends. I have lots of college friends disappearing the same way. Why bother about them? Go find more friends! Better ones!!
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post Aug 29 2008, 08:38 PM

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i see. i didnt know that it is such a torture not to have a bf at the age of 18. i m 24 single, never had a bf before.
i have more things to worried about in my life smile.gif
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post Aug 29 2008, 10:47 PM

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Is a sad thing when you had bf/gf .. you 'ill feel that FREEDOM is not same as before .. your mind will totally change trust me ..

I LOVE SINGLE wink.gif
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post Aug 29 2008, 11:22 PM

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we girls do not need a bf to continue our journey of life!
we depend on ourselves.
so it is ok to be single.
when your Mr. Right is there, he will be there for you, ALWAYS!

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post Aug 29 2008, 11:35 PM

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I will be ur friend.. laugh.gif
Trap ?? whistling.gif
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post Aug 30 2008, 01:28 AM

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to TS
enjoy your college life or current life, let the fate come, i'm sure Mr.Right will find u 1 day


Added on August 30, 2008, 1:28 amto TS
enjoy your college life or current life, let the fate come, i'm sure Mr.Right will find u 1 day

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post Aug 30 2008, 02:53 AM

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thanks!!!
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overwhelmed or just copy pasta? laugh.gif
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post Aug 30 2008, 05:47 AM

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I never had any relationship, but that doesn't mean it made me any lesser than other people, it is just a matter of choice and priority and personally, i choose to be single for now, from school and until now, in college
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post Aug 30 2008, 11:35 AM

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QUOTE(PinkyWhite @ Aug 28 2008, 08:53 AM)
when are u going to stop using my avatar? =.="""

anyway, im 22 and single and nvr have bf b4.. So What?
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lol alright alright....
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post Aug 31 2008, 12:09 PM

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haha..me too.. i'm 23 nw n still single.. although desperate to have 1 nw bt sumtimes things won happen as wat u wan.. jz fill urself v other activities..i'm sure u'l get ur mr.right wen d it is d rite time...
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post Aug 31 2008, 12:17 PM

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actually whats girl think about in their mind? age 15 already got bf? you better grow older to do so unless you're really mature enough to handle your relationship. Dont just give reasons that bf didnt take you serious. They did but you dun feel them. You know how much he misses you when you're not with him? he try to give u calls and sms to keep connecting with each other?

I think when you start working you will know my meaning.
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QUOTE(spagetti @ Aug 31 2008, 01:09 PM)
haha..me too.. i'm 23 nw n still single.. although desperate to have 1 nw bt sumtimes things won happen as wat u wan.. jz fill urself v other activities..i'm sure u'l get ur mr.right wen d it is d rite time...
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post Aug 31 2008, 12:19 PM

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when you are alone you will want bf... when you got bf already sometimes you wish you were alone again... lol
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post Aug 31 2008, 07:43 PM

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QUOTE(jianjie @ Aug 27 2008, 06:49 PM)
aleh..18 only ma..i also 18 baru get my first gf la..those ppl aobve r right. if u feel lonely..go find frens,join some clubs,feel up yr life with social activities la..

if u cant do all of above, just think..wats the cons of being in relationship..
u have a bf who love u,so wat? when he do sumthing behind yr back and u find out..it hurts dam much!
if he made u jealous..or unintentionally made u jealous,u're the one who's gonna hurt!
if he demand sex from u,and u gave bcoz u love him,who's gonna hurt more huh?

gals are always the side who is easier to get hurt in relationship ok! learn how to protect and prevent yourself from those dangers...
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OMG! So true! It seems like you understand girls psychology.
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post Aug 31 2008, 08:01 PM

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Dear TS, i felt the same like you before.

I used to stuck in a 5 years plus relationship since i am 16. If given a choice again, I wish to be single during those times. You can do alot things u know not just pattoh. Just get yourself out and enjoy. You are still young. Just remember you only young once. Enjoy! smile.gif

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QUOTE(saddient @ Aug 31 2008, 12:17 PM)
actually whats girl think about in their mind? age 15 already got bf? you better grow older to do so unless you're really mature enough to handle your relationship. Dont just give reasons that bf didnt take you serious. They did but you dun feel them. You know how much he misses you when you're not with him? he try to give u calls and sms to keep connecting with each other?

I think when you start working you will know my meaning.
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very agree wat u has spoken......some young gal age 17 below they wont noe wat we guys (those who working) mind thinking they dun even giv a damn on it......they wanna do wat they want oni dint think bout us(man/boy)....

QUOTE(jianjie @ Aug 27 2008, 06:49 PM)
aleh..18 only ma..i also 18 baru get my first gf la..those ppl aobve r right. if u feel lonely..go find frens,join some clubs,feel up yr life with social activities la..if u c those couple lovely hugging each other,go back home,hug yr pillow and start to fantasize..

if u cant do all of above, just think..wats the cons of being in relationship..
u have a bf who love u,so wat? when he do sumthing behind yr back and u find out..it hurts dam much!
if he made u jealous..or unintentionally made u jealous,u're the one who's gonna hurt!
if he demand sex from u,and u gave bcoz u love him,who's gonna hurt more huh?

gals are always the side who is easier to get hurt in relationship ok! learn how to protect and prevent yourself from those dangers...
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i dun think so....not oni guys,gurls also would be the same too.......

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Sep 1 2008, 02:54 AM
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post Sep 1 2008, 11:03 AM

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being single is good coz u can go out with different guys anytime without being control and you got more choice and made yourself available for guys to chase you.

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