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KVReninem
post Aug 29 2008, 01:52 PM

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QUOTE(love me or hate me @ Aug 26 2008, 04:55 PM)
hi,

girls..
thanks for reading this..
actually..i'm looking for someone who can solve my problem by giving their opinion..etc..
(but not setting me up on a date)..
ok...
i'm 18 years old..
and can you believe that i'm still single???
all of my friends are starting to have boyfriend but not me..
my bestfriends also lost contact with me already..
they all don't have time for me anymore...they're busying with their boy..
my besties who always there for me..are all gone..
i'm alone now...
with nobody..
i used to have boyfriend last time..(when i was 15..and it's over when i'm 16)
but not anymore..
you know...none of the guys take me seriously..
i mean my classmate(i'm a college student now) don't even show
that they have any feelings on me...
although i have a crush on one of them...
sometimes..when i watch movie..during the kiss scene..
i always wish that i was being kiss by someone who i love..
but nop..it does not happen..
i'm scared of having a boyfriend actually..i'm scared of breaking up
and hurt...
what should i do??? icon_question.gif
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what you shud you do? stop thinking relationship..simple, n focus on your studies n get to socialise more.
so wats the big fuss?

QUOTE(tomatotomatomy @ Aug 28 2008, 12:26 AM)
i'm 22 and single!  cry.gif  cry.gif
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so ? rolleyes.gif no big deal. there is ppl who is 40 still single. n ? wat do you want to say?
i enjoy being single; smth wrong? dun like might just get lost lor.there is so much things to do in this world than bs about not having bf.
KVReninem
post Aug 31 2008, 12:17 PM

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QUOTE(spagetti @ Aug 31 2008, 01:09 PM)
haha..me too.. i'm 23 nw n still single.. although desperate to have 1 nw bt sumtimes things won happen as wat u wan.. jz fill urself v other activities..i'm sure u'l get ur mr.right wen d it is d rite time...
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good move icon_rolleyes.gif
KVReninem
post Sep 3 2008, 08:40 AM

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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Sep 3 2008, 01:37 AM)
No offence taken.
It was intended to be a joke anyway and I guess this is a local joke.
I guess you cant really blame a guy for that for too much, both sexes also have that problem. Think of that if you are in his shoes if you got a bf and you think that you love him and he is the one for you and latter on you feel that you 2 are not compatible for each other, what will you do its not like he did not spend his effort on the relation ship or made use of you. If he did feel for you he should feel the guilt too so please do not be too harsh on him.

I hate love relation ship so much people always get hurt.  cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif
So nice to be single.
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single is nice...but isnt it selfish too? hmm.gif

love come in a package; you got worry; you got love, you got madness, you got hurt, you got scared; you got attention ..all it goes list on..

but at the end of the day; do you want to be alone forever? I Am Legend whistling.gif

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post Sep 3 2008, 12:00 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 09:45 AM)
Alone nice ma..
Single ROCKS!!!
but sometimes u will get jealous when ppl at the mall all couple holding hands...
i am jealous rite now!!!!
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if i go shopping with you i hold your hand ok? but we are not in relationship..
friends cannot hold hand? hmm.gif

QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Sep 3 2008, 10:24 AM)
There are still something call friends and companion at the end of the day couple do get divorce too even though they are married for 30 years.
It wont be as bad as will smith in new york la.
I am so jealous that they do not get the freedom as I get.  rclxm9.gif whistling.gif
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yea; i wonder why people jealous; i go shopping mall is to window shopping; not trying to show off im holding hot chick doh.gif

QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 12:00 PM)
b'coz i cant get woth the person i LOVE ma..
so i rather be single... cry.gif
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you dont get the person you love coz you sit here n online n expect to find one here; virtual never be reality.

QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 12:02 PM)
i got play bkb...but now seldom ady..coz studying...

but if u love the person u wont feel bored ma..

i only feel scared...

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studying also can play; why cannot? dont tell me you got poor time management.

QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 12:42 PM)
i scared he will HURT me again lor...
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Hurt is part of love package; who dont get hurt in love? It come down to how you handle your hurt factor. sweat.gif


Added on September 3, 2008, 12:01 pm
QUOTE(francischuahcw @ Sep 3 2008, 12:58 PM)
then use another 3 years to forget him lo..if you never had the idea of forget him come to ur mind....you wont able to pay attention to wat is approaching u.
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agree; past is past; why look back the mirror when there is more scenery infront whistling.gif

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Sep 3 2008, 12:01 PM
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post Sep 3 2008, 12:13 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 01:10 PM)
cant forget...
coz same class...
he will sms me n ask y i nv find him....when i ignore him...
how foget like that?

mostly ppl alone punya sure jealous got couples hold hands...

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u love him but you dun find him doh.gif apa ni? doh.gif
You dont have to wait for him to make move duh..
If like just ask him out for something. doh.gif
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post Sep 3 2008, 12:32 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 01:28 PM)
eh..he got gf ady der lah...
he is working...part time study...
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cant find out as friend? doh.gif
just a small yumcha ..also cannot? hmm.gif
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post Sep 3 2008, 02:19 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 01:35 PM)
he cannot lor...
we have dinner sometimes after classes at nite...
i think he scared ppl misunderstand kwa....
with this type of situation how to go out?
summore i gal...
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mar if i were him; ditch gf laugh.gif

QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Sep 3 2008, 01:51 PM)
that is the problem la

now u understand me...

this is y...how i wanna give up n forget him when he is like that everytime?
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come find me tongue.gif rolleyes.gif


 

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