QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 03:52 PM)
here is my story
when i first like a girl, the feeling is just like heaven, everything seems perfect. then i start the chasing process, as i progress, i notice my feeling slowly fades along with it, and gradually fading till there is no feeling left.
why does this happen? no matter whetehr is before chasing, in the process of chasing, or even after chasing, the feeling fades?
I've seen my friends, they can chase a girl for 1-2 years, even after many reject, somemore ppl laugh at them, they can still go on.
but i cannot even chase a girl for more than 1-2months before my feeling go blank.
Why does this happen to me? why isnt the feeling like waht they potray in movies, novels??
how do i make a feeling stay and not let a single feeling fade?
POTENTIAL PLAYBOY SPOTTED!!!
u're just having a crush,a very minor one...so nx time..dun simply go court girls b4 u r sure tat u like her..and think properly b4 u even start a relationship.
will u think of her every day and night?
when u c other pretty girls,are u interested? or feel tat they r nothing diff from a guy
will yr heartbeat goes faster,yr mouth stutter,and u feel shy around her?
will u make yrself outstanding,doing anything u can just to get her attention?
will u always feel like wanna hug her or hold her hand?
if your answers for above questions are yes (except for 2nd one la..dun tell me u're interested in other leng lui) ,continuously for more than 2 weeks,thn u hav green light..go for her.