why does love fade with time?
|
|
 Aug 27 2008, 12:45 AM
|
 
Senior Member
602 posts Joined: Jun 2006 From: Puchong 
|
I guess some ppl also feel the same way.
Some married for many years or have a long relationship sometimes feel there's no longer sparks in their relationship or the passion for love has gone or maybe not. Then that feeling will either turned into having a burden or just carrying out a responsibilty. just my 2 cents. |
|
|
Aug 27 2008, 02:23 PM
|
Junior Member
305 posts Joined: Mar 2005 From: Subang Jaya 
|
QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Aug 19 2008, 03:52 PM) here is my story i believe this is because of the spark..when i first like a girl, the feeling is just like heaven, everything seems perfect. then i start the chasing process, as i progress, i notice my feeling slowly fades along with it, and gradually fading till there is no feeling left. why does this happen? no matter whetehr is before chasing, in the process of chasing, or even after chasing, the feeling fades? I've seen my friends, they can chase a girl for 1-2 years, even after many reject, somemore ppl laugh at them, they can still go on. but i cannot even chase a girl for more than 1-2months before my feeling go blank. Why does this happen to me? why isnt the feeling like waht they potray in movies, novels?? how do i make a feeling stay and not let a single feeling fade?  somehow, u dun have the spark with her.. do u feel comfortable when u go out with her or talk over the phone? |
|
|
Apr 11 2015, 09:31 PM
|
Junior Member
27 posts Joined: Jul 2014  
|
True love doesn't fade with time.
It's just that you need to know the difference between lust and love. Lust is like you find her appearance/body parts/personality... attractive And love is like you and her have matching traits/personality/character... and you both like each other in a deeper sense that you both are willing to support each other So, when you know the difference between these love and lust, go and meet new girls or meet back the girls, you know, that are still single in your primary/secondary/college/uni. Hope this help  This post has been edited by GreyMT: Apr 11 2015, 09:32 PM |
|
Topic ClosedOptions
|
| Change to: |  0.0218sec
 0.51
 6 queries
 GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 4th December 2025 - 05:55 AM |
Quote