so, tell me, how did he and his friend "broke" their lips? doing what?

Why will he feel bad? He find someone better wo . Can satisfy him in bed. Let him go lo. You force him then worse he got no reason to regret at all

Wad da point forcing him 2 tell the truth??
If u're nt trusting him,even he tell u the truth,thing will nvr change better either..

Trust is always a prob in relationships....

You think buying a lie detector will solve the issue? Nah.

Break it off with him. Guys who go clubbing WON'T DO YOU ANY GOOD

Wasai 1 sentence kena a lot of people

What if your own boyfriend went for clubbing? Would you called it off?

wake him up at 3am

pathetic attempt

Curious Why 3am and not 4am?

cry and he'll tell u da truth.
jk=)

I think u shud trust him.

3am 3AM lah !! Dont ask so much question sshhh.....

I would never even start it with him in the 1st place (if I'm a girl).

If love gets in the way and I can't leave my partner, I will brainwash her/him to stop clubbing. No offense to clubbers, but I personally hate the idea of clubbing.

If she/he still doesn't want to change, I will see if I can change myself (the sad truth is I tried and I do not like clubbing).

All also cannot then just break it off lo...

watch X-files, the truth is out there

threaten him by being an hero.,cut your wrist.

Sekali he don't care.....siap.... kekurangan darah la her....

go youtube and search for water boarding technique.
use that on him

how can you say that to us?

we go clubbing to enjoy ourselves!
dancing is good for health

personally, I would say the ultimatum lies with you. We do not know who is he, how is his personality, his behaviors, does he have a bad record previously or he is good at cheating.

It is up to you, the person who is closest to him, to have the knowledge of who he really is and decide whether he is lying or not lying. Although I may say your feeling towards him may cloud your judgements, chances are you can see some signs from the way he talks and his body language whether he is really telling the truth or not.

yes we all need to trust our partners to a certain extent. But don't let that rule causing you to be ignorant towards the obvious signs he is showing, if your gut feeling tells you something is definitely not right, try to analyze why you have that gut feeling, what actually triggered that.

I don't know whether your bf is joking when he says he will find girls outside if he wants sex. I would have take that statement with a pinch of salt, because I know some guys can really pull lame jokes like this. I personally won't expect guys to have this much guts to actually do it, I might even answer back my bf "oh really ah, if you get AIDS dun blame me wor?", like brush him off in a "I don't care, serves you right if you messed up" attitude.

Lastly, all the best to you and hope you get your answers soon.

I hate it when men become secretive and hiding something behind. I hope it works out fine!

What if the man do it, so that it wouldn't hurt his partner or perhaps he wants to surprise her with surprises and gifts?

Remember being secretive is a burden. Its not easy to be secretive and calm at the same time.