Hi Girl & Guys just wanna share in this scenario, if u doubt ur partner got girl/guy without your knowledge then how u force he/she to tell u the truth.

First sure all will ask why will doubt on this?why not belive on ur partner?so on and so on.....

For my case, one day i accidently read his sms, this sms i dunno sent from who. The content is " how ur lips?is it recover?" and at the same time, my bf lips is broken. So, i bring the phone infront of him and ask who sent this to him, and he start explain to me this and that. He say his frend go to nightclub and get to know this girl, so his frend give my bf phone number to her. And so ngam, his frend lips broken also on the same day. So he tell me that, this sms was actually want sent to his frend but not to my bf. Should i believe that? i feel that he is finding an excuse. At nite, there is a party held in his house, so he introduce his frend to me and ask his frend to show his lips, i did not check well whether his lips is really broke or not, because i feel embarrase. Then my bf tell all his frend that i doubt he play girl outside, but all his frend quite and say nothing. Then my bf say again, i can doubt him everything, but cannot doubt him that he play girl outside.

I really dunno how to do,should i trust him?

Or how to force him tell me the truth?

He always say that, if his partner always reject his sex, and he will find it outside by himself. I dunno he is joking or he is serious. When i seriously ask him, is it true he will find from outside, then he will refuse it and say that he got no money to find from outside.
Guys....please share this with me.....

rourou very free hor? no need work is it?

there is this chinese saying forcing doesnt bring happiness.
They always say its better to find out the truth now then after 10 years.

Your option are as follows

1) Believe him and trust him
2) Take the option to leave him
3) Confront him and tell him if its a lie i will leave you.

I dunno why people can become couple even they dont trust them. Next time learn to do some research on the person before starting a relationship. Stupid ppl

i really believe in this, some people could be trusted, some not

some, chose to tell you a lie to not hurt you, but not realizing that it will hurt you more the later you found out

so, choose wisely on who to trust, and who not to trust

that's the fourth option i gave...lol

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 04:44 PM]
TS, what do you think of post #3?

You mix with loser you end up 1.
The above is true because i been there done that now i am here .
" Howyoudoanythingishowyoudoeverything "

give him an ultimatum

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 04:52 PM]
and this shows yours

I am just sharing what i master from experience but you in the other hand showing of your childish attitude

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 05:13 PM]
some ppl just dont take jokes. get dump often?

y broken lips must because of kissing? cannot be when this bf eating with his fren..got guys and girls la..and suddenly he accidentally bit his own lips cz talking while eating..

if you dont trust him,just leave him..dont make yourself suffer.