Hi Girl & Guys just wanna share in this scenario, if u doubt ur partner got girl/guy without your knowledge then how u force he/she to tell u the truth.

First sure all will ask why will doubt on this?why not belive on ur partner?so on and so on.....

For my case, one day i accidently read his sms, this sms i dunno sent from who. The content is " how ur lips?is it recover?" and at the same time, my bf lips is broken. So, i bring the phone infront of him and ask who sent this to him, and he start explain to me this and that. He say his frend go to nightclub and get to know this girl, so his frend give my bf phone number to her. And so ngam, his frend lips broken also on the same day. So he tell me that, this sms was actually want sent to his frend but not to my bf. Should i believe that? i feel that he is finding an excuse. At nite, there is a party held in his house, so he introduce his frend to me and ask his frend to show his lips, i did not check well whether his lips is really broke or not, because i feel embarrase. Then my bf tell all his frend that i doubt he play girl outside, but all his frend quite and say nothing. Then my bf say again, i can doubt him everything, but cannot doubt him that he play girl outside.

I really dunno how to do,should i trust him?

Or how to force him tell me the truth?

He always say that, if his partner always reject his sex, and he will find it outside by himself. I dunno he is joking or he is serious. When i seriously ask him, is it true he will find from outside, then he will refuse it and say that he got no money to find from outside.
Guys....please share this with me.....

i really believe in this, some people could be trusted, some not

some, chose to tell you a lie to not hurt you, but not realizing that it will hurt you more the later you found out

so, choose wisely on who to trust, and who not to trust

that's the fourth option i gave...lol

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 04:44 PM]
TS, what do you think of post #3?

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 04:52 PM]
and this shows yours

ee[D?],Jul 24 2008, 05:13 PM]
some ppl just dont take jokes. get dump often?

y broken lips must because of kissing? cannot be when this bf eating with his fren..got guys and girls la..and suddenly he accidentally bit his own lips cz talking while eating..

if you dont trust him,just leave him..dont make yourself suffer.

whoaa...pls dun force him if u want to know the truth.
after he telling u so much if u still dun trust him, den let it be or u move on.

if he really cheat on u, he will feel bad on himself.
but wat about if he really tells the true n u keep on dun believe?

if he really like to go out find other, ask him to go.
wat for to keep such a man besides u?
even u manage to stop him from finding other today, u cant prevent him to find other in future.

personally, I would say the ultimatum lies with you. We do not know who is he, how is his personality, his behaviors, does he have a bad record previously or he is good at cheating.

It is up to you, the person who is closest to him, to have the knowledge of who he really is and decide whether he is lying or not lying. Although I may say your feeling towards him may cloud your judgements, chances are you can see some signs from the way he talks and his body language whether he is really telling the truth or not.

yes we all need to trust our partners to a certain extent. But don't let that rule causing you to be ignorant towards the obvious signs he is showing, if your gut feeling tells you something is definitely not right, try to analyze why you have that gut feeling, what actually triggered that.

I don't know whether your bf is joking when he says he will find girls outside if he wants sex. I would have take that statement with a pinch of salt, because I know some guys can really pull lame jokes like this. I personally won't expect guys to have this much guts to actually do it, I might even answer back my bf "oh really ah, if you get AIDS dun blame me wor?", like brush him off in a "I don't care, serves you right if you messed up" attitude.

Lastly, all the best to you and hope you get your answers soon.

i can tell you guys something as well...

if you want to know your bf/gf better, don't ask them, ask their closest friend

they aren't themselves when they are with you, but not their friends...so yea

No point keep asking if some one has the intention to lie. Love is full of liesssssssss.............. Haha~! Just wanna ask TS... how if u know the truth and how if u dono? Sometimes it is better not knowing than know... but as a human nature... we wan to find out everything in truth. It is so confusing being in a LIVE~! 

you can ask them indirectly, not directly, like, probably do you think that A likes animals for pets and such?
well, a person who likes animals are considered as kind and caring, so yea...