adoi....ok ok. now understand ur pain.

The chances of getting a pregnancy after a bilateral tubal ligation is 1 in 80
whereas using intermittent methods? 1:200

english please.....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control

I think it means :

1) Tie a woman up (the non-kinky version ) - 0.0125% of being pregnant
2) Follow calendar - 0.005% of being pregnant

So better to follow calendar than tie tubes

You guys dont believe in withdrawal method?

withdrawal is a BS~...

yes..calendar date is very accurate provided your partner ovulation is on time...like my wife...the menstrual cycle always change one...this month 28 days..next month 21 days...

how to calculate?..cannot be evday use the ovulation tester to test mah...need lot of $$$ to spend le..1 daughter already making my head big ady

Happy New Year everyone! Looks like this thread are getting expand without i realizing it. Thanks everyone! Keep it up the thread ya!!

goverment just hundred something only INCLUDED the ward ya.
last time i went to serdang hospital for the delivery price was not that expensive and the ward are clean and tidy. they give u either choose with fan ward or air conditioning ward.
My husband choose air conditioning ward for me which is 4 person share in 1 room included a toilet. Eventhough i walk out to the nurse reception nearby the fan ward was ok also.. clean and no stinky smell at all.. Maybe the hospital are still new i guess

Why is withdrawal BS?

Im with dokidoki...withdrawal is nonsense....(okay all adult here...)....in the midst of making love....the guy will go...baby...im coming...aarrgghh....then the girl shout...get out..get out....then habis....potong stim.....

the calendar can actually be accurate. but then the days depends on ur partner. she can either have a fixed day cycle (ie: every 28 days or every 27 days...etc)...or precise (ie: her period falls on that particular day...the 21st or the 22nd of the month.)...u just need to work with your partner to get make it more accurate. other equipments such as vaginal thermometer will help to check the temperature in the vagina to see if she is in the ideal fertile temperature or not.....

Hi guys, sorry for tumpang thread, but I really dono where to go and ask for advice...

The other day me and my gf was making out, just purely kissing at first. Then we did a little bit foreplay, we're both still V and there is no intercourse, but Im scared that I might made her pregnant.

I was wearing boxers n shorts, so while making out, sure got abit wet wet down there... then i got adjust my lil bro (hands in between the boxers and shorts but didnt touch directly), then i did abit foreplay on her, but it was just merely touching the 'lips', and entered for like 1 inch only (wasnt that deep, not the entire finger) and she felt abit pain so we stopped (i think its the hymes). the foreplay on her was less than 1 min.

But im afraid that there might be a slight chance whereby my sperms transfer to her vagina thru my hand when i foreplay-ed her.

Is there any possibility that she might get pregnant? im very confused and worried now =S

it happened on sunday, so i think its too late for the morning after pills...

I didnt mention this to her because i scared it might freak her out and I read before that stress/unstable emotion may cause late period, which may be a sign of early pregnancy as well...

im in deep shit right? =(

This post has been edited by KyOsHiRo AkIra: Mar 2 2010, 11:40 PM

No, you're not in deep shit. I'm going to go out on a limb and say she's most probably not preggers and you both are still virgins.

The hymen stays intact unless there's penetration, fingers do not count.

Stop worrying.

From now on, keep a condom handy.

so you ejaculated while touching your gf?

anyway nope... and you are just scaring yourself silly there... there is perfectly nothing to be worried about and she will not get pregnant that way

OMG!!! ur totally screwed!!! HELLO NEW DADDY!!....

nah..just kidding. well chill mate. For you, you had no penetration. secondly, you used your finger into her vagina and you barely went in. 3. your sperm count is definitely way too low. and finally you both are still virgins. wait till her next period you should be safe. (ask her when is her period due also)

Don't worry, the next time u plan to do tat, suck ur finger then fondle the 'lips' okay? or just wear a condom ok? even if you plan not to have sex also just for precautionary, it is wise.

pheww, thanks for the clarification man...i couldnt even sleep well last nite >___<

so should be alright hor? if foreplay to get pregnant i must have the whole finger in right?

yeah, next time i'll definitely wear a condom! this was my first time and it was very sudden, not like we planned it. haha. and i dint knew foreplaying could get pregnant too.

wel foreplaying cant actually get pregnant unless u ejaculate close to her vagina. this u already got excited in ur pants. so ur still safe.
its not the matter of getting the fingers in. u can finger her as much as u want. it takes 3 - 5 days for the sperm to swim up to her fallopian tube to meet the egg. and out of the 1million sperms that ur shoot out, usually half will die of exhaustion before it reaches there.

So if even if u touch ur wet self and finger her, the chances of u getting her pregnant is like 0.01%. So in case the next time u plan to do tat, get her to give u a BJ. save the time of wetting the pants all.

Playing is definitely fun, but play responsibly and safely.

Nearest government hospital to my house is Hospital Ampang. Next is Hospital Serdang. Wonder if they'd still admit me.

Thinking to go to Pantai Indah (Pantai Ampang).. still within budget but scared if kena emergency c-sect

how many weeks now ? last time i was almost 7-8months to check at hospital serdang. luckly they still except me. But with no confirmation 1st. they got told us if the ward is full they need to transfer me to another goverment hospital which is at kajang or putrajaya if u wanted to deliver at pantai indah might the amount costing a lot. especially C-sect which is 1k above.My husband uncle wife which is delivery her baby at the same hospital (Pantai ampang) C-sec cost RM3K

Very far away

3k is still within my budget so it's ok. Government hospital.. will they let husband be with wife during labour?

1k for c-sect is cheap, very, very cheap for private hosp. u sure it's 1k?

If govt hospital not surprising la..

ahhh, wat a relieve! THANK YOUU!!

today can sleep peacefully di XD

oh btw, that time her cycle was Day 15, 1 day after Fertile period, should be still safe hor.