well like a quote from Meet Joe Black, "what's wrong with taking care of a woman? she takes care of you."

monthly allowance??erm..my mum say if they willing 2 pay..den jus take it hahaha!!but i think ur fren shouldnt depend on the bf..sumore the guy is not rich s u say...ur fren can work n gain working experience 2..i regreted that i din work n now i dun have working experience compare 2 my frens..i oni work 1day at pc fair..den i sick whole week...guess i need 2 find a rich husband...hahahaha!!!

If my boyfriend's money is his money, I'm fine. If it's his parents, I don't allow it.

yup, i agree with this.
if its not his, then its not his to give.
only when he starts working den he should start giving her money.

Allowance? if my bf is working n he is able to manage all things or high salary until got extra money then i accept it but if he is still studying n getting money from his parents, me won't accept his money.. i don't want burden his financial part since i also manage to cover up myself, wat for need bf's allowance? if his parents found out tat they give money to their son, n their son spend those money on gf, sure give bad impression to tat girl.

Like me n my bf now also studying in college, when we hang out have meal, sometimes he pays sometimes i pay, it's depends...
bout movies usually he pays 1.. both of us also got vehicles, we also take turn to drive either his or my car to go out, not always use his car..
since both of us also getting money from our parents, so, when i go out shopping with him, i usually didn't asked him buy things for me, i pay it by myself, except those celebrations like birthday, aniversary, valentine..those days, he usually treat me nice meal n buy those gift which i love it..
then of cause, im love to accept it

This post has been edited by @nN: Jun 5 2008, 12:44 PM

I wouldn't accept an allowance from my boyfriend even if he's working. That's not for him to give. He's only allowed to buy me meals, but we take turns buying each other meals anyway.

haha aslong as you can be creative in your recompensation I couldnt care how much of my money you spend

wah, so good la bf can give allowance though not married yet! i wish can get those 'kind' bf too...

of course take it la, why want to reject? haha, if not u use money buy stuff for him, sure he love you more..

gals... you all should learn from this gal. this is the best answer. Too bad it is not Yahoo ANswer otherwise i sure vote you the best answer.

spunk... u got bf liau ar? sad lo.. otherwise sure i tackle u.

This post has been edited by SadGuy2: Jun 10 2008, 02:03 PM

we could always just be friends, y'know? lol

i used to give 30% of my salary to my ex-gf last time every month, put in share a/c... now shes gone to another bf with the money

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Added on June 11, 2008, 8:55 pmnot to mention used my year bonus to pay for her car downpayment

This post has been edited by PureGeek: Jun 11 2008, 08:55 PM

Wow you've been played hard.

In the end it really depends on different people's opinion and view. This is a very subjective matter.

Haha yeah my ex would usually pay for me when I pay but I always slip back the money that he paid for me into his bag/pocket when he isnt paying attention =D

but seriously i didnt mind about that, coz that time real love

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Added on June 11, 2008, 9:29 pmactually now i feel uneasy coz theres no person i can give my money to, and its flooding my bank a/c

This post has been edited by PureGeek: Jun 11 2008, 09:34 PM

hmm i think if that guy no working better is dun use lo, if work then can spend as much as can

true true..aree so much with spunkberry
TS u two not married then what for he give allowance rite?if during breakup,he ask for the money with interest then how?plus u sorta supporting him thru his edu?

OMG r u bragging that u earn alot that's y money flooding bank a/c??give the excess to ur parents ler?or buy a house with themoney,then u''ll have not enough to spend.

I'm always uncomfortable when taking money from my bf... Even if he belanja... Call me old fashion, but I always feel that I deserve that money only after we're married

yeah...me too...hahah

PureGreek: then put downpayment or FD lor...can get interest...if not then give me....muahahahahahaha..,..jkjkjk

i prefer earn and spend my own money. important is not to grow too dependent on partners financial

Like old ppl says.... NO PAIN NO GAIN. so now u PAY TO LEARN huh?

well it will never be to late to change now. You can of course spend for your loves one. but filter it which one can and which one cannot until you marry her.