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yingjee
post Jul 6 2008, 11:39 PM

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yeah.. i have frens who scold me cos i pay for my own things.. she say "that's what guys are for" i reli.. doh.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 12:01 AM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Jul 6 2008, 11:39 PM)
yeah.. i have frens who scold me cos i pay for my own things.. she say "that's what guys are for" i reli.. doh.gif
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Girls like these arr. . *sigh*

They want equality yet we still gotta pay
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post Jul 7 2008, 12:47 AM

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lol.. u've never paid for ur gf before?
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post Jul 7 2008, 01:09 AM

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If I had one (gf that is), I will once in awhile, but she's gotta pay for my drinks! biggrin.gif
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post Jul 7 2008, 04:04 PM

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hahaha! sounds fishy... u drink alot isit xD maybe a whole bathtub at once x.x like a camel
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post Jul 8 2008, 12:59 AM

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i hv a guy fren who loves his gf so so much. He n i were d same class n he dreamed of becoming a doctor 1day. His gf is in2 fashion vr much. My fren took up part time job while studying to support 4d daily expense, gf gifts, gf clothes,makan, movie,... With the job out there he frequently absent in class. After v graduated,i bumped in2 him 1day, he said he was offered a higher rank in his workplace, then he told me he plan 2let go of his dream n not2 further his education, coz he hv2 support 4his gf allowance, n o ya, her gf get 2study happily + enjoy all her new designer's clothes, stylish new hairstyles.....

um.. not 2say jeolous but it's kind of "eye-sore" 2me. Talk about woman these days striving for equalities, ya right! No offense but gals like honey glued 2her bf 24/7 4dis n dat is kind of useless. U guys really love ur gfs THAT much until u r willing 2gv her everything (even u r reaching end meets)? Pampered lifestyle... don u think this is materialove?

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post Jul 8 2008, 01:14 AM

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QUOTE(BHS @ Jul 8 2008, 12:59 AM)
i hv a guy fren who loves his gf so so much. He n i were d same class n he dreamed of becoming a doctor 1day. His gf is in2 fashion vr much. My fren took up part time job while studying to support 4d daily expense, gf gifts, gf clothes,makan, movie,... With the job out there he frequently absent in class. After v graduated,i bumped in2 him 1day, he said he was offered a higher rank in his workplace, then he told me he plan 2let go of his dream n not2 further his education, coz he hv2 support 4his gf allowance, n o ya, her gf get 2study happily + enjoy all her new designer's clothes, stylish new hairstyles.....

um.. not 2say jeolous but it's kind of "eye-sore" 2me. Talk about woman these days striving for equalities, ya right! No offense but gals like honey glued 2her bf 24/7 4dis n dat is kind of useless. U guys really love ur gfs THAT much until u r willing 2gv her everything (even u r reaching end meets)? Pampered lifestyle... don u think this is materialove?
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Haha, talk about trying to KEEP the relationship going. Might as well be considered a sugar daddy er.... boy

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hahaha! sounds fishy... u drink alot isit xD maybe a whole bathtub at once x.x like a camel

I wish I had that kind of tolerance but no, I lost of the taste of liquor and stickin to beers & cocktails tongue.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 02:35 PM

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QUOTE(BHS @ Jul 8 2008, 12:59 AM)
i hv a guy fren who loves his gf so so much. He n i were d same class n he dreamed of becoming a doctor 1day. His gf is in2 fashion vr much. My fren took up part time job while studying to support 4d daily expense, gf gifts, gf clothes,makan, movie,... With the job out there he frequently absent in class. After v graduated,i bumped in2 him 1day, he said he was offered a higher rank in his workplace, then he told me he plan 2let go of his dream n not2 further his education, coz he hv2 support 4his gf allowance, n o ya, her gf get 2study happily + enjoy all her new designer's clothes, stylish new hairstyles.....

um.. not 2say jeolous but it's kind of "eye-sore" 2me. Talk about woman these days striving for equalities, ya right! No offense but gals like honey glued 2her bf 24/7 4dis n dat is kind of useless. U guys really love ur gfs THAT much until u r willing 2gv her everything (even u r reaching end meets)? Pampered lifestyle... don u think this is materialove?
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ah.. one word.. stupid~~ the girl is so mean.. sad.gif how can she treat a guy like that? she's like leeching off him..

This post has been edited by yingjee: Jul 8 2008, 04:23 PM
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post Jul 8 2008, 03:01 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 30 2008, 11:33 AM)
what is your opinion of using guys money when the guy is not working and just studying?

i have a best fren..she is just graduate from diploma..and her bf doing degree and not working..i invited her to join me for 6 days part time job..1stly she wanted and her bf told her..he will gives her $$ to spend every month and the guy is not rich also..i told my frens for my opinion its not good to use bf's money coz come to the end the $$ is from the guys parents..n he is not working will burden him..and ppl will gossip..(if the bf's parents finds out!)

i mean if use his $$ for movies and stuff its alright..but use it for montly allowance? will u all "sampai hati" to use it?
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if the guy say yes, then yes lor laugh.gif

this kind of things is between the couple, although the guy money is source from parents. But, when the cash reach his hand, decision is made by himself. So up to the guy lor, of course the gal also dun be gold digger lar. laugh.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(BHS @ Jul 8 2008, 12:59 AM)
i hv a guy fren who loves his gf so so much. He n i were d same class n he dreamed of becoming a doctor 1day. His gf is in2 fashion vr much. My fren took up part time job while studying to support 4d daily expense, gf gifts, gf clothes,makan, movie,... With the job out there he frequently absent in class. After v graduated,i bumped in2 him 1day, he said he was offered a higher rank in his workplace, then he told me he plan 2let go of his dream n not2 further his education, coz he hv2 support 4his gf allowance, n o ya, her gf get 2study happily + enjoy all her new designer's clothes, stylish new hairstyles.....

um.. not 2say jeolous but it's kind of "eye-sore" 2me. Talk about woman these days striving for equalities, ya right! No offense but gals like honey glued 2her bf 24/7 4dis n dat is kind of useless. U guys really love ur gfs THAT much until u r willing 2gv her everything (even u r reaching end meets)? Pampered lifestyle... don u think this is materialove?
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better buy a cute girl from anywhere la..his situation is like buying love with money..tot sum1 said love cant be bought by money?
this kind of gf ah...better dump it la..no diff from leeches,except one sux blood one sux money
this one i can assure u...after sometime,when the girl got better job and the guy is still in same rank (as he din further study for betta qualification) they will surely break.
wat does tat guy get in the end??
NOTHING![COLOR=red] rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

This post has been edited by jianjie: Jul 8 2008, 05:04 PM
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post Jul 8 2008, 04:25 PM

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lols.. u mean.. "one sux blood one sux money" right? haha.. its kinda true la.. but maybe one day d girl will feel bad n treat him good leh.. u wont know rite..
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post Jul 8 2008, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(yingjee @ Jul 8 2008, 04:25 PM)
lols.. u mean.. "one sux blood one sux money" right? haha.. its kinda true la.. but maybe one day d girl will feel bad n treat him good leh.. u wont know rite..
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err...tat ONE DAY maybe an eternity..too risky blush.gif
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post Jul 8 2008, 05:20 PM

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studying with parents money yet having a g/f on the side to share the moola....hmmmm......interesting....

Unless the guy is having a part-time job whilst completing his study that would have lessen his parents burden ( to those who are still having parents that is paying your tuition please think twice before getting a g/f) because it is gonna cost you one day.

Anywee, unless the guy is working part-time job and seriously have some SPARE cash by offering his g/f ( for instance RM100 out of RM500) he made as an allowance is acceptable but then again....why not think of this way.....parents both are working hard too to support how about their burdens?


as the g/f's part.....hmmm.....she gotta have to 1st understand her b/f is still being supported by his family (financial situation defer by different families) if she really wants something how about try making her own pocket money? then again it is wise to discriminate between the needs and the wants during studies....

Anyway this is merely just my point of view in general.




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post Jul 9 2008, 12:31 AM

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QUOTE(BHS @ Jul 8 2008, 12:59 AM)
i hv a guy fren who loves his gf so so much. He n i were d same class n he dreamed of becoming a doctor 1day. His gf is in2 fashion vr much. My fren took up part time job while studying to support 4d daily expense, gf gifts, gf clothes,makan, movie,... With the job out there he frequently absent in class. After v graduated,i bumped in2 him 1day, he said he was offered a higher rank in his workplace, then he told me he plan 2let go of his dream n not2 further his education, coz he hv2 support 4his gf allowance, n o ya, her gf get 2study happily + enjoy all her new designer's clothes, stylish new hairstyles.....

um.. not 2say jeolous but it's kind of "eye-sore" 2me. Talk about woman these days striving for equalities, ya right! No offense but gals like honey glued 2her bf 24/7 4dis n dat is kind of useless. U guys really love ur gfs THAT much until u r willing 2gv her everything (even u r reaching end meets)? Pampered lifestyle... don u think this is materialove?
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i can feel tat this gal wont even think of the guy is so hardworking just to support her expenses. really malu got this kinda gal who brought bad impression to other gals. mayb she think tat its her rightful to get everything by asking the bf to pay. but its really made us feel tat she's over materialistic. buy branded just to show off but its not her own money.
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post Jul 9 2008, 02:02 AM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Jul 8 2008, 03:01 PM)
if the guy say yes, then yes lor  laugh.gif

this kind of things is between the couple, although the guy money is source from parents. But, when the cash reach his hand, decision is made by himself. So up to the guy lor, of course the gal also dun be gold digger lar.  laugh.gif
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well, guy's allowance definitely from parents but + a gf, not enough man, dats y he work, so i guess his own money he like 2spend hw much n wenever he1 2.
So if it was u, wld u do dat 4ur gal? Who noes ur gf so swt swt QQ, n sexy hot... love is powerful man.. flex.gif


Added on July 9, 2008, 2:06 am
QUOTE(jianjie @ Jul 8 2008, 03:56 PM)
better buy a cute girl from anywhere la..his situation is like buying love with money..tot sum1 said love cant be bought by money?
this kind of gf ah...better dump it la..no diff from leeches,except one sux blood one sux money
this one i can assure u...after sometime,when the girl got better job and the guy is still in same rank (as he din further study for betta qualification) they will surely break.
wat does tat guy get in the end??
NOTHING![COLOR=red]  rclxms.gif  rclxms.gif
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haha...1 blood sucker 1 ka-ching sucker... my fren le dat1.... he's really a swt guy, it's jz dat...hmm...i don really like d way he's doin all d things 4her gal.. it's like very waste la, a swt guy with a gal like dat...
but love can be very very powerful, maybe d guy got a love hit spell o smtin...


Added on July 9, 2008, 2:11 am
QUOTE(yen1022 @ Jul 9 2008, 12:31 AM)
i can feel tat this gal wont even think of the guy is so hardworking just to support her expenses. really malu got this kinda gal who brought bad impression to other gals. mayb she think tat its her rightful to get everything by asking the bf to pay. but its really made us feel tat she's over materialistic. buy branded just to show off but its not her own money.
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but then again mayb d guy actually 1 d gal 2hv his money1 le? or perhaps u r right in which d gal vr demandful...

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QUOTE(BHS @ Jul 9 2008, 02:02 AM)
haha...1 blood sucker 1 ka-ching sucker... my fren le dat1.... he's really a swt guy, it's jz dat...hmm...i don really like d way he's doin all d things 4her gal.. it's like very waste la, a swt guy with a gal like dat...
but love can be very very powerful, maybe d guy got a love hit spell o smtin...
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It's not love if there's tons of cash involved that doesn't have "wedding" attached to it. But what can I say, people are materialistic.
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QUOTE(yen1022 @ Jul 9 2008, 12:31 AM)
i can feel tat this gal wont even think of the guy is so hardworking just to support her expenses. really malu got this kinda gal who brought bad impression to other gals. mayb she think tat its her rightful to get everything by asking the bf to pay. but its really made us feel tat she's over materialistic. buy branded just to show off but its not her own money.
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Unfortunately, such occurences are not exactly rare in Malaysia today.


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thx god my gf is a good 1..always support each other..
she always refuse my money..always told me to save it for after amriage coz we maybe will need to buy some furniture..whew..she did think about our future...even she always follow me when i go shopping..so i nvr overspend..always remind me to save some money for future..thx god i have her...

before i did help some of my friends to teach materialistic gals...
1st tackle them..show we have good economy..when they fall for it..i shall give a little only to the gurl..somewhat show that i actually dont have much..tell them that this is not mine..that is not mine..
when they leave me..or i leave them..i shall show the gurl the "real" me..somehow they will regret it and i shall hit them in their face^_^
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QUOTE(serigala @ Jul 9 2008, 12:53 PM)
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thx god my gf is a good 1..always support each other..
she always refuse my money..always told me to save it for after amriage coz we maybe will need to buy some furniture..whew..she did think about our future...even she always follow me when i go shopping..so i nvr overspend..always remind me to save some money for future..thx god i have her...

before i did help some of my friends to teach materialistic gals...
1st tackle them..show we have good economy..when they fall for it..i shall give a little only to the gurl..somewhat show that i actually dont have much..tell them that this is not mine..that is not mine..
when they leave me..or i leave them..i shall show the gurl the "real" me..somehow they will regret it and i shall hit them in their face^_^
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geez...i like ur gal man, so considerate!
ur last phrase says u'll hit them in deir face..wow, really? hit wif coins ar? haha...XD
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hahahah... "real" u = ? u very rich ah

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