There's always a catch. If your bf give you monthly allowance for sure he will want something in return. Guys are very cunning...

You know you girls shouldn't really take money from someone who're not working ... They've got no income except the pocket money that they get from their parents which is some hard earned money. Whats more ? When break up then you get some money issue ... Treating GFs on food/movie ticket is not much of a big deal ... But buying clothes and ladies stuff ... you know.

everyone to their own agenda,

there is no angel, it is just a matter of who is the lesser evil

I repeat with changes: You shouldn't accept an allowance from your boyfriend even if he's working because that's not for him to give.

well.. it was interesting to see it on perspective that a girl use up the guy's money.. this is because, to me... the guy always have some agenda to extort the girls money.. I happens, I don't know why....

get this, it get worst when you are married to the person who does not know how to handle financially, extort yours and finish the money off and then to depend on in-laws for more money...

I get this one as a brother in law.... its very very irritating on seeing how irresponsible he is. My sister also a stupid one who don't limit their family's spending.

Now?

Riding a Gen-2 car (on loan and buy it immediately after it was sold out to public)
Have a Nokia N78 (also switch handphones monthly)
Steal/Sell off my dad's expensive stuff (The home theater/amplifier) (My dad turns blind eye on this actually)
Finish off my first sister's savings (on the car and not using his money)
Smoke in front of his 4weeks old baby and 3 years old daughter (finish 2-4 box of cigarettes daily)
has a questionable income (no longer work at the car factory.. I notice.. but since he had no degree nor diploma nor a STPM cert... his income were basically under RM1000 but live like someone who had an income of RM5000..)
calls himself as a salesperson who go out at 7am and come home at 4am and have no sleeping disorder (curious..)
can't afford the bills (which my dad pays for 3 years worth of bills - electric, water, ASTRO, housephone and ect)
have a debt of RM8000


and pull off a big fight about "how poor he is and how poor his family is and how ungrateful it is my family is" to my third sister.

hahah... how disgust I am to people who acted like they are rich when they aren't.


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In my case, I was flattered when my BF offer to pay but then, it makes me feel degraded on some moral level... lol

yeah..u r rite...not like what "pure greek"...give 30%..omg!!...

Your brother in-law is so terrible.

I got this friend back in hometown is totally the other way around... the chick work and the guy lepak dota... both age 23. His gf sometime work at bintang walk some cafe there b4. Quite cun but dono why she work and support her bf.... her bf jobless for more thn few years. I see also walau eh...

i agree wid u lehh, alexandrak!

as a GaL, shuldn't be too RELY on ppl..
GOTTA be independent n' STRONG!!

Well that depends lah... if you are close to the guy/ he is your bf, once in awhile oso no problem... but I dont really agree on bfs giving money allowance to gf lah... got such thing huh? I agree with StrikeZ, if he is not working then A-A - go on dutch ker... or he belanja this time, then u belanja next time... but I know some guys love to shower the gfs with things... So depending on the relationship...

for me i won't ask. if he willing i will accept depends on the situation. if the thing is expensive i will not accept. is not easy to earn money after all

True enough.
Once in a while spending the boyfriend's money would be fine,
But if it comes too often, then perhaps it will lead to no good

its not nice at all for a girl to just use the bf money like that cause you know your bf is not working thus he still spends for you on clothes , food or any other stuff. think the gf should think that since his not working, she would have to support her self by using her money to help her in sort of stuff but if she is kinda out of cash then its fine to donate some cash to her and ask her to pay back later. be equal and help one another

This post has been edited by Calvin871989: Jul 1 2008, 03:39 PM

if my bf gv me monthly allowance & i accepted it, i just feel tat i'm under his control. i dun mind if he's paying for dating expenses but if there's extra allowance to pay for me its quite wierd. i'm working n got my own salary so i'm still able to survive wif tat.

to all girlz..
use guy money not a crime..but dun over use lar...cover cover ur bf wallet abit...u all oso dun wan ur bf need 2 eat bread every time especially not around u,rite??

i last time also think if use bf $$ for movies and eat is alright.....until break up, i only know that what i think is wrong. maybe i should think of the guy also a student and not yet working, so he cant pay everytime when we go out. but i also got think this is also because we are bf and gf just wanna to try whether we suitable for together or not, so that we cant ask the guy pay everything for us...?

erm.. i dont accept my bf paying for me at all i dont mind using other guys punya money though.. hahaha! only if they r willing to belanja la.. i dun mind paying for my bf but if he pays for me, i feel reli bad..

ya me also think if just pay for eat and movie, that's ok. but sometimes he also got buy me some clothes...me also think that's no good...that's why i seldom ask him buy me clothes...but maybe he is still a student, so hard pay for eat and movie also. when i realize this is a money issue problem, i only know that's too late coz we adi break up... actually i dun think we got any big problem but can cause break up..haiz...

yaya..agree....since if u are work then y not together bear the cost... or u just pay wat u like to bought lolz...since the thing ur bought is 4ur own use de....
fair to all..and now all concern equal treat between girl n guy... so..
GIRL please kindness to ur bf la... hehehe

i dun think its gud to use bf money while he is still studying coz the money cum frm his parents.And as u said, his parents is not that rich. But there are ger outside who is 'sampai hati' to use lor...