some says that it would take half of the years you've been together with him/her to forget the memories...

but i say, it takes forever to forget..

Then mine is gonna take a long time..

Yea, i just drive pass the place she used work where I will send and pick her frm work daily...

Flashback flashback happy memories

yap, it is true. i take 6 years just to forget my past bf....huhuhu

6years omg! That's really long... Really tough..

wah....6 years...so long

how long you been together?

wow.. 6years??.. my god... thats really long..

u must have felt really hurt...

i suffered months also felt damn hard to get thru,

i cant even imagine if 6years for me..

if 1 has been dumped then its best to just accept the decision and as a self respecting dumpstee, NOT to contact the dumpster. :-)

Serious, I have been both a dumpster & a dumpstee that i think I can write a small book already. Many times, its my fault, other times, its not...so its OK.

We learn to let go and then find a new companion...Cest la vie..
it hurt painfully at that time, but each time, you need to go forward, make new friends and have NO expectations...thing will be Ok. Guarantee. And the dumped feelings will slowly vanished...

hahaha..
dumpster and dumpstee hahahhaa..

For my case, i like a girl and i be with her for two weeks, but in the end she said she cannot stand being LDR, and she was foolish that she thought she can handle it, and she said she doesnt want to commit in relationship for the time being, so she chooses to put a stop. She said it would be better than we were friends.. Altho its just 2 weeks, but i still feel the pain, i wanna forget her, but its hard as we are still friends. She told me the two weeks she was real and serious and she didnt cheat on me.. How can i move on yet i still wanna pursue her in the future? But not now..

How?

Move on by keeping yourself bz.
If you cant, then pick up some hobbies, past time like reading, gaming or travel.

I mean how can i keep my mind strong that i still wanna pursue her but not now.. I mean she is still in my heart but i dont want the pass to bug me, i wanna pursue her from scratch..

Hmmm it's hard but that's also wat m doing.. Try to leave her alone hope she will felt that she will felt she miss the life we had together..

Just hold ur feelings and become frens..

If u ever meet her ask how is she doing, her future planning... Talk about what u had been doing and see if she still cares or not..

Practically do not mention about getting back or give any chance..

It's hard and I m doing it, starting will feel awkward but it's gonna be fine..

imo...do not have any expection from her such as she would returns to you...that's would only makes u suffered everday...just do ur usual stuff and make ur time occupied. Let the fate to decide ur both's destiny.

Perhaps that is also good way... I would say I still put hopes but not as high and much compared to starting..

Now I still miss her, wondering does she feel the same too?

Hmmm stupid of me

Hahaha

Ya, perhaps that's the good way to do it. I would just ask her friends and my friends to try to help to convince her about relationship thingy time to time, but the important part is cannot mention about me. Guess gonna take it slowly and do it nicely this time. Need more understanding and strengthen the tie between both side while being friends, it's a good way. For me, she felt kinda guilty about it, i mean the way tat she accepted my love and after 2 weeks she said she cannot manage LDR, she told her friend she really felt guilty about it...

it takes time.. it took me 3 months of tears, 6 months of heartache, 9 months to back to normal.. starting over with another sweet guy now.. =) hope it works out..

everyone here is moved on then found another new relationship..

but is there any who moved on but able to patch things back and its happy for now?

haha

We are still friend after we broke up for 3 months..
but I have to admit that I still crying for him ..
everytime I saw him in emo..i guess he is emo for other girl,absolutely not me..
I know we have no more chances..I understand all the theories my friends told me, I know I must get through this...BUT it is just harder as i expected..
quote a lyrics from coldplay song - the scientist..
Nobody said it was easy, It's such a shame for us to part, nobody said it was easy, no one ever said it would be this hard, oh take me back to the start...

TIME is the only remedy...

Feel u there.. Even the advises frm so many people but I still can't forget..

Time will heal but it really still hurt frm time to time..

Tough it up and try to think less