if 1 has been dumped then its best to just accept the decision and as a self respecting dumpstee, NOT to contact the dumpster. :-)

Serious, I have been both a dumpster & a dumpstee that i think I can write a small book already. Many times, its my fault, other times, its not...so its OK.

We learn to let go and then find a new companion...Cest la vie..
it hurt painfully at that time, but each time, you need to go forward, make new friends and have NO expectations...thing will be Ok. Guarantee. And the dumped feelings will slowly vanished...