Agree!

True also...after 5 months breaking up with my gf...for the pass few week...i keep on thinking of my ex although i got a new gf now.
I keep on thinking of her...the time we being together....just cant get the think out of my head,
I even hope that she will come back one day.......i am feeling so unfair for my current gf now.

There are many times i feel like wana sms my ex to tell her that i miss her very much....but i stop because since i already stated a new relationship...i should focus on the relationship now...

But then after 5 month...today is the first time i sms her wishing her merry christmas...just tell her i mis her.... Gosh... a bit headache for me now.....

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Added on December 25, 2010, 3:02 ami just seem to cant let go of her......mayb inside me...i do compare both my ex and current gf. Both having different type personality. Actually last time is my ex who request a break up..since we are having long distance relationship. Just not long after she start working.

This post has been edited by egyprince: Dec 25 2010, 03:02 AM

well..i just broke up one month plus from a relationship that lasted 6 years. i get over really fast because my ex hurts me very bad...

Recently, i kinda have crush to a friend of mine, who takes care of me when i was down. not really in love or something, just had good feeling & crush. because he is really a nice guy.

And i was thinking to give him a chance in order for myself to move on (he did hint me lil bit and i gave response) but out of sudden, he started to avoiding me - we used to texting each other all the time, suddenly he stop text me for few days, even the messages are all very common, not really like before anymore.

I gave him chances & waited him for days. His birthday is coming soon and we said before we wanna celebrate it together. But till now, he did not mention about it anymore.

Maybe it's over, really over. My relationship is over, so does my recent crush.

This post has been edited by starbox: Dec 25 2010, 04:39 AM

thank u TS

Bump

lol some of you probably knew about my story. but, hey. shit happens.
So, I'm here to seeking advice. I just ended my 2month rltnship back in 18/11 last year. The first few days was very terrible..but then I got help from my fren and picked me back up. Or so I thought, fyi, my ex is currently the same group as me, basically I'm still seeing her for another 4years -.-

I really wanted to get over her but it seems very hard given the situation, plus, i just cant stand the sight of my past competitor going at her again! who is even in the same class as me! really need advice..

I feel u. Went through the same scenario for college but thank god it was only one and a half years. Not 4. It's not going to be easy. But it can be done. Just be yourself mix with diff friends if need be. See the first post of this thread too. In that one and a half years I also dated two other girls and not once I pined over the ex. So it can be done. Initial stages are hard as hell. But you are getting over her. You will be better. And you will be happy. Ps try making friends outside of class outside your comfort zone too. It's quite exciting and pretty fun to see what works and what doesn't when trying to chat up strangers. U may even meet someone special

just end 6 year relationship

1 month pass, still feeling like death body walking around. Daily working try to keep smile on ppl. Feel so hard......................

How to over come it.................

this thread helps so much..will try those useful steps b4 breaking up with my boyfie.. i want to make sure i can forget him FULLY 1st then i dare to end dis relationship officially. now we're not mesra anymore like before in terms of communication..got into big fight with him last sunday..till now he didnt SMS n call me! wtf. but we email-ed each other tho..email almost everyday since the BIG fight but still i feel wan to break up with him..since i see so many cons than pros. giving him chance till end of dis month..if no call,sms or apologize to me n show that he care/love me n if he show no regrets ,then i will let him go. no more turning back!

go find another one and start a new relationship...

thats what im doing .. i go n flirt with other guys..

aww. so sad. i hope it wont happen happen to me.
*pray harder*

joining the club ~

me too, i jus end my relationship a month ago, i still cannot let go. i cried again last nite.

Adui ... come come i comfort you ... dun cry

i tried this!
but doesnt work for me
no matter how much hatred i put on him
it just make me fall in love with him
no matter how i want to get rid of him
he will surely crossed my mind..

Its mind over matter, I'm sure you'll get over him
Just now I saw my ex with someone else, and I hardly felt anything, then I realized, I've moved on.

It's a matter of time before you'll be able to do the same too. Keep hoping for the best!
You have my support dear friend!

well, my advice is cut all your communications with her, like FB, twitter, delete her number from your phone, pictures. this will help a little bit, but as for you who already being in a long term relationship and suddenly its over, be chill about it. time will heal everything.

one thing i hate about seeing my ex adoring and being with another guy makes me sick about her and want to give punch right to his face. LOL