this thread helps so much..will try those useful steps b4 breaking up with my boyfie.. i want to make sure i can forget him FULLY 1st then i dare to end dis relationship officially. now we're not mesra anymore like before in terms of communication..got into big fight with him last sunday..till now he didnt SMS n call me! wtf. but we email-ed each other tho..email almost everyday since the BIG fight but still i feel wan to break up with him..since i see so many cons than pros. giving him chance till end of dis month..if no call,sms or apologize to me n show that he care/love me n if he show no regrets ,then i will let him go. no more turning back!

thats what im doing .. i go n flirt with other guys..