QUOTE(rourou @ May 15 2008, 11:06 AM)
What about me? This second u told me u love me.. now u go n tell her u love her..
when age is not problem but the confidence..., my bf 7 years older than me
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May 15 2008, 11:31 AM
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May 15 2008, 12:15 PM
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May 15 2008, 12:20 PM
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May 15 2008, 09:04 PM
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err....y is there suddenly triangle love battle in my thread?
*~sweat |
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May 19 2008, 01:34 AM
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age shouldnt be a problem i guess....as long as both of you clique very well together...
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May 23 2008, 01:34 PM
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If u really love him thn u should be mature then, since he is adi in that level, and u have to be that level somehow, try to be mature abit. If u are too young to enjoy ur life, he may feel bad
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May 23 2008, 05:18 PM
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May 24 2008, 05:12 PM
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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ May 23 2008, 02:34 PM) If u really love him thn u should be mature then, since he is adi in that level, and u have to be that level somehow, try to be mature abit. If u are too young to enjoy ur life, he may feel bad if the girl is mature mentality, just that sometimes purposely act childishly (read: cute)....is it acceptable? |
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May 24 2008, 05:55 PM
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May 25 2008, 08:14 PM
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QUOTE(MiLKTea @ May 24 2008, 05:12 PM) if the girl is mature mentality, just that sometimes purposely act childishly (read: cute)....is it acceptable? This kind of ppl is exactly my type, coz shes not really childish but like to act cute sometime. So she still can be serious when doing work or things that should be do-it-seirously. As long as her childishness doesn't make any1 angry |
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Nov 9 2008, 08:43 PM
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why dont u try out the relationshiup first
n when u hit a cross road u can deal with the problem... |
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Nov 9 2008, 09:08 PM
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to be 1's perfect some1... confidence is but a small part of the requirements... another important element is the effort and how far would u go for him...
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Nov 9 2008, 09:24 PM
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then what bout .... lets say a girl who is 5 yrs older than her bf ?
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Nov 9 2008, 09:31 PM
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QUOTE(kikipi @ Nov 9 2008, 09:24 PM) same... as quoted from my mum... liking some1 is so easy... living wif each other is the hard part... how far u can tolerate... "leong kor yan seong chu zui kan nan"... (cuz even housemates also got issues wif each other) |
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Nov 10 2008, 12:18 AM
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I think the only problem you would have would be that he's much older and therefore more ready to settle down ... whereas you just entered your 20s. Seems like this isn't a problem to him so why worry?
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Nov 10 2008, 12:39 PM
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TS, u must have confident on urself.
"he loves u not because of who you are.. he loves u becoz of what you are." dont think too much ya.. your relationship will last long forever.. don't worry so much. good luck. |
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Nov 10 2008, 08:05 PM
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Ranul,
I have dated a guy six years older than me. I never think of the 'confidence' problem u r having bcoz v can communicate and understand each other very well. And I have female fren who date wit guy age 31 who ten years older than my fren. Quoted from my grandma, "Guys who in 30 in the age would not fool around so much bcoz they wanna settle down." Well, if you really like him, you wil find solutions to your problem. share your problem wit him whenever u hv one. All the best girl. Added on November 10, 2008, 8:07 pm QUOTE(greenie^panda @ Nov 10 2008, 12:39 PM) TS, u must have confident on urself. I tot is the other way round?? "he loves u not because of who you are.. he loves u becoz of what you are." dont think too much ya.. your relationship will last long forever.. don't worry so much. good luck. "He loves u because of who you are, not what you are." This post has been edited by catpig: Nov 10 2008, 08:07 PM |
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Nov 10 2008, 10:03 PM
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Nov 10 2008, 10:35 PM
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Love has no boundaries!
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Nov 11 2008, 02:32 AM
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U need not think much to change urself dear, u might not feel good when he is so mature but u are not, but that does not mean u need to change to what he like, just be urself is very good.
Think on his side, since he love/like u, why not he love/like everything of u, maybe he more prefer on young girl who know how to enjoy life. Think on a good side, ur thinking of enjoying life can be on of the reason that he like u, cause early 30 is almost hard to enjoy life, majority in the process of fighting for career, which is a hard life. Knowing someone who good in enjoying life is a good thing. So just cheer up, age gap that affect communication may occur but if both of u like each other, its not a hard thing to settle, thats what i think la |
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