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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...

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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...

Do note this - if given a choice - a lot of guys will want a younger gf, even up to 10 years.

Do not worry about unnecessary thing, it's make your relationship shake. Just enjoy your relationship.

this topic is waking me up again! i am in the dilemma for these few days. I am in the early 30s and so surprise a 21 yr old gal is tellingme that she like to be my life partner.. i stop keeping in touch with gals after my 4 yrs of breaks and presently being a filial son looking after my only mother. I told her to go away cos she is young and there are plenty time more for her to learn, enjoy and grow up instead of attaching with someone old like me. She refuse and insisted that she will behave mature and sharing my burden in anyway - which i don't have 1 for her. i ask her many times why she choose me and she says she love to be a man that love his family like i do. But to me... i don't trust this cos to them... these are just words that playing in her mind just to convince me to accept her.

see... its easy to say .. age is not a matter at all but ... gals at the young age is eager and thirst for love and companion which they have yet to experience before since their childhood. I cant blame them much for that... but why an old man? i've seen alot of cases where young gal intend to fool around and some will leave their partner when they reach the age of 25 to 28 after realising something much more for them to learn and go thru than attaching to someone reaching a wheel chair or somewhere near to coffin. Be honest age does matter.... it is just that couple never sit and think what are the consequences being together... diff thoughts diff need and diff perspective.

think about it....

(His Age / 2) + 7 = the minimum age he should be dating.