appearance matter actually.
for guy not really, but for gal is important.
hv u seen an ugly guy approach a pretty gal ? YES
hv u seen an ugly gal approach a lengcai ? NO.

ADVANTAGE OF BEING A GUY !!!

sori to offend anybody..
wheeeEE

huhu...appearance also important for interview meh..huhu

yes can't deny the fact that appearance does matter at some point..but as what I've said that doesn't give anyone the right to insult them or judge them..as the saying goes "try not to judge the book by the cover"..sadly in reality how many of us actually do that..just because they don't look attractive doesn't me we have the right to give them a "death sentence" by totally avoiding them or associating them with negative thoughts and characteristics.

mizzvee meant me la lol.. XD

This post has been edited by amgine: Jan 23 2008, 02:55 PM

err... who's gone tat far...? i still associate wif ugly people... but depends on their personality... there are ugly people who think tat they are very great...

example: William Hung...
(i remember my 1st ex told me she got some free ticket to meet him from her mum and he taught her how to sing)

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Jan 23 2008, 03:38 PM

dota team need good looking ppl ?

tho i usually find games with titles like "lengchai only " or "lenglui in here plz"

hv u seen a pretty girl flirt with a macho/socially-dominant guy? YES
hv u seen a pretty girl flirt with a effiminate/non-socially-dominant guy? NO


ADVANTAGE OF BEING A GIRL!!!


sori to offend anybody..
wheeeEE



This post has been edited by ezralimm: Jan 25 2008, 04:09 PM

appearance do matter for certain people..
some don't really care.. some guys love fat ladies cuz they give them ''mothers'' feeling.. and those lovey dovey feelings..
some born to like hot girls,girlfriend or wife must be slim and hot..

The feeling of love comes form the heart tats all i know. LOL

nowadays... yaka

aiya, i believe apperance is the 1st thing u see, if u are given a chocie, will u choose to live with a hot slim and beautiful girl for the rest of your live or a ugly fat or something la...or for girls, will u choose someone who as hot as bratt pit or 8 liong kam ( HK guy) of course both of them love u as much as u love them.. so which one will u choose..

Hey why can't I call a fat person fat?

Indeed. It's a fact that you are fat or full or whichever way you look at it. Take it on the chin and improve.

Face the reality people that are more handsome or beautiful tend to have GF and BF

Appreciation of beautiful things is built into our genetics.

Attraction to good looking people is a very natural thing, because good looks = good genes, and our bodies tell us that *ahem*-ing with people with good genes = better chance at their children turning out to be good looking as well, therefore better chance of them passing down their genes.

There's alot of scientific studies on this subject, where they found that even babies preferred to look at beautiful people.

Of course, there are other factors that contribute to this. Nowadays people lead less active lifestyles and as a result become fat. Societal preferences today are that people who are fit, are more attractive than fat people, because it implies that they have time (or have a strong discipline to make time) and can afford to keep themselves in shape.

It also shows a strong dedication to persevere in accomplishing a goal, and simply keeping fit requires changing one's lifestyle completely, which means sacrificing the leisurely lifestyle of being a couch potato.

Its a complete reversal of ancient times where fat people were regarded as beautiful, as only rich people could afford to relax and eat all they want, but peasants could not.

Still, members of the opposite sex will generally appreciate and be attracted to people who make a strong effort to improve and maintain their physical appearance.

For example, if you compare a guy who goes about in public dressed smartly and has taken care of his personal hygene and appearance; with a similar guy who goes about in slippers, singlet and shorts who reeks of BO and hair that hasn't been washed in weeks... i'm sure you'll agree that the former is far more attractive than the latter. The same goes for female equivalent.

Yep, but not in all cases. There are also some good looking people who don't have a GF/BF becos they choose not to...

Also, it can get annoying when everywhere u go, people give you "the look."

There are also disadvantages with looking good...but many people assume that good looking people have it all easy. Not.

Face the reality la...
Movie Industry
Look at India country... many years ago, you can see plum women dancing around on Indian movie. But nowadays, you can only see non-fat women dancing around...

Singing Industry
Look at all the singer, do you see any unattractive gal singing nowadays???

Acting Industry
You still see rare fat women in acting industry... but its rare

Modeling/News Industry
Can you find any fat women? yes, but very rare...

All the above indicates gal's best attribute are pretty & slim to the world

So, if you want to attract guy, you have to start slimming down, and apply cosmetic/beauty item
But if a gal have natural physical beauty, it take little effort for her to attract guy

This post has been edited by arthurlwf: Feb 23 2009, 01:42 AM

My opinion...

If her face is decent, but she is chubby...

I will go out with her and exercise together

Indeed. Which begs the question, why do people see fat as an insult and not skinny? It's both ends of body image, so both should weigh equally on the insult scale. Yet, doesn't seem to be a big deal to be skinny.
True.

inner beauty is most important
if guy wana like u because of ur look then u can just dump that guy and find another
those guys are USELESS

Appearance Doesn't matter.

The inner beauty doesn't fade as fast as the outer


More Beauty = Higher Maintenance