It does matter but also depends on how you act upon it
does appearance matters?, pretty/ugly, fat/thin, still human?
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 Feb 23 2009, 03:23 PM
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Feb 23 2009, 09:04 PM
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welcome to the real cruel world. U remind me when i just finish secondary school and goin into college. I was an ugly, nasty pimples infected looking guy. and Im very skinny looking frail like a pole dat time, and im not tall either. even my boyish effeminate face didn't help me to get lucky with girls.
But hey i have a nice heart, i was naive, pure and way more honest than i could ever be rite now. But hey do girls consider dat? hell no... But boy was i a late bloomer, as i went matured thru time, my face looks better, i gain weight, i look better than i ever was, i shrugged off my boyish frail look, my jawline looks more define, i look more manly now, thou i never totally able to ditch those boyish face. and i notice girls like me better now, its just common sense. don't just say only guys consider girls beauty, girls oso judge guys the same as well. ask your female frens to buck up and improve. where there is will, there will be changes. just obey the law of nature if you wana end up with better life n happiness. don't expect the law of nature to change itself to fit you.  |
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Feb 23 2009, 09:15 PM
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i feel u TS >"<
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Feb 23 2009, 09:56 PM
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pic to attract some one to get to know u more in future....
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Feb 23 2009, 10:45 PM
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QUOTE(Bakmoi @ Feb 23 2009, 02:05 AM) Appearance Doesn't matter. yes this is true The inner beauty doesn't fade as fast as the outer More Beauty = Higher Maintenance  last time my outer is ugly but when i open my pants it is still ugly but now as time grow i am matured man i am still ugly outerly but when i pull down my pants people will appreciate my inner beauty SO BIG SO NICE |
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Feb 23 2009, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(mizzvee @ Jan 18 2008, 11:55 PM) i feel that nowadays, almost everyone judges people by their appearance. so what if they are ugly/fat/imperfect? they never allow these people to show their inner beauty and they shun them just like that. People aren't realistic, they are superficial, both boys and girls.for instance, online meeting new people. "do you have a picture?" , "can i see your picture?", "do you have a photo of yourself?" the first thing some people ask is to see the picture of the person their chatting with. their reason? "i just wanna know who am i chatting with so i don't feel like i'm talking to a stranger." ok fine. if this is the case. its kinda acceptable. but once the picture is being shown, the person who requested for the picture will stop talking to the other person if he/she is not good looking. i admit it happened to me a couple of times, (yes, i'm not PRETTY, BUT AT LEAST I'M NOT EVIL!) . and it happened to a few of my friends too. i have a friend who liked a guy, and she kinda hinted to him that she has feelings for him. the guy got the message but he told his friend that he will never accept her as his girlfriend just because she is fat and ugly! and she is one of the sweetest girl i've ever met. WTF? why why why is this happening?? why are people so realistic?  does it mean that only people with good looks are able to make new friends? how bout those that are NOT pretty/handsome/cute/PERFECT/WHATEVER? OPINIONS PLEASE!  Some unattractive girls/guys give of bad vibes, like desperation or pushy, etc. So the first hurdle is the battle against self, if they have got that settled than the rest should be a piece of cake. So instead of complaining here you should try encouraging your friends to be the type of person that attracts others, i don't mean looks but to build true inner beauty. Amongst all the girls in my circle the one that has caught my eye isn't the prettiest but the one whom i know would be a great mum, a great friend, a great wife and a great person in general.  I'm a little of how both guys and girls are only taking care of their looks but letting their characters rot, in time to come we will all look gorgeously similar but have utterly bland personalities. Added on February 23, 2009, 10:53 pm QUOTE(max_cavalera @ Feb 23 2009, 09:04 PM) welcome to the real cruel world. U remind me when i just finish secondary school and goin into college. I was an ugly, nasty pimples infected looking guy. and Im very skinny looking frail like a pole dat time, and im not tall either. even my boyish effeminate face didn't help me to get lucky with girls. haha, yup. I went through a similar faze when i was in my mid teens with pimples and stuff got the same treatment.But hey i have a nice heart, i was naive, pure and way more honest than i could ever be rite now. But hey do girls consider dat? hell no... But boy was i a late bloomer, as i went matured thru time, my face looks better, i gain weight, i look better than i ever was, i shrugged off my boyish frail look, my jawline looks more define, i look more manly now, thou i never totally able to ditch those boyish face. and i notice girls like me better now, its just common sense. don't just say only guys consider girls beauty, girls oso judge guys the same as well. ask your female frens to buck up and improve. where there is will, there will be changes. just obey the law of nature if you wana end up with better life n happiness. don't expect the law of nature to change itself to fit you. This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Feb 23 2009, 11:00 PM |
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Feb 23 2009, 11:05 PM
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QUOTE(max_cavalera @ Feb 23 2009, 09:04 PM) welcome to the real cruel world. U remind me when i just finish secondary school and goin into college. I was an ugly, nasty pimples infected looking guy. and Im very skinny looking frail like a pole dat time, and im not tall either. even my boyish effeminate face didn't help me to get lucky with girls. I with U But hey i have a nice heart, i was naive, pure and way more honest than i could ever be rite now. But hey do girls consider dat? hell no... But boy was i a late bloomer, as i went matured thru time, my face looks better, i gain weight, i look better than i ever was, i shrugged off my boyish frail look, my jawline looks more define, i look more manly now, thou i never totally able to ditch those boyish face. and i notice girls like me better now, its just common sense. don't just say only guys consider girls beauty, girls oso judge guys the same as well. ask your female frens to buck up and improve. where there is will, there will be changes. just obey the law of nature if you wana end up with better life n happiness. don't expect the law of nature to change itself to fit you.  , We re staying a cruel world which we judge ppl by looking at the physical of the person. Appearance DOES matters , Packaging DOES matters .......it doesnt matters whether is a Human or an Item. Guy like to look at beautyful and nice dressing Gal. Gal like to look at tall , handsome & nice dressing Guy. I was once a very FAT dude more than 100kg.... now me only 70kg... my jaw is sharper now. After i lost weight.. i can buy smaller cloth & wear smaller pants(straight-cut)..better dress-up. I still live in this same world..... but the world see me differently , ever since. People are more happpy seeing me .... include gal as well. Till today, sometimes i still ask myself ..... if i grow fat again... will i get same treatment from everyone again  Till today i never stop exercise.... i dun to go back to the old world.  I believe :- Since Law of Nature will never change... Then, i have to change in order to adapt the world. (But Bill Gates has changed the World, which i'm not capable of) |
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Feb 23 2009, 11:14 PM
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you are just only , human.
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Feb 23 2009, 11:50 PM
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If you're ugly/fat/thin, as long you know how to package yourself will do
Everyone has his/her own style. But if you're short, nothing can be helped LOL |
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Apr 7 2009, 03:45 AM
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omg! this thread is still going after 1 whole year!
lols..i'm back and yes... appearance do matter!  so people, go for plastic surgery! =X nah..just be yourself and you're pretty =) at least now i believe so  who cares about those who judge me from my looks? i know i'm PRETTY! and that's enough! lols  |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:02 AM
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QUOTE(mizzvee @ Apr 7 2009, 03:45 AM) omg! this thread is still going after 1 whole year! But can plastic surgery do a complete makeover? Most plastic surgery i've heard is about nose or chin implant etc etc, just to make them look better then before but can plastic surgery do a total makeover, i mean look totally like different person, only much much better?lols..i'm back and yes... appearance do matter! so people, go for plastic surgery! =X nah..just be yourself and you're pretty =) at least now i believe so who cares about those who judge me from my looks? i know i'm PRETTY! and that's enough! lols |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:16 AM
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Wow...just noticed this thread. Hmm.....somehow i found this comic related.
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Apr 7 2009, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE(joe_star @ Apr 7 2009, 09:16 AM) Wow...just noticed this thread. Hmm.....somehow i found this comic related. Kantoi-ed» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:23 AM
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reality is, it does matters...
Stop saying it isn't...or you are actually in a different planet. Obvious example, even if it wasnt about love/relationship... someone who is so talented cant be a singer/actor/actress/model because of their appearance(very rare) In relationship, if you're new in school/office...the percentage of you to get noticed/socialized by people around u is higher if you're good looking. no matter how u think of appearance isnt important, think again... world isn't fair... many good people are out there, but without 1st impression, it's hard for chicks/hotties dig it. Just my harsh truth opinion ^^ |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:24 AM
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Hahaha TS you should meet this guy with his story regarding a fat girl who confess to him in class
http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...0396&hl=suicide |
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Apr 7 2009, 10:56 AM
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same as everyone in this forum and everyone in this threat replying, they don't give a shit but just words to comfort you, in reality, no one give a damn, guys just want to shag girls head off and head to bed and enjoy sex (thus they look for pretty girl) while girls just want to hit on a guy and get horny (just because they are handsome) , get over it, ugly duck
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Apr 7 2009, 11:05 AM
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why are human beings doesn't born equal, or not too far a gap at least? that makes me think...
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Apr 7 2009, 11:05 AM
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yes, appearance does matter, to a certain extent.
after that, it is the good character and personality that counts. |
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Apr 7 2009, 11:16 AM
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QUOTE why are human beings doesn't born equal, or not too far a gap at least? that makes me think... - Cause God has a funky sense of humour - If we're all the same, it would be a very boring world to live in. It's the differences in the world which makes it fun. |
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Apr 7 2009, 11:18 AM
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Yes.
Now go lock yourself inside the toilet and cry....cry emo! |
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