for some people that are not satisfied with themselves..doens't mean they did ntg..stop labeling them as being lazy..some might have tried and tried but it just so happen that it didn't work out..not everyone have the luck to sucessfully change themselves u know?

heredity also plays a role and genes factor come into play and certain stuff u cant just change it because it's ingrain in you..for example being fat..yes environmental and other social factor does play a part . such as u can go on diet and change ur lifestyle,exercise..etc etc but however no matter how u change it.. there's still a limit to it..cuz there's where genes come into play. there is a limit to what u can change and what u cannot.so does that mean these ppl are lazy ppl?they did ntg to change themselves?

the world today are too realisitic..attractive people yes..they do get more benefits and advantage. this is also because of stereoptype and labeling ..ppl usually will associate everything good to u if u are attractive.example if u are pretty..ppl usually will think u are nice,friendly,charming and etc etc too..that's why ppl will want to get to know u. if only we could do away with such stereotypes and labeling, appearance itself doesn't matter. ppl would want to get to know u no matter how u look because then everyone of us would just be a blank piece of paper with no labels attached.

sadly that aint' the case..we are still humans after all..but however there are some extreme ppl who only want to be near and make frens with attractive ppl and they shun those ugly fat or average looking ppl.do they actually deserve such treatment?put urself in their shoes first and think b4 they act. I've also seen many cases where ppl look down and shun these ppl but once they become pretty they start talking and being frens with them..it's so obvious and fake. in the first place..if did they think about the consequences of their actions when they look down on such ppl?these ppl might already have low self esteem and by doing that ur actions hurt them and they might even sink lower into their self despair and how could u expect these ppl to have the motivation to change themselves if they are already so depressed?and society and ppl around them keep confirming their distorted perception of themselves? I mean not all ppl are like that..some sucessfully did manage to fight their way and change themselves, but that is a minority. majority of ppl might felt what the point of changing themselves when ppl already treating them like that?yes, u may say that lagi u should be determined and motivate urself but u are not that person experiencing it, when u are depressed, is it so easily overcome?they will need support and help to improve themselves but these ppl are only constantly discouraging them.easier said then done.so nxt time before u openly insult an fat ugly person think twice. just because they are like that doesn't give u the right to label and insult them.