why why why is this happening?? why are people so realistic? 

does it mean that only people with good looks are able to make new friends?

how bout those that are NOT pretty/handsome/cute/PERFECT/WHATEVER?

OPINIONS PLEASE!     

i believe in beauty in the eyes of beholder.

once a person realise, by the time one age 70, everyone will be the same, wrinkly old prune. beauty or perfectionist doesn't matter then, personality does. so if your "perfect" guy is a jerk, would you like to live with a jerk for the rest of your life>? once you seen through this, this thread will not matter much.

yes can't deny the fact that appearance does matter at some point..but as what I've said that doesn't give anyone the right to insult them or judge them..as the saying goes "try not to judge the book by the cover"..sadly in reality how many of us actually do that..just because they don't look attractive doesn't me we have the right to give them a "death sentence" by totally avoiding them or associating them with negative thoughts and characteristics.