guys have thier pressure too just like gals having period.. dun like to talk much.. coz they will never understand just like gals said when they are having period rite?

guys mind consist of mainly sex

hi..actually guys too care about their gal. sometime, they do not want to tell their gal that they are having problem because they do not want their gals to worry. regardng they have lots to talk to their friend in mamak shops, that not really true..not all guys are like that.

how old is ur bf? so if after you talked to him things oso not improving then you might consider checking on him? wether he curi makan boh? hehe

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Correct 1 point to you 2


Part correct 1/2 point to you


Correct 1 point to you


Practically is depends on which guy you going out with. If the guy is gentle and caring definitely a lot of things will taken into consideration. Your feelings, emotion, living, health and etc etc.. if the guy you go out with is those perverted type in which morning and night jz thinking of having fun wif you, then they practically will care bout the bed type, quilt, pillow, shower, bath tub and etc etc.. so is dont care how a person is. as long as they love you and care bout you.. every human is different..

As for me myself..
1.GF
2.Family
3.Dota
4.CS
5.Forum
6.Work
etc etc..

the best way to understand a guy is to " A S K " & " O B S E R V E D " & " U N D E R S T A N D "
same thing as guys wan to understand gal.
if you dont ask you never know
you ask you know 40%
you observe you got 30%
you understand you got 30%

Find a good time to ask. Of cos not fighting time la.. In time where both of you is laughing for something..In time where you can serious talk. In time you and him enjoy the moment very much. Then thats when you ask. And dont ask something that potong steam. cos guy oso some is very siu hei(small gas) 1.. Potong steam then they prefer dowan talk d. Then you have to figure out urself jor.. So pandai pandai lo..

All the best.!!

the only think i can say is 80% of guys out there only think about sex...
SEX is the top priority for guys...

guys actually easier to understand, what ever they do is more obviously than girls...
girls are harder sometimes what they wan is not exactly they expected to get...

1)IS your bf looks moody, but he never want to tell you what happen to him?

Be quiet and just observe the situation. Ask him once if he refuse to tell, just be quiet and make sure you will always right beside him. Why? When you are moody about something and your bf wish to know about it, you too will refuse to tell. He then will just quiet and be right beside you.

my ex bf was like that...so there are more and more misunderstandings between both of us. end up we broke up. but as a "spectator", wat i can say is....in this case, i think he doesnt hide anything from you. he shows you his mood but hide it from his frens. if he talks a lot with his frens and makes you feel uneasy, don follow him next time. just stay at home. if he doesnt want to tell you, don ask him, give him ur support silently.

as a guy, sometimes i also feel that my gf does not understand me.. in what way that i can do to make her understand me automatically? and not everytime until i tell her then only she knows....

if want me to tell her everytime then i feel that no meaning lor....

anyone want to "adjust" my thinking? thanks.

learn to accept or change gf, you can fcuk her to until she understands but that wouldn't be the right way settle this prob. human can't read minds, furthermore she's of the opposite sex and not everybody is born seng mok. maybe in time she will change, cheers
edit: as a guy don't complain too much

This post has been edited by IAmRyan: May 27 2008, 04:15 PM

I think I know why. Since I am a girl, I am just guessing.

The first one I can't answer you, but the 2nd one, I think he's talking about football or some man talk that cannot share with girls.

he's going to dump you

being partners.. he has to tell u what he's thinking, his worries n all.. it's very normal..

then he should even tell it to his gf.. if not later he go curi makan

guessing is a dangerous game........... Gamerz_Paradise got a point there, observe is important..... ppl nowadays dun really look at others

btw, u dun need to really need to understand what you bf is thinking, just try go along, u'll figure out in the end, but may involve some complications sometimes and try not to jsut to conclusion so soon.

hehe i like fehyime term, fellow caveman..........mind to introduce some of them .....

hahaha, depends on the guy ya.
my bf is totally not like that. i'm like that

totally agree wif u !! we wan female to be happy, n fulfil everything tat she needs. sumtimes when we r moody, part of da reason is come from da female. such as, how we wan 2 make da female happy? and how can we earn lots of money 2 let the female spend!

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Added on May 29, 2008, 9:01 pmTS, if ur bf looks moody bt he doesnt wan 2 tell u anything.. keep quiet n give her a deep hug, tell him tat, u'll oweys be there for him..

This post has been edited by wesi_lim: May 29 2008, 09:01 PM

i do understand what on my bf's mind actually... and he also understands me.

actually i think he understands me better than i understand myself lol

To be really exact, sometimes I don't really understand what my boyfriend is thinking actually. Well you know guys. They always want to portray an egoism in them by not sharing their problems with girls. That is a bad thing don't you think?

i know. always think of sex. haha

i've read all those reply from here..some how..i do agree wif guys saying...
although im a gal..coz i face dis probelm wif my ex b4..by then...from the other way of thinking...if u r in trouble..would u like ppl keep asking?? on tat...once he is ur bf...ur shld try 2 trust him n trust urself oso...he might hv so excuse of being not telling gf...or bla bla bla...if ur bf realy chosen not 2 say anything..for sure...u shld give him a lovely hug and say "i'll alwaz wif u..if u chosen 2 tell me ur probelm..i'll be ur gud listener" ....
tats some of my opinio lah...hehe...

wah, ur good,

dont ask, dont tell policy