i've read all those reply from here..some how..i do agree wif guys saying...
although im a gal..coz i face dis probelm wif my ex b4..by then...from the other way of thinking...if u r in trouble..would u like ppl keep asking?? on tat...once he is ur bf...ur shld try 2 trust him n trust urself oso...he might hv so excuse of being not telling gf...or bla bla bla...if ur bf realy chosen not 2 say anything..for sure...u shld give him a lovely hug and say "i'll alwaz wif u..if u chosen 2 tell me ur probelm..i'll be ur gud listener" ....
tats some of my opinio lah...hehe...