Majority mouth say single tfk JAV, but actually with 2-3 kids liao.

/k words can belief meh, MCA man ? U tell me, hahahaha

Will you ?

I would, for sure in a heartbeat. No doubt.

This post has been edited by cms: Apr 23 2025, 02:11 PM

Modern school can only give the most basic exposure; the real cultivation is at home. We should stop blaming the school for moral etiquette guidance; this stuff should be guided by the family. School should focus more on other subjects.

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This is the extract of the Chapter 1 from Chapter 1 (序致篇) of The Yan Family Instructions (颜氏家训) ~ one of the most extensively written family instruction for Yan's lineage / clan:

Insight from Chapter 1: Cultivating Virtue Through Daily Practice
Core Insight:

Yan Zhitui emphasizes that virtue is not merely theoretical knowledge, but rather a set of behaviors and values cultivated and reinforced through daily practice. He identifies key virtues—such as sincerity, filial piety, humility, respect, frugality, kindness, generosity, and harmony—that must become habitual and natural, woven seamlessly into one's everyday actions and interactions.

Why it Matters:
Virtue becomes authentic only when it is consistently lived out. By intentionally embedding virtues into daily life, these values move from abstract ideals to concrete realities, shaping character, guiding decisions, and stabilizing family relationships.

Modern Application:
Today, people often struggle with aligning their daily actions with their stated values. Yan’s instruction reminds us to bridge the gap between knowing and doing. Regular self-reflection, practical rituals (such as family meetings or deliberate acts of kindness), and clear teaching by example can transform family dynamics and positively shape future generations.

Does she have any limitation on her end at the time of such treatment was given to you? What happened in detail?

single stronk wahmen dun need no man!

Not surprised, the same type that worship money, if can’t bring anything on the table and continue to waste money in terms of taking care of them, better dispose even own mother.

Can save money maaa

Unless father mother got money and properties then it’s a different story.

Really retard

This case not survived by kids, single to date

If most siblings are dead and never keep in touch with extended family over the years this will be a reality for most single folks out there

while i emphatic to her story, it is still one sided and there maybe aspects not shared.

In any case, abandon in hospital is not the correct way to do it.

How will ccp China society cope when majority of the one child policy generation reach old age? Also all those one child family here.

This post has been edited by diffyhelman2: Apr 23 2025, 02:43 PM

This. My late aunt, when she was sick, every fortnight also I went to visit her for almost a year.

She was my “mum” in KL since my parents were in Kelate. Register in Lembah Beringin also she and her husband send me. Every semester holiday also they pick me up and send me back. Even job interview also my uncle drove me to the location (if not accessible by LRT).

My other aunties & uncles. Sick also I don’t give a damn. Die only I go pay respect. That’s about it.

This post has been edited by blanket84: Apr 23 2025, 02:44 PM

Yeah man sobering thought

Hence dont lose contact with your siblings and their offsprings

Might sound selfish but you really might need them down the road

I talked about this with a few single friends of mine, and they told me that since there will be a lot of single old folks in the future, old folks institutions will be a lot common, and they can also look after one another.

Yea, I'm gen Y myself, and I find that a lot of my single peers don't have a care in the world, just simply spending all their salaries every month.

Just remember one thing, never ever transfer ownership to your children as long as you're still in this world.
One of my parents' friend transfered his house to his son who has always appeared to be a good and filial son. Soon after the transfer, his son changed his attitude and stopped visiting his father.

Nowadays, hard enough to even rely on your own children to take care of you, and you're talking about nephews and niece?
Heck, I don't even know how my son will treat me when I'm old, that's why I always tell my wife no need to invest so much on him, we should accumulate our savings instead.

even after I finished spm
till this day she calls me a piece of shit when I meet every time
wtf, this kind of woman never be grateful when everyone around her gives her allowances

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Apr 23 2025, 03:21 PM

Any law that can protect me from getting emotionally abused?

You know yourself best I guess

You the one that open the topic about why ppl don't want to have children, why only one children eggs in one basket

ayam, dont need mahal mahal big robot. just a small murah 1.5inci robot is enough. hotdayum

This post has been edited by nasiputih: Apr 23 2025, 03:28 PM

WHAT IS THAT

True.


Earning 10K is top 20%

But sendiri living Cost ady 8k easily.

How to feed your parents ?

This post has been edited by Nihonmaru: Apr 23 2025, 03:47 PM

Send the kung fu robots to "take care" of them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/LOOK_CHINA/comment...佳应对方式



This post has been edited by JohnL77: Apr 23 2025, 08:09 PM

All the forever alone got hope liao. Another 20 years will materialize. Who needs family when you have AI robots.