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Abandoned In HKL: Mdm Soh’s Silent Cry For Family, The Price of Progress:Elders Left Behind
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Apr 24 2025, 12:24 AM
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QUOTE(TiramisuCoffee @ Apr 23 2025, 09:15 PM) Msian avg health span is 65 yo… if u take care of yourself… its best if u buy a house, cos ppl x rent to u when u r old… Alternatively later on book yourself into a retirement home if money is x a problem. Many westerners do tat without hoping their children or family would, b4 tat they ady living alone without wailing loudly like in Msia, we, esp type C will b following this trend… End of day, its all about money isnt it.. got money, ppl will visit, can go better homes, can even stay on cruise ships travelling d world … whatever it is just take good care of your health. Got money no health oso waiting 4 death only, no use… Ayuhhh cari dan simpan lebig duittt
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knumskul
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Apr 24 2025, 12:41 AM
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Apr 23 2025, 02:44 PM) Yeah man sobering thought Hence dont lose contact with your siblings and their offsprings Might sound selfish but you really might need them down the road Susah if relationship with siblings is shit but ok with offsprings
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K.I.T.T
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Apr 24 2025, 01:51 AM
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QUOTE(Slowpokeking @ Apr 23 2025, 10:25 AM) No children? Her siblings same age as her. Expects her niece or nephew to take care of her? Susah jadi orang tua. Tua sakit pun orang susah. tua sihat pun orang tak mau jaga
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johnkor
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Apr 24 2025, 02:10 AM
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Trust me , I work in this field and I always felt that sometimes the family just don’t want to have a burden therefore she is always in the hospital and rely on nurses to look after , makes no difference between old folks home
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SUSM4A1
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Apr 24 2025, 09:31 AM
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QUOTE(ecrl @ Apr 23 2025, 08:09 PM) I think my lifespan is around 50. I drie good car, but I don't buy house. still renting?
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ecrl
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Apr 24 2025, 01:35 PM
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Apr 24 2025, 09:31 AM) Duduk rumah pusaka.
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SUSM4A1
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Apr 24 2025, 01:36 PM
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QUOTE(ecrl @ Apr 24 2025, 01:35 PM) kira own house la tu
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Panda12
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Apr 24 2025, 01:38 PM
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QUOTE(seriosekitt3h @ Apr 23 2025, 12:11 PM) Maybe that's why Malay breeds because they don't want to be disposable when grow old like this. I did a video shoot for a gambling company in rumah orang tua, sadly to say, they all look, how to say this .. terbiar? and all of them are Chinese. I still remember one old fella got his skull 1/4 gone but still lives. I live in a equal balance of Iban, Bidayuh, Cina and Malay society for context. Are you from sibu?
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hbm90
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Apr 24 2025, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Apr 23 2025, 10:40 AM) Thats why la. If u are single no kids. Be nice to your niece/nephew. Buy gaming rig 15k as graduation gift. They will remember u their whole life. Use brain a bit. In family also must do PR. To be perfectly honest. Not easy to end up old sick and alone. U must have done a lot of fuck up to reach that level. Everyone ends up old, sick and alone eventually. Even you're married or not married, children or no children. Best is to have your own escape plan. Once old and sickly already, itu bucket kasi tendang. If you know what I mean..
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hoonanoo
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Apr 24 2025, 01:48 PM
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QUOTE(seriosekitt3h @ Apr 23 2025, 11:11 AM) Maybe that's why Malay breeds because they don't want to be disposable when grow old like this. I did a video shoot for a gambling company in rumah orang tua, sadly to say, they all look, how to say this .. terbiar? and all of them are Chinese. I still remember one old fella got his skull 1/4 gone but still lives. I live in a equal balance of Iban, Bidayuh, Cina and Malay society for context. I think got cases of Melei children abandoned their old parents also
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hoonanoo
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Apr 24 2025, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(johnkor @ Apr 24 2025, 02:10 AM) Trust me , I work in this field and I always felt that sometimes the family just don’t want to have a burden therefore she is always in the hospital and rely on nurses to look after , makes no difference between old folks home but there r old folks home NGO that offers free care.
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hbm90
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Apr 24 2025, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(haturaya @ Apr 23 2025, 11:13 AM) True... must be genuinely good with niece / nephew. They will come back to you.  They will come back to you? Once you're fully dependent and need someone for 24/7 care, change diaper everything. Own children also will find this difficult to do, expect nephew/nieces to do? You're living in La La land my friend. Time to wake up.
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s[H]sIkuA
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Apr 24 2025, 01:51 PM
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this is very common now sad to see if no children still understandable but those still got children but never bother to take care of them
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SUSseriosekitt3h
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Apr 24 2025, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(Panda12 @ Apr 24 2025, 01:38 PM) kuching, but i lived in sibu in my late 20s for 4 years
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Zot
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Apr 24 2025, 01:59 PM
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QUOTE(K.I.T.T @ Apr 24 2025, 01:51 AM) Susah jadi orang tua. Tua sakit pun orang susah. tua sihat pun orang tak mau jaga Kalau kaya, semua berebut mahu jaga...
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hbm90
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Apr 24 2025, 01:59 PM
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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Apr 23 2025, 02:43 PM) This. My late aunt, when she was sick, every fortnight also I went to visit her for almost a year. She was my “mum” in KL since my parents were in Kelate. Register in Lembah Beringin also she and her husband send me. Every semester holiday also they pick me up and send me back. Even job interview also my uncle drove me to the location (if not accessible by LRT). My other aunties & uncles. Sick also I don’t give a damn. Die only I go pay respect. That’s about it. Apa this this? You just go visit only. I assume not have to take care or change diaper or anything. This konon.
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Fubar20
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Apr 24 2025, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Apr 24 2025, 01:49 PM) but there r old folks home NGO that offers free care. Where? Please name some places. No such thing as free.
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blanket84
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Apr 24 2025, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(hbm90 @ Apr 24 2025, 01:59 PM) Apa this this? You just go visit only. I assume not have to take care or change diaper or anything. This konon. Kalau tak faham, jangan menyampuk. Bodoh tu simpan sikit.
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Heroicage
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Apr 24 2025, 04:22 PM
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tiada asset....tiada duit siapa char siew, siew kai will come.....
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hbm90
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Apr 24 2025, 04:31 PM
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QUOTE(blanket84 @ Apr 24 2025, 04:03 PM) Kalau tak faham, jangan menyampuk. Bodoh tu simpan sikit. Eleh, visit every fortnight only but acting like doing fulltime care.
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